Friends with Benefits

[Revivia]

I am interested in having sex with this one girl and she told me she isn't really ready for a relationship right now because of a breakup a few months ago. That being said, should I be upfront and honest with her and tell her I want to have sex with her and be friends with benefits with her?

 

[Iceberg]

That type of thing tends to happen on its own. It's not like two people sit down and form a contract about it. I don't think discussing it is going to make her horny for you.

Did she tell you that thing about "not wanting a relationship" after you asked her out? Because that's probably just her way of saying she doesn't like you.

 

[Revivia]

I never really asked her out. I just asked her about her prior relationship.

 

[horaholic]

Dont ever explicitly tell a girl you want sex. Just let it happen. And dont ever pay attention when girls say they aren't ready for a relationship. They usually end up in one, three days after they shoot you down. just play it off like you are cool with whatever, and act completely non-needy. Tell her (lie) a story about a FWB you once had, and how you are still good friends to this day.