Friends with "a few benefits"

[madgame]

I posted that friends with benefits thread but my first language aint english so ..lets say a friend with some benefits like doing stuff kissing and everything...Anyways sorry if my thread was written kinda unclearly.All I really wanna know is:

WHAT can I do to turn a friend who thinks im hot and wants to kiss me and stuff into my girlfriend and does it play a big role that she thinks she cant have a crush on me?
Do you guys have any advice what I could do?

 

[krd]

Did she actually say to you that she doesn't want to be your girlfriend? Also what do you mean by "she thinks she can't have a crush on me"? Do you mean that she wants to keep the crush a secret from everyone else? Has she kissed you yet? Cause obviously if she has, she can no longer deny she has a crush on you.

 

[drixsa]

why dont you just hook up with her??

im sure if you stick at it long enough shell be dieing to tie you down

 

[madgame]

Yea I have kissed her and I dont know its really confusin to me too. She says I mean a lot to her and she also said she thinks Im sooo hot but on the other hand she doesnt think that she might want a relationship with me in future, because the feelings arent there or whateva....(girls r strange I know)