Friends Holding Me Back

[Eklipse]

I feel as if a need new friends. I know they are my friends but right now I feel if they are holding me back. They never really go out and do anything. Were not exactly losers or nerds in high school were athletes and such but were really just nobodies. I mean we never go to parties, never go out, never get chicks, exc. I don't know I always try to go out a do stuff but I can never get them out of there house all they want to do is play video games. I stopped wasting my time doing that and now I have a bunch of free time in which I use to work out but besides that and sports I feel I really have no life. All of my friends are really chrisitan and completely whipped by there parents. I bet even if they were invited to a party they wouldn't go because they would be uncomfortable around people drinking or afraid of getting caught. I on the other hand want to experience that but people view me as a goody goody cuz i hang out with them. I have smoked weed before and gotten drunk at a party with my cousin but besides that nothing much. I'm pretty open minded and have freedoms kids would kill for. I want to change they way people view me but anyway does anyone have any advice you can give me? O yeah i'm a junior in high school

 

[Lust]

I feel as if a need new friends. I know they are my friends but right now I feel if they are holding me back. They never really go out and do anything. Were not exactly losers or nerds in high school were athletes and such but were really just nobodies. I mean we never go to parties, never go out, never get chicks, exc. I don't know I always try to go out a do stuff but I can never get them out of there house all they want to do is play video games. I stopped wasting my time doing that and now I have a bunch of free time in which I use to work out but besides that and sports I feel I really have no life. All of my friends are really chrisitan and completely whipped by there parents. I bet even if they were invited to a party they wouldn't go because they would be uncomfortable around people drinking or afraid of getting caught. I on the other hand want to experience that but people view me as a goody goody cuz i hang out with them. I have smoked weed before and gotten drunk at a party with my cousin but besides that nothing much. I'm pretty open minded and have freedoms kids would kill for. I want to change they way people view me but anyway does anyone have any advice you can give me? O yeah i'm a junior in high school

I have a similar problem, though not quite like yours.

My mates are fine with women, they are great buddies, we are all considered the "cool" kids or whatever.

The thing is, they aren't into sarging, they can't seem to get into it. My best friend is skeptical and negative, but i think it's his excuse of not having the balls to get started.

If you are surrounded by weak people, they will drag you down.

Go find some new friends.

 

[operationivy412]

i know how you feel, im a junior to, and my friends used to never go to parties and now they do, but theyre the type of kids that get reckless and destroy everything and get all sloppy now

plus theyre either super immature around girls or theyre total afc's

i say just find a party and get them pumped up to go or watch any of the american pie movies, they always get me pumped because its about going to highschool parties and just having a blast
or give them a little movtivational speech and get really into it, that might get them out of their shells
sorry if they seem kinda lame im just pulling random ideas out of my a$$