Friends girlfriends being too flirty with you

[Pandora]

I have noticed that the girlfriends of my close guy friends tend to throw the p**sy at me in subtle ways. This happens when the boyfriend and girlfriend are in a long distance relationship but the girl still lives within my city. I have also seen my girlfriends get way too flirty with my guy friends. Sometimes they dance too freaky with with you on the dance floor and its very uncomfortable because your friend is near by. Have you guys noticed this phenomenon? Do women have a mechanism that causes them to be attracted to men within the "tribe". Maybe we are built with an in group attraction switch.

These girls become way to comfortable with you much too fast. They offer to hang with you alone without their boyfriend (my close friend). One girl recently asked to go hang out alone! I never told my friend though. It is difficult to prove this because they can always use the plausible deniability of just being friendly. If you snitch on them they will say that they just wanted to innocently hang out.

The funny thing is that if I met these girls as strangers they would never give me play. It is because I am familiar that they give me any traction. I would never ever fu*k my friends girlfriend. I never have and never will even though I have had opportunities. I would not be able to forgive myself. It is tempting though but the whole situation disgusts me.

 

[btownbuck2012]

I had my best friends wife pull some **** like this several months back and it absolutely appalled me. I have basically distanced myself from her ever since.

What’s truly sick is how they will do this and just completely move on as if it didnt happen, not even an apology. Now if a guy made a pass at a friends wife and she blew him out about it he’d probably be ejected from the social circle or cause a very serious beef with the friend who he offended, as should happen. But with women, there is no accountability from them whatsoever.

My friends wife came home in an Uber drunk out of her mind. The only reason I saw this was because I was sitting outside our place smoking a cigar. She was in the Uber for 30 minutes before she got out and at one point the fuc*king car rocked. I kid you not. My friend the next day sent me a text inquiring as to whether the Uber drive was a man or a woman. I told him it was a man and that his wife shouldn’t be out acting like that now that she’s married. His response was “well no one should take advantage of a drunk person”. His mind literally jumped right over the possibility that she should be held accountable for getting in an Uber **** faced and doing god knows what in there for 30 minutes after it park at our place.... she then rubbed my arm and asked me how come I don’t come over to their place more when just she’s there...Unbelievable.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I had my best friends wife pull some **** like this several months back and it absolutely appalled me. I have basically distanced myself from her ever since.

What’s truly sick is how they will do this and just completely move on as if it didnt happen, not even an apology. Now if a guy made a pass at a friends wife and she blew him out about it he’d probably be ejected from the social circle or cause a very serious beef with the friend who he offended, as should happen. But with women, there is no accountability from them whatsoever.

My friends wife came home in an Uber drunk out of her mind. The only reason I saw this was because I was sitting outside our place smoking a cigar. She was in the Uber for 30 minutes before she got out and at one point the fuc*king car rocked. I kid you not. My friend the next day sent me a text inquiring as to whether the Uber drive was a man or a woman. I told him it was a man and that his wife shouldn’t be out acting like that now that she’s married. His response was “well no one should take advantage of a drunk person”. His mind literally jumped right over the possibility that she should be held accountable for getting in an Uber **** faced and doing god knows what in there for 30 minutes after it park at our place.... she then rubbed my arm and asked me how come I don’t come over to their place more when just she’s there...Unbelievable.

When the car was rocking you knew she was in there?

 

[devilkingx2]

Step 1. Determine if she was really flirting or if it's in your head. Sometimes a compliment is just a compliment and a hangout/making plans is friendly

Step 2. Determine if her man knows and if she's always like that or he's okay with it (some guys don't care who she flirts with as long as she doesn't go home with anyone, other guys have different ideas of whats allowed and not allowed in a relationship)

Once you've done that you should tell your friend if you're good friends and like each other, just give him a heads up and don't mention yourself "hey bro, i think i saw your girl getting flirty with another guy the other day, keep your guard up"

I do not recommend doing anything with her unless you don't like him and don't want to be a good guy/friend/person. But i also don't recommend trying to make drama with huge accusations you can't prove that she can easily lie about.

If he's too much of a fool to keep an eyebrow raised for trickery despite any amount of warnings then distance yourself and let things play out as they may unless you get hard evidence.

 

[Alvafe]

I had my best friends wife pull some **** like this several months back and it absolutely appalled me. I have basically distanced myself from her ever since.

What’s truly sick is how they will do this and just completely move on as if it didnt happen, not even an apology. Now if a guy made a pass at a friends wife and she blew him out about it he’d probably be ejected from the social circle or cause a very serious beef with the friend who he offended, as should happen. But with women, there is no accountability from them whatsoever.

My friends wife came home in an Uber drunk out of her mind. The only reason I saw this was because I was sitting outside our place smoking a cigar. She was in the Uber for 30 minutes before she got out and at one point the fuc*king car rocked. I kid you not. My friend the next day sent me a text inquiring as to whether the Uber drive was a man or a woman. I told him it was a man and that his wife shouldn’t be out acting like that now that she’s married. His response was “well no one should take advantage of a drunk person”. His mind literally jumped right over the possibility that she should be held accountable for getting in an Uber **** faced and doing god knows what in there for 30 minutes after it park at our place.... she then rubbed my arm and asked me how come I don’t come over to their place more when just she’s there...Unbelievable.

relative on how idiot is the dude, I saw ones who when a friend told then she was dating around, he came crashin on her hard, the girl was even pissed with the dude telling her BF about her indiscretion, real deal here, is would you tell your friend about it or not, if you do then the very least you are keep things clean, if not can you really complain about girls acting like it was nothing?

 

[btownbuck2012]

When the car was rocking you knew she was in there?

Yeah man. In fact, when the car shook at one point my first thought was “god I hope she isn’t in there” and sure enough 5 minutes later she hops out. That was after sitting in the car for at least a half an hour. This is a self proclaimed “feminist” who is recently married....

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yeah man. In fact, when the car shook at one point my first thought was “god I hope she isn’t in there” and sure enough 5 minutes later she hops out. That was after sitting in the car for at least a half an hour. This is a self proclaimed “feminist” who is recently married....

Well you know cucking their men is part of the agenda. Its control.

Their going to do what the **** they want.

She might not even be extremely sexual. It might just be the bliss and ecstasy she realizes from cheating on her guy. Some are so hell bent on destroying us theyll fvck anyone.

They usually dont give a fvck about a man..

 

[btownbuck2012]

Well you know cucking their men is part of the agenda. Its control.

Their going to do what the **** they want.

She might not even be extremely sexual. It might just be the bliss and extasy she realizes from cheating on her guy. Some are so hell bent on destroying us theyll fvck anyone.

They usually dont give a fvck about a man..

What’s interesting is my friend is a good looking very well educated guy with high social status in the different social circles he’s involved with here in LA, but what I’ve observed through my red pill lense between he and his wife has been upsetting. She clearly controls the frame and is very dominate with him. I remember at the wedding I asked him if i could give a speech and his response was “let me ask my boss”....
I checked with him a bit later and he told me “she said no”...****ing c*nt, this is a guy I’ve been very close with since 6th grade.

I absolutely agree with you it’s about control. Women are so brainwashed that they actually believe it’s their right and the right thing to do to boss their men around and dominate them but by doing this they are actually turned off by their men, who due to brainwashing don’t know any better either, and in turn go out an hoe around. Women are morons man...

 

[mrgoodstuff]

What’s interesting is my friend is a good looking very well educated guy with high social status in the different social circles he’s involved with here in LA, but what I’ve observed through my red pill lense between he and his wife has been upsetting. She clearly controls the frame and is very dominate with him. I remember at the wedding I asked him if i could give a speech and his response was “let me ask my boss”....
I checked with him a bit later and he told me “she said no”...****ing c*nt, this is a guy I’ve been very close with since 6th grade.

I absolutely agree with you it’s about control. Women are so brainwashed that they actually believe it’s their right and the right thing to do to boss their men around and dominate them but by doing this they are actually turned off by their men, who due to brainwashing don’t know any better either, and in turn go out an hoe around. Women are morons man...

The hoeing around is part of the control too. It maintains her independence and personal power away from him.

I bet before marriage she fvcked him alot and now be may not even get puzzy ( check with him on that )

If thats your real friend you need to get him the intel without him knowing it was you.

They are already toast. Look how little respect she has.

 

[btownbuck2012]

I bet before marriage she fvcked him alot and now be may not even get puzzy ( check with him on that )

He has confirmed that he jerks off way more than he has sex, although when we go clubbing out of town he is right along with us single guys trying to get laid. He is very possessive and insecure about his wife’s behavior but he has no problem fu*cking around on her. I think he majorly resents her and his alpha frame he holds up around his friends is simply him trying to maintain his dignity because he can’t around her, based on what I’ve seen.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

He has confirmed that he jerks off way more than he has sex, although when we go clubbing out of town he is right along with us single guys trying to get laid. He is very possessive and insecure about his wife’s behavior but he has no problem fu*cking around on her. I think he majorly resents her and his alpha frame he holds up around his friends is simply him trying to maintain his dignity because he can’t around her, based on what I’ve seen.

If you where to optimize that situation youd fvck someone elses bytch and theyd fvck yours. Since they gonna be cheating anyways. Best recourse is to not be in the position.

 

[btownbuck2012]

I would SERIOUSLY caution anyone against sleeping with a cheating woman, you don't want to develop a taste for that like they have.



I think women in California are the absolute worst about this.

Yeah...there were a few women out here that I met via social circles when I first moved out here who I had genuine interest from but it eventually became a stale male when they realized I wasn’t a push over...

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yeah...there were a few women out here that I met via social circles when I first moved out here who I had genuine interest from but it eventually became a stale male when they realized I wasn’t a push over...

So i worked in Seattle in 2007. I learned from some California females that they would marry a dude knowing theyre going to divorce rape him ahead of time.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

1. More married and taken women blatantly trying to cheat
2. More women blatantly putting me in provider zone

Kinda annoying

How do you avoid provider zone?

 

[Pandora]

she then rubbed my arm and asked me how come I don’t come over to their place more when just she’s there...Unbelievable.

Yup classic move for these types of women. The ole " hey come over when its just me alone move". Its like they have no conscience. I dont think this couple will last too much longer. I give it 5 years before he catches her cheating red handed.

 

[btownbuck2012]

Yup classic move for these types of women. The ole " hey come over when its just me alone move". Its like they have no conscience. I dont think this couple will last too much longer. I give it 5 years before he catches her cheating red handed.

Thevye been together over a decade but are very recently married. Will be interesting to watch although I don’t wish any bad stuff on my friend

 

[Pandora]

Step 1. Determine if she was really flirting or if it's in your head. Sometimes a compliment is just a compliment and a hangout/making plans is friendly

Step 2. Determine if her man knows and if she's always like that or he's okay with it (some guys don't care who she flirts with as long as she doesn't go home with anyone, other guys have different ideas of whats allowed and not allowed in a relationship)

Once you've done that you should tell your friend if you're good friends and like each other, just give him a heads up and don't mention yourself "hey bro, i think i saw your girl getting flirty with another guy the other day, keep your guard up"

I do not recommend doing anything with her unless you don't like him and don't want to be a good guy/friend/person. But i also don't recommend trying to make drama with huge accusations you can't prove that she can easily lie about.

If he's too much of a fool to keep an eyebrow raised for trickery despite any amount of warnings then distance yourself and let things play out as they may unless you get hard evidence.

This is a great list. I am not going to say anything though. He will have to learn the hard way. He will probably catch her cheating. He is a player himself so he will get over it within hours. She is asking for my snapchat and social media stuff recently. I dont know if hangout plans alone are ever friendly. I only met this girl a couple times prior. And add to the mix inappropriate touching, dancing and kisses on the neck when drunk....yeh. But if I was a scumbag my lay count would be significantly higher if I just was a vulture on my friends slutty girlfriends.

 

[Pandora]

Thevye been together over a decade but are very recently married. Will be interesting to watch although I don’t wish any bad stuff on my friend

There was this article that recently came out about the phenomenon of wives cheating. Apparently its on the rise in the last few years. So instead of divorce the trend is to cheat. Divorce does not pay out the cash prizes it once did as most women make as much or more than their husbands. So women would rather stay and cheat. The study found that they were not even unhappy per se. They were just bored. There are two books that have just been released about this trend. Marriage looks worse and worse everyday. CNN did an piece on it...smh

https://www.cnn.com/2017/10/05/health/why-women-cheat-partner/index.html

 

[Pandora]

Same, it's pretty vile. You kind of turn the other way and hope they're just out for attention I guess, if you are the BF. Of course, what they do is disrespectful enough, and they invite me out one on one too, like you said.

Is the girl that invited you out still in the social circle? Does she still make passes at you or is it more subtle. Why do you think they do this? Do they really think that they can cheat on their man within a social circle and no one find out.....da fuq

 

[Pandora]

When a girl cheats with a random dude its bad but almost forgivable. When a girl cheats with your close friend its murder time. Thats exactly how ni***as get shot. The betrayal of a close friend is the worst of all. The consequences are often vicious. At one point I thought my close friend was banging a then current girlfriend ( he was def plotting it). I cant describe the rage I felt. I was going to bash his skull in or atleast break his nose. Luckily we talked it out.