Hya guys,
Got a situation. Its my GF of 2 months birthday this weekend, and she had organised a trip to a theme park today with a group of her friends. This was a few months before we met. Only thing is, due to just one car available there would not have been room for all 6 of us. So I told my GF and her friends to go, so she would not miss out.
However...one of the 'friends' going is a guy my GF has past 'relations' with and Im not entirely comfortable about this. Initially she lied directly about it, then when I found out (through Facebook) she said she lied because she was scared I would leave her, and accused me of being paranoid and insecure.
I told her that the lies were infinately more damaging to us, and that if we have no trust we have nothing. Also after I came home this morning, I get a text from her saying that this other fella cannot go anyways. She may well be telling the truth, but inside I am 70-80% sure she may well be lieing to make me feel better. Whats more our other two 'friends' advised her to lie about this.
I feel pretty p****d for numerous reasons;
1) I feel our relationship is pretty much false because there is no longer any trust. She has no qualms about lieing to my face. I cannot trust her.
2) If she lies to me about this, what else does she lie about?
3) She says she has nothing else to lie about. Dammned if I know
4) I missed out on going to a theme park out of chivalry, and I am instead sat at home on ebay
5) She could be swallowing this guys ***** as I write this wessage. who the hell knows
6) If I have 'let her off' for lieing previously, will she do it again?
Any ideas guys? Any critisism?
Jason, who is bored at home in England. On ebay
Got a situation. Its my GF of 2 months birthday this weekend, and she had organised a trip to a theme park today with a group of her friends. This was a few months before we met. Only thing is, due to just one car available there would not have been room for all 6 of us. So I told my GF and her friends to go, so she would not miss out.
However...one of the 'friends' going is a guy my GF has past 'relations' with and Im not entirely comfortable about this. Initially she lied directly about it, then when I found out (through Facebook) she said she lied because she was scared I would leave her, and accused me of being paranoid and insecure.
I told her that the lies were infinately more damaging to us, and that if we have no trust we have nothing. Also after I came home this morning, I get a text from her saying that this other fella cannot go anyways. She may well be telling the truth, but inside I am 70-80% sure she may well be lieing to make me feel better. Whats more our other two 'friends' advised her to lie about this.
I feel pretty p****d for numerous reasons;
1) I feel our relationship is pretty much false because there is no longer any trust. She has no qualms about lieing to my face. I cannot trust her.
2) If she lies to me about this, what else does she lie about?
3) She says she has nothing else to lie about. Dammned if I know
4) I missed out on going to a theme park out of chivalry, and I am instead sat at home on ebay
5) She could be swallowing this guys ***** as I write this wessage. who the hell knows
6) If I have 'let her off' for lieing previously, will she do it again?
Any ideas guys? Any critisism?
Jason, who is bored at home in England. On ebay
