you think thats bad? let me tell you a little story about me. I dated this girl for a few months and we brokeup. Few years later she pops back into my life and I start developing feelings for her again, not only that but I made the dumb@$$ move of TELLING her so :nono: I wont get into the whole story because it's kind of long but the jist of it was this.....she would call me up out of the blue every few weeks wanting to hangout, I'd be giddy and have thoughts of "yes! she likes me! she wants to hangout! woohoo!". my brain doomed me pretty much. she then got to where she would ask for money for different things. she'd never come right out and ask for it, what she did was tell some ho hum story about how broke she was and how she wish she had the money to pay a bill, buy uniforms for work, pretty much playing on my heart strings knowing the fact that I was a dumb AFC and had feelings for her that I'd be like "here you go honey". guess how many times I ever got paid back? yeah, still waiting.lol Guess when I would see her again? you got it....when she needed money again, shed call me up and say "hey you wanna meet for dinner?" and then shed jump right into her "i need money" routine. I kept thinking if I kept helping her out that she would see I was a "good guy who was always there for her and helped her out"HA! talk about a backfire. I mean, sure, shed give me a quick peck on the lips sometimes to make me THINK she liked me, but then it was back to not hearing from her for weeks at a time. As soon as I would start thinking "you know what, fvck this b!tch" she would pop back all of a sudden and do just enough to make me think otherwise. I finally had had enough after months of this and several hundred dollars given away to "charity". I knew she was seeing other guys, and the fact was she was seeing them and they didnt have to give her any money and they were getting laid! here i was forking over hundreds of $$$'s and getting a fvcking peck on the lips every 3 weeks and the "chance to hangout with her". I finally called her out on it the next time she came around and said "you know, it's funny everytime you need money I hear from you and then it'll be weeks before I see or hear from you again". the b!tch lost it because she knew my checkbook was closed to her and she basically cussed me out and tried to put me down. i felt like a fool for falling for such a trap, i was pissed that she would use me like that and even more pissed that i allowed it to happen.
the point im trying to make is any girl worth dating isnt going to put you in no damn friend zone to begin with and make you work to get out before you can be with her. shes not making other guys go through the same sh!t, and trust me there ARE other guys getting the @$$ from her that are doing FAR LESS work then you. i'm speaking from experience.
