Friend but maybe something more...?

[silverwex]

Hi all, gonna keep this short, need to know what you all think!

Right i have this HB (hot babe) as a friend. We are fairly close, we can talk to eachother about anything.

Anyway, a few days ago we go for our 'traditional cigarette' (we go off in the local club on our own, light up and have a chat about stuff).

She tells me that she has a secret to tell me, i ask her what it is. She says that a few months ago she really wanted to snog (french kiss) me and that she fancied me (but it wouldve been impossible for her to snog me coz she was telling a good friend of mine that she wasnt interested in him that particular night).

She also said that she would "hop on me right now if i wasnt with my boyfriend" and that id be the first to know when she breaks up with him. I said that was cool and didnt put too much pass on it.

Dont get me wrong, this is one of the nicest and coolest girls ive met, she wouldnt mess me round and weve always got on really well, shes also a 9.

I know u guys are gonna tell me to move on and see other girls and to let her see me with other chicks and that is what i intend to do - no longer am i an AFC thanks to this site! But any thoughts on this story?

Thanks

 

[Starman]

yikes man.

She has a boyfriend? yet she is trying to lure and seduce you to something you cant have by giving you a hard on?

this chick is a c0cktease man. She is either trying to gauge YOUR interest level just for her own ego satisfaction...or is hinting that she is breaking up with her boyfriend and likes you (and trying to keep you around if she should ever break up with her man)

all I say is proceed with caution..this chick will eat your heart with a side of chianti.

 

[silverwex]

Hi man,

Thanks for that but honestly i dont think she is trying to seduce me. Ive met a lot of girls whove messed me round over the years but this one is different and i honestly think that she was just telling me that coz she had to get it off her chest and that we're very close.

Anyway im not waiting around foe her to finish with her bf coz ive got a lot of girls to think about

Thanks again!

PS - anyone else have any thoughts?

 

[Starman]

why do you think she had to get it off her chest?

What do you think her motive was? just to clear her conscience so that you can be better friends?

There is a very good reason why she confessed this to you..Im not sure what it is..but I think it was to seduce you and string you along.

 

[silverwex]

Hmm... maybe you're right Starman. I really dont know... Anyone have any ideas bout this?

 

[trajhenkhet]

There is what she says. There is what she does. And assuming the nature of the post its not you

hunt well

 

[Brasco]

What ever you do, don't put her on a pedestel. Treat her like you would a friend. If posible, go out to a bar where she might be at, have a girl with you for social proof. Try and get her jealous, you will see her IL rise if she is interested.