Frame is everything

[tksniper]

When you approach a woman, for the love of God, do not come from the frame of you trying to impress her. Your frame has to be “she’s cute, but what else does she have going for her?”.

I’ve made this mistake a thousand times. Even women who were eye raping me reneged as soon as they realized my frame was trying to impress them.

And only escalate when shes made a lot of effort to impress YOU.

Your frame is trying to see what’s cool about her. And she has to fall into your frame by trying to impress you. Only then can you escalate.

This is the natural masculine-feminine frame. It doesn’t matter who approaches who first. Your frame has to always be “what makes her different?” If she senses your frame is trying to impress her, she will reject you even if she thought you looked like Justin Timberlake.

This is how women are HARDWIRED.

 

[SW15]

Iron Rule of Tomassi #1

Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are.

 

[tksniper]

If you are a total newb, your best best is just to raise your value and let women approach you by making yourself available.in this dynamic, the frame is automatically she trying to impress you.

But if you wanna be hardcore and approach women, your frame has to be rock solid. You have to be qualifying her and seeing if she meets YOUR standards.

I don’t advise guys approaching unless they have bulletproof frame.

 

[tksniper]

I’ve found the best frame ever when approaching a woman giving you signs is “ she’s cute but how submissive is she?”

This has led to a few Starbucks and gym closes. A woman would try to sucker me into approaching. But I would come from the “how submissive is she?” Frame and I would either pull or realize she just wanted me to validate her.

This used to be my Achilles heel. A hot chick egging me to approach and I can’t tell if she’s submissive or trying to use me. So with the right frame I’m able to protect myself from the attention wh0res and close the genuinely submissive.

 

[tksniper]

“She’s cute but how submissive is she?” Should be every guys frame

 

[shwami_salami]

this is rlly good advice tksniper. lead her into ur frame. ps being submissive can b faked for a long time loll, trust me on this one.I could tell countless stories abt my exes who appeared not what they were