FR: The Chase of The Prey

[Travel memoir21]

To have a great LTR first you to know how to Sports Fvck and select among them, not to be in a relationship with the first woman that gives you some a$$.

Lol...you damn well know that True Love requires sacrifice my friend....and you damn well know that a True Quality woman would not fall for your Player Tactics and could spot it a mile away.

Look at yours and ours past relationships, do you honestly believe a one night stand can work long term wise?....it speaks for itself...getting physical really fast ruins the sacredness and connection of the relationship.... there has to be a well valued time to connect and bond and pair bond within the relationship for it work. This is called Delayed Gratification, it applies to many aspects that is important in life.

So like I said, ya gotta know what you're after...if you want to Sports fvck ..then good luck, but if you want a Quality woman, you must practice Self Discipline, modesty and screen for good character.....and it all starts with changing and working on yourself internally and having a positive, good goals and lifestyle.

 

[New_Journey]

At 35 you're a bit too old to be indulging in these catch me if you can games

ask her out & fvck her or don't

You don't need everything in-between

Seduction is a game

 

[New_Journey]

It should be a requirement to have proven experience to post and give advice on this forum, that way we can weed out guys who don't know what they're talking about.

True Love requires sacrifice my friend

Explain please.

True Quality woman

Define what is a true quality woman?

Player Tactics

What do mean by tactics? Give examples

This is called Delayed Gratification, it applies to many aspects that is important in life.

Agree.

Quality woman

You haven't tell me what this is yet, so how am I gonna know?

screen for good character

Can you give examples?

and having a positive, good goals and lifestyle.

Again, this can be different for different people, what are examples of these things?

 

[Solomon]

I got invited to a good friend's birthday party. I've been out of the game for some time now, during my relationship, so I put nice clothes on and went to enjoy the party. We were like 20 acquaintances there, and one of those was there was a chick, who was angry at me for dropping her. Her sister saw me and was surprised, gave me a kiss to say hi, M wanted to give me a hand, but I pulled her and kiss her cheek as well.

She had a boob job, and they look pretty hot. I started talking with her sister about life, and she listens to audio books about self- improvement, we talk for a long time. Another chick started to talk to me and her boyfriend got mad saying I was trying to get his girl ( I was not). Later in the night I sit next to M and started chatting, she immediately starts $hit testing me, one friend comes to talk and I said "excuse me for a second, I'm talking to my woman", I could see her liking it but pretending she didn't, a bit later I start talking to other people.

Went hopping to another bar were people dance salsa dancing and a live Orquestra was playing. I danced with several women, when I was dancing with her I pulled her very close like pants-pants very flirtatious dancing, I could see people watching us. I spend the night dancing so more, and she was dancing with another male while looking at me, like trying to make me jealous, it was very amusing to watch.

Then we went a taco place, I opened my car door, started playing reggaeton music when two young hot women started to talk to me and dance to that music. She was watching when she was eating, it was very funny to watch, then one of those girls gives me a hug and a kiss in the cheek and leaves.

After eating, a friend of mine asks me "Bro are you okay to drive or do you want M to go with you to make sure you're home okay". To which i reply "No, I'm good thanks". Then left the place.

What's your bet? Do I got this in the bag or naw?

Hey OP enjoyed reading your quick field report, sounds like you had fun, and you understand the value of conveying social proof(dancing with other women, as everyone is watching ya). I totally get the "Breadcrumming" type of game I guess my question is why not drop "M" of at home? It would have been a easy slam dunk to Smash. Are you looking for LTR or make her plate? Or just enjoying the vibes?

I'm not saying you did anything wrong, personally I have done similar things as well, where I had easy slam dunks but rather pull up from the Logo on some Steph curry shyt lol

Nothing wrong with that, I know this will be unpopular but I enjoy the chase as well, especially in my younger days. Yes having sex is fun but once you are able to attain sex. It gets boring and you search for deeper connections. Just curious as to why you did not drop her off

Good report mate

Anyway the main thing is always to have fun in my opinion and no being outcome dependent.

 

[New_Journey]

Hey OP enjoyed reading your quick field report, sounds like you had fun, and you understand the value of conveying social proof(dancing with other women, as everyone is watching ya). I totally get the "Breadcrumming" type of game I guess my question is why not drop "M" of at home? It would have been a easy slam dunk to Smash. Are you looking for LTR or make her plate? Or just enjoying the vibes?

Honestly, I didn't want to fvck anyone. I went out with the goal of enjoy the party

I rejected her for the lulz.

At one point, on purpose I was getting close to her lips to kiss her, she wanted it, at the last moment I moved my face away.

Its weird to explain, I just wanna fvck with women in the psychological sense, just for the fun of it, not to have sex.

 

[Travel memoir21]

It should be a requirement to have proven experience to post and give advice on this forum, that way we can weed out guys who don't know what they're talking about.

Travel memoir21 said:
True Love requires sacrifice my friend

Explain please.


- Do I need to explain what Love is to you? Love is not selfish. If you read The Scriptures, Love is kind, Love is giving and full of gratitude. You damn well know this intuitively. Your role as a Man is to provide for your future family the best means of life as possible and you can't do this by going trying to Sports fvck your way to get a quality woman. No, there must be some time and as a screening and bonding, process. It seems to me you need to do some internal improvement and work on changing on some parts of your character in order to get what I'm trying to tell you,

Travel memoir21 said:
True Quality woman

Define what is a true quality woman?

- A Quality woman is a decent woman which you've managed to woman to attract who is loyal, kind, god conscious, and most of all would make a GREAT Mother to your children. Being a great mother to your kids would one of the most important reasons why you selected her to be your wife. You want to be ensure your kids get raised by the best type of Lady to shape their character.

Travel memoir21 said:
Player Tactics

What do mean by tactics? Give examples

- Just the many crap, given by this site like Routines, gimmicks, pick up artist tactics by PUAs that is manipulative. You should act confidently and normally and NATURALLY as Man when your talking to her and your confidence is stemming from who you are and your lifestyle, passions and goals etc. Sure you can tease and play around, but it has to be congruent to your confidence and masculine authenticity.

Travel memoir21 said:
This is called Delayed Gratification, it applies to many aspects that is important in life.

Agree.

Travel memoir21 said:
screen for good character

Can you give examples?
- You screen for good character by not trying to get in her pants so early in the stages of dating. By trying to get to know her, having fun with her and taking some time to get to know her and delaying instant gratification and learning to appreciate modesty, god conscious behaviors such as appreciation, moderation and GIVING. Look, I know most of the women here in the states are crap, but I'm in South East Asia right now.....and I can honestly say this type of approach works with a lot of the traditional women here. Man, I've been dating around and flirting around and it's so laidback compared to the complexities and games you must do in The West. So I suggest you be open to go fishing in a lot of these traditional nations.

Travel memoir21 said:
and having a positive, good goals and lifestyle.

Again, this can be different for different people, what are examples of these things?

- A Positive Good goal and Lifestyle can be defined as not selfish, it's God Conscious and coming from a place of bliss and faith, it's a goal that benefits others and improves the world. Sure you can work on yourself, have financial goals, fitness goals, relationship and spiritual goals etc.....but if your most important goal your thinking about is not helping others and having something to achieve that is bigger than oneself and making this people around you, society, your community a better place....then you've missed the mark buddy. Cause life doesn't revolve around you, it revolves arounds God and doing his will and being a servant.

 

[plumber]

- A Positive Good goal and Lifestyle can be defined as not selfish, it's God Conscious and coming from a place of bliss and faith, it's a goal that benefits others and improves the world. Sure you can work on yourself, have financial goals, fitness goals, relationship and spiritual goals etc.....but if your most important goal your thinking about is not helping others and having something to achieve that is bigger than oneself and making this people around you, society, your community a better place....then you've missed the mark buddy. Cause life doesn't revolve around you, it revolves arounds God and doing his will and being a servant.

I like the ideas. It ultimately ends up in deciding if dualism or materiality is the way. Fortunately most of the advice can function in either realm.

Regardless the nature of women and men is what it is. It tracks pretty close to to other sexual life forms if digging deep.

Even religious women will respond differently to a man they are sexually attracted to. Probably they are more patient and accommodating to men they are not attracted to.

Ecclesiastes is really support for materiality.

 

[New_Journey]

It should be a requirement to have proven experience to post and give advice on this forum, that way we can weed out guys who don't know what they're talking about.


Explain please.


- Do I need to explain what Love is to you? Love is not selfish. If you read The Scriptures, Love is kind, Love is giving and full of gratitude. You damn well know this intuitively. Your role as a Man is to provide for your future family the best means of life as possible and you can't do this by going trying to Sports fvck your way to get a quality woman. No, there must be some time and as a screening and bonding, process. It seems to me you need to do some internal improvement and work on changing on some parts of your character in order to get what I'm trying to tell you,



Define what is a true quality woman?

- A Quality woman is a decent woman which you've managed to woman to attract who is loyal, kind, god conscious, and most of all would make a GREAT Mother to your children. Being a great mother to your kids would one of the most important reasons why you selected her to be your wife. You want to be ensure your kids get raised by the best type of Lady to shape their character.


What do mean by tactics? Give examples

- Just the many crap, given by this site like Routines, gimmicks, pick up artist tactics by PUAs that is manipulative. You should act confidently and normally and NATURALLY as Man when your talking to her and your confidence is stemming from who you are and your lifestyle, passions and goals etc. Sure you can tease and play around, but it has to be congruent to your confidence and masculine authenticity.


Agree.




Can you give examples?
- You screen for good character by not trying to get in her pants so early in the stages of dating. By trying to get to know her, having fun with her and taking some time to get to know her and delaying instant gratification and learning to appreciate modesty, god conscious behaviors such as appreciation, moderation and GIVING. Look, I know most of the women here in the states are crap, but I'm in South East Asia right now.....and I can honestly say this type of approach works with a lot of the traditional women here. Man, I've been dating around and flirting around and it's so laidback compared to the complexities and games you must do in The West. So I suggest you be open to go fishing in a lot of these traditional nations.

Again, this can be different for different people, what are examples of these things?

- A Positive Good goal and Lifestyle can be defined as not selfish, it's God Conscious and coming from a place of bliss and faith, it's a goal that benefits others and improves the world. Sure you can work on yourself, have financial goals, fitness goals, relationship and spiritual goals etc.....but if your most important goal your thinking about is not helping others and having something to achieve that is bigger than oneself and making this people around you, society, your community a better place....then you've missed the mark buddy. Cause life doesn't revolve around you, it revolves arounds God and doing his will and being a servant.

All of these is just feel good words.

A paper holds everything you write. But the reality of this is, you are an incel who is not fvcking anyone, therefore all that feel good words mean nothing, it has no value, its just words on a screen, fiction.

Come back when you've had some notches under your belt with some actions and not words.

 

[BPH]

@Travel memoir21 I'm sure you mean well, but why are you here?

This entire forum is dedicated to seduction, sex, dating and love, and yet most of your replies are preachy, holier than thou, and the kind of stuff I'd expect to read on ChristianMingle.

You're not getting laid, so why do feel you're qualified to give others advice on something you yourself don't know how to do?

 

[Bokanovsky]

She had a boob job, and they look pretty hot. I started talking with her sister about life, and she listens to audio books about self- improvement.

That's the kind if self-improvement I approve of!

After eating, a friend of mine asks me "Bro are you okay to drive or do you want M to go with you to make sure you're home okay". To which i reply "No, I'm good thanks". Then left the place.

Maybe I'm missing something but if you wanted to do a test run with the new equipment, why did you say no??

 

[New_Journey]

Maybe I'm missing something but if you wanted to do a test run with the new equipment, why did you say no??

No particular reason, I just didn't wanna fvck. There were other factors too, I was tired, full stomach, wanted to sleep comfortably. I just saw as a fvcking hassle for some puzzy. But again, I've fvcked before under those factors too, so yeah.

 

[Clockwerk50]

@Travel memoir21 I'm sure you mean well, but why are you here?

This entire forum is dedicated to seduction, sex, dating and love, and yet most of your replies are preachy, holier than thou, and the kind of stuff I'd expect to read on ChristianMingle.

You're not getting laid, so why do feel you're qualified to give others advice on something you yourself don't know how to do?

Hey @Travel memoir21, tell him about all the Philipinas you have been raw dogging in the Philippines and how they look better than @New_Journey’s girl.