FR: The Chase of The Prey

[New_Journey]

I got invited to a good friend's birthday party. I've been out of the game for some time now, during my relationship, so I put nice clothes on and went to enjoy the party. We were like 20 acquaintances there, and one of those was there was a chick, who was angry at me for dropping her. Her sister saw me and was surprised, gave me a kiss to say hi, M wanted to give me a hand, but I pulled her and kiss her cheek as well.

She had a boob job, and they look pretty hot. I started talking with her sister about life, and she listens to audio books about self- improvement, we talk for a long time. Another chick started to talk to me and her boyfriend got mad saying I was trying to get his girl ( I was not). Later in the night I sit next to M and started chatting, she immediately starts $hit testing me, one friend comes to talk and I said "excuse me for a second, I'm talking to my woman", I could see her liking it but pretending she didn't, a bit later I start talking to other people.

Went hopping to another bar were people dance salsa dancing and a live Orquestra was playing. I danced with several women, when I was dancing with her I pulled her very close like pants-pants very flirtatious dancing, I could see people watching us. I spend the night dancing so more, and she was dancing with another male while looking at me, like trying to make me jealous, it was very amusing to watch.

Then we went a taco place, I opened my car door, started playing reggaeton music when two young hot women started to talk to me and dance to that music. She was watching when she was eating, it was very funny to watch, then one of those girls gives me a hug and a kiss in the cheek and leaves.

After eating, a friend of mine asks me "Bro are you okay to drive or do you want M to go with you to make sure you're home okay". To which i reply "No, I'm good thanks". Then left the place.

What's your bet? Do I got this in the bag or naw?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Nobody ever has anything in the bag until the woman has your c0ck in her mouth.

Typically in these situations where you have an opportunity for something to happen in the moment and it doesn't, you don't get another chance.

Maybe you will, maybe you won't but the rule of thumb is in a random situation your highest chance of success will be that night.

This is often the same situation where a guy gets a number from a woman he meets while out that night who he thinks he is definitely going to fvck, but then never heard from her again and gets crickets when he texts.

Carpe Diem.

 

[New_Journey]

Nobody ever has anything in the bag until the woman has your c0ck in her mouth.

Typically in these situations where you have an opportunity for something to happen in the moment and it doesn't, you don't get another chance.

Maybe you will, maybe you won't but the rule of thumb is in a random situation your highest chance of success will be that night.

This is often the same situation where a guy gets a number from a woman he meets while out that night who he thinks he is definitely going to fvck, but then never heard from her again and gets crickets when he texts.

Carpe Diem.

Patience is what truly make a Don Juan, my friend.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Patience is what truly make a Don Juan, my friend.

Maybe in your mind, but the truth is taking advantage of opportunities when they are presented is how the universe works, like it or not.

75% of the posts on this board are due to failure to realize this.

 

[New_Journey]

Maybe in your mind, but the truth is taking advantage of opportunities when they are presented is how the universe works, like it or not.

75% of the posts on this board are due to failure to realize this.

The beaty of true abundance is not caring about losing an "opportunity". That's next level of self-improvement.

 

[Clockwerk50]

How hot is she?

 

[New_Journey]

How hot is she?

Passes the boner test

 

[Travel memoir21]

As a DJ you have to know what type of mode your on or you won't be truly congruent with your actions.

If you want to Sports fvck, then be congruent with that. But if you're after a long term relationship that will be successful just know that if you want to maximize your success in the long term....it would be a good idea to take it slow, and have a pair bonding, connection-courtship process with the woman you are trying to be exclusive with.

Your best bet is to use the principles of attaining a woman on this site, mix that with your personality and purpose and conviction...with the intention of trying to pair bond and connect with a woman in the getting to know you stage and your chances of that relationship working out long run will increase dramatically.

The truth of the matter is, when it comes to long term success with this stuff- Delayed Gratification, gratitude and appreciation is what works best if you want a Quality woman.

 

[New_Journey]

As a DJ you have to know what type of mode your on or you won't be truly congruent with your actions.

If you want to Sports fvck, then be congruent with that. But if you're after a long term relationship that will be successful just know that if you want to maximize your success in the long term....it would be a good idea to take it slow, and have a pair bonding, connection-courtship process with the woman you are trying to be exclusive with.

Your best bet is to use the principles of attaining a woman on this site, mix that with your personality and purpose and conviction...with the intention of trying to pair bond and connect with a woman in the getting to know you stage and your chances of that relationship working out long run will increase dramatically.

The truth of the matter is, when it comes to long term success with this stuff- Delayed Gratification, gratitude and appreciation is what works best if you want a Quality woman.

To have a great LTR first you to know how to Sports Fvck and select among them, not to be in a relationship with the first woman that gives you some a$$.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Sounds like a prayer OP.

 

[New_Journey]

Sounds like a prayer OP.

Prayer

 

[BackInTheGame78]

The beaty of true abundance is not caring about losing an "opportunity". That's next level of self-improvement.

All well and good but that wasn't the question you asked

 

[pipeman84]

She had a boob job

Yet the whole OP reads like a mouse and cat game as if you two are 14yrs olds or something.

Later in the night I sit next to M and started chatting, she immediately starts $hit testing me, one friend comes to talk and I said "excuse me for a second, I'm talking to my woman", I could see her liking it but pretending she didn't, a bit later I start talking to other people.

She's $hit testing you aka she doesn't respect you.
Calling her your woman when she's not doesn't make you an alpha, on the contrary.

 

[New_Journey]

Yet the whole OP reads like a mouse and cat game as if you two are 14yrs olds or something.

Exactly, you finally got the idea.

She's $hit testing you aka she doesn't respect you.

A word of advice, get some experience before posting.

Calling her your woman when she's not doesn't make you an alpha, on the contrary.

Who said I was? But thanks for noticing how alphas behave

 

[Barrister]

Patience is what truly make a Don Juan, my friend.

This isn’t the woman to be playing the long game with. You have history with her and negative history at that from what you say. If you were going to get back in her pants you should have taken the opportunity when it presented itself (i.e. that night).

Kudos for the abundance mindset. That’s good. But you likely are SOL at this point to bang this specific chick.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Also I think you want "Prey" not "Pray" unless you are asking God for help with this one.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Passes the boner test

 

[SW15]

We were like 20 acquaintances there, and one of those was there was a chick, who was angry at me for dropping her.

you likely are SOL at this point to bang this specific chick.

The negative past history there means that specific chick isn't likely to be a sexual option. Better to start fresh with someone else.

I got invited to a good friend's birthday party.

There is upside. The fact that you can go to a good friend's birthday party and possibly have social circle options as your age (35) is impressive.

When I was 35, I had zero social circle options. If there was a good friend's birthday party the year I was 35, it was going to be a couples fest with zero unattached attendees. Additionally, the girlfriends/wives of my male friends/acquaintances weren't going to have the connections to set me up at a later time.

It's even worse with my social circle now in my early 40s with many of my connections now having children under 5.

 

[New_Journey]

If you were going to get back in her pants you should have taken the opportunity when it presented itself (i.e. that night).

But that's the thing, I honestly don't care.

Also I think you want "Prey" not "Pray" unless you are asking God for help with this one.

Hahaha no hablo ingles señor, please no deportation

 

[Bingo-Player]

she immediately starts $hit testing me, one friend comes to talk and I said "excuse me for a second, I'm talking to my woman", I could see her liking it but pretending she didn't, a bit later I start talking to other people.

Went hopping to another bar were people dance salsa dancing and a live Orquestra was playing. I danced with several women, when I was dancing with her I pulled her very close like pants-pants very flirtatious dancing, I could see people watching us. I spend the night dancing so more, and she was dancing with another male while looking at me, like trying to make me jealous, it was very amusing to watch.

At 35 you're a bit too old to be indulging in these catch me if you can games

ask her out & fvck her or don't

You don't need everything in-between