Warning: LONG. LOL
I learned lots of stuff tonight... not in the sense that the whole concept was NEW and blew me away, but in the sense that I got to see it CONCRETIZED before my eyes. This helps TREMENDOUSLY. None of this sh!t we read can ever truly be internalized until you see it in action.
So I jump in my blue chevy and pop in a Depeche Mode CD. It's a fvcking tight album called "The Singles '86-'89." There's a song on the CD called "It's No Good" that I learned about via one of Badboy's posts. He loves the song and says that it sums up his whole attitude and frame. It's a fcvking great song; it pumped my state and helped strengthen my frame...also, I thought of Badboy all the way on the drive there, since his "theme song" was playing in the background. I kept recalling the new picture of him where he has a beanie on and looks totally stoned and disinterested, but the blonde is crawling on him like a snake with ill intentions lol.
So I'm singing the song, "Don't say you want me/ Don't say you need me/ Don't say you love me/ It's understood// Don't say you're happy/ Out there without me/ I know you can't be/ 'Cause it's no good"
>8D
I pull up to the first party. I park my truck and let the song finish. When I know I have to get out of my truck I feel a twinge of nervous anxiety. But I RECOGNIZE IT and call it's sh!t.
"Duke, it's not logical to be nervous or frightened right now. Relax. Don't listen. You can be totally calm and slow. They care more of what you think of them then they care about you."
Also, I remembered "Relaxation of body and mind" (can't remember if I learned this from Gunwitch or Badboy, but they both harp on it). It is a scientific FACT that if your muscles are totally relaxed and you are breathing normally, then you MUST feel relaxed. Sounds crazy, but it's true and it works.
So I calmed myself down and my AMOG friend and the girl who is throwing the party come out. I step out of my truck.
I greet both of them, and I compliment my friend's new hairstyle (braided, and yes he's white lol). He looked like a freakin albino Jamaican, so when I told him it looked good, I think he got insecure lol. I say "Hey, you're HBParty-throwing right?"
I figured that since this is social circle sarging I could assume rapport and not have to do the standard "Attract until she asks rapport question" because at social circles, people jump right into rapport questions ANYHOW, because that's what they're expected to do. It's just normal.
I was totally relaxed. Slow, alpha BL, almost "sleepy" in the sense of how my movements were. Totally non-needy BL and voice. Friendly voice, I'd say. Playful voice (Badboy talked about this...Playful voice during attract and surface rapport and deeper, more seductive voice during deep rapport and isolation).
My shoulders were facing away from her, and hers were facing me. Yeah, yeah, sounds like semantics, I know, but BL is close to 75% of communication. Cannot come across needy.
She goes "Yeah, and you must be Duke!"
I follow her inside the place and I come in and it's a bunch of girls and AFCs WATCHING TV. LOL. There was no gaming going on whatsoever. Everyone was just quietly watching TV as if they were zombies.
I walk in.
I look at a girl and go "What's up?" in a very calm voice. Strong EC as well.
She greets me. I look at everyone else in the room and nod and then give a quick wave. Well, the wave only took a second, but I still MOVED slowly. No twitchy movements. There was a cat on the bed who had the attention of a HB6. I hear her say something like "I think cat needs to go outside."
I say "What's the cat's name." HB: "Blah blah." Me: "Did he doo-doo on the bed?" HB: Nah.
Then I check out some little calendar with funny quotes that was on the chick's TV stand. I stand with alpha BL for a second reading it, then set it down. I really had to use the bathroom, so I go outside the room to use it. Well, there was an entrance to the bathroom INSIDE THE ROOM, but I didn't see it.
So I walk into the bathroom and I hear HBPartythrower go, "You could have come from in here," and here a few people chuckle and simultaneously I realize I took the long way around and I go "What the hell!" really loud and everyone in the room cracks up.
HBPartythrower: Haha, I like Duke, he needs to hang out with us more!
I am a bit uncomfortable with everyone right outside the door and I go "I need to somebody to turn on a faucet or something." Then I take a piss that lasted a full 2 minutes and exited stage left into the kitchen.
I'm really thirsty, so I locate the cups and get some water with ice. It's one of those fridges with the built-in water-dispenser. As I'm getting water from it, HBPartythrower and AMOG Friend walk in. HBPartythrower goes, "Duke, haha, you just come in here and take my water?"
Me: "Yeah, it's just water.. hey that's a kid on your refridgerator, I like his mo-hawk. Who is he."
HBPartythrower: He's my little cousin.
AMOG Friend: It's her baby.
HBPartythrower: Yeah.... he's my baby.
Me: That's cool, too. (I remained calm. I realize AMOG is trying to tool me... I don't lose composure).
Me and AMOG Friend leave shortly there-after to go to another party. I should have #closed HBPartythrower, but I was only there for about 10 minutes max, and did not get to run game on her. All she saw my alpha, relaxed BL and voice along with social poise. I got her laughing which was good, and I think this girl would have been easy to game as I sucked her into my frame from the outset. I should have used a false-disqualifier to get her number and set up a meet; I'll remember for next time.
So as we're about to leave and we're in the kitchen, she picks up a piece of pizza and starts eating it. Well, I'm hungry as fvck, so I pick up a piece as well and start eating it. She goes, "Duke! You take my water and now you take a piece of pizza?"
I go, "Yeah, I'm hungry."
AMOG Friend tries to give me sh!t. "DUDE! That's her pizza. You don't just come in and take food from people."
Me: "Dude I'm hungry, chill out" (I say this while I'm smirking the whole time and eating and drinking hahaha.
I tell HBPartythrower bye and hug her and I walk outside and turn around and say, "Good meeting you" because it just occurred to me to say it to her. She goes, "You too!" enthusiastically. I need to find this girl's number so I can get her for a day2. She seems really cool.
I learned lots of stuff tonight... not in the sense that the whole concept was NEW and blew me away, but in the sense that I got to see it CONCRETIZED before my eyes. This helps TREMENDOUSLY. None of this sh!t we read can ever truly be internalized until you see it in action.
So I jump in my blue chevy and pop in a Depeche Mode CD. It's a fvcking tight album called "The Singles '86-'89." There's a song on the CD called "It's No Good" that I learned about via one of Badboy's posts. He loves the song and says that it sums up his whole attitude and frame. It's a fcvking great song; it pumped my state and helped strengthen my frame...also, I thought of Badboy all the way on the drive there, since his "theme song" was playing in the background. I kept recalling the new picture of him where he has a beanie on and looks totally stoned and disinterested, but the blonde is crawling on him like a snake with ill intentions lol.
So I'm singing the song, "Don't say you want me/ Don't say you need me/ Don't say you love me/ It's understood// Don't say you're happy/ Out there without me/ I know you can't be/ 'Cause it's no good"
>8D
I pull up to the first party. I park my truck and let the song finish. When I know I have to get out of my truck I feel a twinge of nervous anxiety. But I RECOGNIZE IT and call it's sh!t.
"Duke, it's not logical to be nervous or frightened right now. Relax. Don't listen. You can be totally calm and slow. They care more of what you think of them then they care about you."
Also, I remembered "Relaxation of body and mind" (can't remember if I learned this from Gunwitch or Badboy, but they both harp on it). It is a scientific FACT that if your muscles are totally relaxed and you are breathing normally, then you MUST feel relaxed. Sounds crazy, but it's true and it works.
So I calmed myself down and my AMOG friend and the girl who is throwing the party come out. I step out of my truck.
I greet both of them, and I compliment my friend's new hairstyle (braided, and yes he's white lol). He looked like a freakin albino Jamaican, so when I told him it looked good, I think he got insecure lol. I say "Hey, you're HBParty-throwing right?"
I figured that since this is social circle sarging I could assume rapport and not have to do the standard "Attract until she asks rapport question" because at social circles, people jump right into rapport questions ANYHOW, because that's what they're expected to do. It's just normal.
I was totally relaxed. Slow, alpha BL, almost "sleepy" in the sense of how my movements were. Totally non-needy BL and voice. Friendly voice, I'd say. Playful voice (Badboy talked about this...Playful voice during attract and surface rapport and deeper, more seductive voice during deep rapport and isolation).
My shoulders were facing away from her, and hers were facing me. Yeah, yeah, sounds like semantics, I know, but BL is close to 75% of communication. Cannot come across needy.
She goes "Yeah, and you must be Duke!"
I follow her inside the place and I come in and it's a bunch of girls and AFCs WATCHING TV. LOL. There was no gaming going on whatsoever. Everyone was just quietly watching TV as if they were zombies.
I walk in.
I look at a girl and go "What's up?" in a very calm voice. Strong EC as well.
She greets me. I look at everyone else in the room and nod and then give a quick wave. Well, the wave only took a second, but I still MOVED slowly. No twitchy movements. There was a cat on the bed who had the attention of a HB6. I hear her say something like "I think cat needs to go outside."
I say "What's the cat's name." HB: "Blah blah." Me: "Did he doo-doo on the bed?" HB: Nah.
Then I check out some little calendar with funny quotes that was on the chick's TV stand. I stand with alpha BL for a second reading it, then set it down. I really had to use the bathroom, so I go outside the room to use it. Well, there was an entrance to the bathroom INSIDE THE ROOM, but I didn't see it.
So I walk into the bathroom and I hear HBPartythrower go, "You could have come from in here," and here a few people chuckle and simultaneously I realize I took the long way around and I go "What the hell!" really loud and everyone in the room cracks up.
HBPartythrower: Haha, I like Duke, he needs to hang out with us more!
I am a bit uncomfortable with everyone right outside the door and I go "I need to somebody to turn on a faucet or something." Then I take a piss that lasted a full 2 minutes and exited stage left into the kitchen.
I'm really thirsty, so I locate the cups and get some water with ice. It's one of those fridges with the built-in water-dispenser. As I'm getting water from it, HBPartythrower and AMOG Friend walk in. HBPartythrower goes, "Duke, haha, you just come in here and take my water?"
Me: "Yeah, it's just water.. hey that's a kid on your refridgerator, I like his mo-hawk. Who is he."
HBPartythrower: He's my little cousin.
AMOG Friend: It's her baby.
HBPartythrower: Yeah.... he's my baby.
Me: That's cool, too. (I remained calm. I realize AMOG is trying to tool me... I don't lose composure).
Me and AMOG Friend leave shortly there-after to go to another party. I should have #closed HBPartythrower, but I was only there for about 10 minutes max, and did not get to run game on her. All she saw my alpha, relaxed BL and voice along with social poise. I got her laughing which was good, and I think this girl would have been easy to game as I sucked her into my frame from the outset. I should have used a false-disqualifier to get her number and set up a meet; I'll remember for next time.
So as we're about to leave and we're in the kitchen, she picks up a piece of pizza and starts eating it. Well, I'm hungry as fvck, so I pick up a piece as well and start eating it. She goes, "Duke! You take my water and now you take a piece of pizza?"
I go, "Yeah, I'm hungry."
AMOG Friend tries to give me sh!t. "DUDE! That's her pizza. You don't just come in and take food from people."
Me: "Dude I'm hungry, chill out" (I say this while I'm smirking the whole time and eating and drinking hahaha.
I tell HBPartythrower bye and hug her and I walk outside and turn around and say, "Good meeting you" because it just occurred to me to say it to her. She goes, "You too!" enthusiastically. I need to find this girl's number so I can get her for a day2. She seems really cool.
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