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FR: pool and brewery

CMNILS87

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Wont be a lay report, but a good report for new readers on how to deal with many a **** tests.

Cali girl, moved here for school, 25, Match Date, HB7.5

Date starts around 7pm. She's late about 10 minutes and i already started. I wasn't going to wait for her to start. I was soured by this so i decided to give her **** when she walked in. She asked why i had started already and I playfully told her, "you're late" and deadlocked eyes with her and moved onto some questions about her and such. We played pool about an hour and hung out. She was terrible and had played once or twice in her life, so she got bored quickly, but lots of chances for kino on hands arms and legs/knees to show her the ropes. I kept it light and lots of sex jokes, lots of word play. The only thing i noticed is that she gave short answers to my questions. Most girls i can get to ramble forever and i don't have to say much.

basic **** tests at pool.

Are you seeing anyone? Casually, Its nothing serious
What do you do for fun? amateur night at the strip club. gave a few hobbies afterwards
Whats your job? Male gigolo, get all my clients through Match. Opened up and told her a little afterwards.

Before we head over to the brewery, she goes on a ramble about how shes looking for something more than fun and wants to date seriously, but not forever. I just kinda nodded my head and said to calm down, its just a date, were her to have fun and to get to know each other.

We head over to the brewery and hang for an hour or so. More chit chatting and kino in a corner table. She rambles on about Fargo and how its so different from California and how men are more masculine up here than LA. She keeps leading on about more dates between us and how she likes football players (after i told her i was in football). Drinks come out on a petrified wood platter and she immediately grabs her phone and asks to take a snap chat. This was the Defcon 5 **** test for the night. I looked at her, said, " that's probably not a good idea". She got this deer in head lights look and pouted a bit. I said, "i run a tight ship". The rest of the night she supplicated about only having her phone on her lap because her purse wasn't big enough. She went on to ask more about me and how she felt i was mysterious/very reserved and how she felt like she was only tapping the surface of me. I told her that's a good thing, leaves more for later.

Walked out to the car, got in a few kisses, and took off. overall, too many **** tests for my liking on a first Match date. Undecided about a 2nd date, possibly hit her up later this week, or wait for her to text. Pretty girl, but not many hobbies and glued to her phone. Had i not found this site or material 7-8 months ago, i would've thought behavior like that was ok and would've swept it under the rug. Some say ignore the behavior and just hard next, I felt i had to address it and it seems like nobody has called her out on it before. Anyways, I have a football date with a plate for the broncos game today. Later
 

Thatfeel21

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Are you even that into her? Sounds like you can take her or leave her--which is perfecto. Seems to me like she isnt really dating worthy; 2nd date with out question should be at your place, wine, cooking, escalate. Next post about this broad should be an LR, not FR.
 

Once Bitten

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Are you even that into her? Sounds like you can take her or leave her--which is perfecto. Seems to me like she isnt really dating worthy; 2nd date with out question should be at your place, wine, cooking, escalate. Next post about this broad should be an LR, not FR.
an LR? ..FR?..what does that mean? I need help with the lingo.
 

CMNILS87

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2nd date went well, she was still guarded and wanted to meet me downtown to explore and have fun. Drove her home and fooled around in the car and had some fun. Date 3 next week sometime
 
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