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FR: Learning more at da club

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Aight, last night I went to the club with 4 chicks after pre-gaming with them. Sounds pimp, but only one of them is very attractive to me, but she is hot as ****. Alright, so here are some things I learned (some of this may be basic to a lot of you):

- To get a dance, just touch a girl on the hip from either the front or behind and start dancing. She either will accept you or reject you. If she rejects you, move on. If she accepts you, get down.

- While you're dancing, you want to get some basics about her: name, school, where she lives, etc. Then, try to get her to go sit down and talk somewhere after a song.

Last night was the first time I successfully approached and got a good dance with a chick I hadn't known previously. I got the basic info, but then her friend dragged her away. I didn't know how to recover from that because they were out of sight splickety splack. I tapped her on the shoulder as her friend dragged her away and said, "we should go sit down and talk," but she said she had to go with her friend. Is there anything I could have done??

Also, last night, I didn't really dance with a single chick I came to the club with and I'm glad of that (except I should have grinded with the hot one). Just go out with the plan of having fun and meeting new chicks. Don't let the *****es you go with hold you down.

- Once again I learned that when opportunity knocks, you best answer. I had a number of chances to grind with the hot chick early in the night, but later on she was always surrounded by guys and it was near impossible. Take advantage of opportunity whenever it is there.

I'm a rookie at clubbing so merely getting a good dance with a new girl and talking to her a little bit made it a good night for me. I believe I could have #closed without the interference.
 

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The best thing about this is that you can almost GUARANTEE the girl you're into SAW you with these other girls and saw them having a good time with you.

Depending on the club, many girls will just let you start dancing up on them, as long as you have some semblance of rhythm and aren't ugly. Make eye contact, match her rhythm, and move in.

The friend will always be there...there's nothing you can do once the friend makes the conscious decision that she is going to "block" you. If you approach a girl with a friend, give equal attention to the friend at first, but then slowly focus more and more on the one you're after. And make sure to bring her friend back into the convo once in a while so she doesn't feel left out.

Now when her friend grabs her out of nowhere in that "we gotta run" way, you don't have much of a chance to do anything...the best thing to do is maybe wait until you see her later on to say anything, or wait a few minutes and then join her. It gives her a chance to think about being detached from you, and then you come back full of charm and fun and laughter and she starts to think: "Run away with friend = bad, stay with man = good". :D
 

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Originally posted by squirrels
The best thing about this is that you can almost GUARANTEE the girl you're into SAW you with these other girls and saw them having a good time with you.
Hell yeah...I was dancing with the chick and the hot chick I was with walked by and slapped me on the ass! haha.
 

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Try the booty-bump next time. This works like a charm!

Most of the time.:D
 
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