FR: I won, she lost, game over.

[BackInTheGame78]

OK, meant to post this Friday but the weekend got away from me...

I had my date with the chick from this thread:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=228597

The synopsis was I asked when she was available, then she claimed she was busy for 2 weeks with work and then on vacation, so I called her BS and told her not to bother contacting me when she got back after I told her to hit me up. She then reversed course and asked me to meet up the day after I texted her(Tuesday) and when I told her no, then Thursday. I agreed but told her she was buying all drinks. She agreed.

Fast forward to Thursday, she texts me at around 5pm making sure I was still planning to meet up with her. I told her I was and that I'd see her around 9pm and to make sure she was wearing something sexy for me. She agreed and gave me a

Meet up with her and she is definitely cute. I'd give her a solid 7. Nice long dark hair just like I like...

She asked what I was drinking and put in the order with the bartender and paid for it, no waiting to see if I was going to pay or anything...I kinda liked that...I was half expecting her to do the slow-play and see if I'd chump out and pay for it.

I lead her over to a back corner where its quiet and a little dark and we sit down in a booth. I noticed that she scooted over towards me in the middle instead of staying on the end, so I took that as a good sign. We start talking and I am getting clear signals she is into me. I tell her I love her long dark hair and I start stroking it and teasingly give it a light pull. She gets a deer in the headlights look for a second and then smiles at me and says "I like having my hair pulled." So we go on for about 15 or 20 minutes and I was waiting for the right time to pull out the Guru as I'll call it:

All of a sudden I stopped talking, looked very intensely at her for about 5 or 10 seconds, and I could tell she didn't know what to make of it. Finally she asks "What's wrong? Why are you looking at me like that?" and I smirk and tell her "I really want to fvck you tonight. Would you like that, <Name>?" and just continue to stare into her eyes with a look of a lion seeing its prey before it pounces.

She started blushing, got very nervous looking, fidgety, and didn't know what to say for what seemed like 30 seconds, but probably only was about 10. I ask her "Do you need me to repeat the question, or are you going to answer it?" She finally stammers out "N-N-No...I heard it. I just can't believe you said it." So the conversation goes back to normal for about 10 minutes after the shock wears off her, she seems fine. I suddenly get up and say "OK, let's get out of here." and grab her hand. She says "Where are we going?" I respond "Outside to get some fresh air."

We end up over by our cars, which were actually parked only a few spots away, so I tell her to come sit with me for a few minutes and we get in my car. I start stroking her hair again, and start rubbing my hand down her cheek and to her neck. She turns to look at me with one of those looks in her eyes, and doesn't say anything but just keeps looking at me. So I smile and ask her "Why are you looking at me like that?" and she says "Like what?" and I tell her "You are giving me a look like you want to start sucking my c0ck right now". And she laughs and says "Wellllll....the thought DID cross my mind...." So I tell her "Are you waiting for an invitation or can you handle that yourself like a big girl?"

So she unzips my pants and leans over and starts giving me a bl0wjob in my car. She had already told me she hated swallowing, so what do I do? When I get ready to blast, I hold her head down there and tell her "You better not spill a fvcking drop in this car or you will be detailing it as soon as you are finished." She did really good...no drops spilled.

I won, she lost, game over. Just wanted to punish her for fvcking with me in the initial date setup. Hopefully she learned her lesson. Time to go ghost.

She texts me the next morning saying she was "Hoping more would have happened last night" and that she really wants to see me again. This was followed by 11 other texts in a row from her from Friday morning til today...none have been responded to by me. Now she is starting to send desperate texts like "But I really like you, why are you acting this way?"

Funny when the tables get turned and the women act like the desperate losers with no self-respect. Fvck her. That's for all the guys she's played over the past year.

 

[BatJuan]

Is this a troll thread or something?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Is this a troll thread or something?

Not at all...just what happened on the date when I attempted what GURU does. It worked.

 

[Tictac]

So you demeaned a girl you liked, got a front seat blowj*b and will never see her again.

Wow, impressive!

And that's the zenith of your Don Juan style.

Kinda sad really.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

So you demeaned a girl you liked, got a front seat blowj*b and will never see her again.

Wow, impressive!

And that's the zenith of your Don Juan style.

Kinda sad really.

Not exactly. I had already predetermined that this would be the only time I would meet up with her because I'm not into that BS she attempted to pull. If that's the first thing she is going to do, then that's only the tip of the iceberg in my experience. I said I liked her long, dark hair and that she was cute. I never said I really liked HER. Big difference.

I viewed this as a game, with a winner and a loser. I did enough to make sure I was the winner. Nothing more, nothing less.

I got something out of it, she got nothing and left her wanting more. If I would have fvcked her then she would have gotten something out of it as well, and in all honesty, she didn't deserve it. She was a 7...I can get those all day long and twice on Sundays. Nothing special.

 

[Tictac]

All what BS?

You call that BS?

LOL

 

[BackInTheGame78]

All what BS?

You call that BS?

LOL

The BS from the linked thread when I initially contacted her to set up the date and she gave me some nonsense about being too busy for 2 weeks at work and then on vacation, then immediately reversed course when I called her out on it.

 

[prison/con.net]

You're a jerk. congatulations on messing up a good thing.

 

[amazingswayze]

you seem quite spiteful but hey i guess that is because you have an abundance mindset. if you feel satisfied with what happened then congratulations but her feelings will be hurt no doubt. all good. nice read.

 

[Tictac]

The BS from the linked thread when I initially contacted her to set up the date and she gave me some nonsense about being too busy for 2 weeks at work and then on vacation, then immediately reversed course when I called her out on it.

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I read it. Are you always such a delicate flower?

 

[guru1000]

So you demeaned a girl you liked, got a front seat blowj*b and will never see her again.

Wow, impressive!

And that's the zenith of your Don Juan style.

Kinda sad really.

You’re right. He should have proposed marriage instead.

Why are you "men" shaming a fellow DJ for going into the social trenches and going after what he wants? Because some girl’s feeling got hurt? Boohoo. All is fair in love and war. Or would you rather continue hearing the sob threads of “Why doesn’t she call me back,” “She dumped me,” “She cheated on me, what should I do,” “My gf wanted to end it, should I call her.”

Here comes a man who has balls; who is not afraid to go after what he wants in life. He follows his own will, not society’s. I could argue that he gave the girl MORE than he would have as a groveling AFC afraid to make a move; afraid of his sexual nature. He incited the girl’s emotions and forever established himself in her mind as a MAN who she wants to find in her future. He sparked passion and emotion in her like no another. He breathed life into her.

Next time you shame a fellow DJ, think about what is lacking within yourself that you feel the need to denigrate what you are (genuinely) afraid to be. And that is to be your own man, with an individual will, the balls to act on that will, enfranchised of social constructs of "proper etiquette." Who is to say his etiquette was right or wrong? Social constructs and the hands of conditioning? His acts set him apart from 95% of men who live in perpetual fear in most facets of their lives.

BackInThe Game, great job :rockon: Fvck the contrarians. Continue your FRs, as they are needed to encourage more success and less whining in our fellow DJs.

 

[Tictac]

You’re right. He should have proposed marriage instead.

Why are you "men" shaming a fellow DJ for going into the social trenches and going after what he wants? Because some girl’s feeling got hurt? Boohoo. All is fair in love and war. Or would you rather continue hearing the sob threads of “Why doesn’t she call me back,” “She dumped me,” “She cheated on me, what should I do,” “My gf wanted to end it, should I call her.”

Here comes a man who has balls; who is not afraid to go after what he wants in life. He follows his own will, not society’s. I could argue that he gave the girl MORE than he would have as a groveling AFC afraid to make a move; afraid of his sexual nature. He incited the girl’s emotions and forever established himself in her mind as a MAN who she wants to find in her future. He sparked passion and emotion in her like no another she had ever felt. He breathed life into her.

Next time you shame a fellow DJ, think about what is lacking within yourself that you feel the need to denigrate what you are (genuinely) afraid to be. And that is to be your own man, with an individual will, the balls to act on that will, enfranchised of social constructs of "proper etiquette." This alone sets him apart from 95% of men who live in perpetual fear in most facets of their lives.

BackInThe Game, great job :rockon: Fvck the contrarians. Continue your FRs, as they are needed to encourage more success and less whining in our fellow DJs.

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Lotta words for 'good job on the pump and dump'. OP got all bent over next to nothing.

You know absolutely nothing about how my life with and without women works.

Take a hike.

 

[Thorninmyside]

Dunno man, sounds slick and all and I'm sure it would make a good movie scene, but seems it like you wanted to punish her for being into you after you finally got the date. How is that any better than the women we complain about daily?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

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I read it. Are you always such a delicate flower?

Delicate? No. Aggressive and sometimes extremely so from being on Tren? Yes.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You're a jerk. congatulations on messing up a good thing.

Messing up a good thing? I went on one date with this chick.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

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Lotta words for 'good job on the pump and dump'. OP got all bent over next to nothing.

You know absolutely nothing about how my life with and without women works.

Take a hike.

I make no apologies for being aggressive and not tolerating BS. I've done the "OK" or "Its cool" thing many times in response to these situations. How many dates/lays did that get me from those women? ZERO.

I don't look like a guy that is going to say "OK" or "Its cool". I'm big, muscular, and intimidating to a certain point. I look like a dude who is going to call them out on their BS and is going to be edgy, and sometimes over the edge. That's my persona. I embrace it, and apparently that's what they are expecting as well.

So in my eyes, this woman was full of sh!t---let's look at the lies she told to me in a short period of time:

1) She was "busy" for 2 weeks with work, yet when I call her out on the carpet, she reverses course and suddenly has not one, but two days that week available to see me.

2) She doesn't like swallowing. Yet I force her to swallow, and she fvcking LOVED it based on her reactions and the number of texts afterwards.

I'm beginning to think there really is something to this whole domination thing Guru stated in his initial thread that leads to women becoming obsessed with you if done correctly. As in, you hear what the woman claims she doesn't like and then you simply tell her she is going to do it and then force her to do it. Its an act of domination. You are telling her to do something against her will and that means if she allows it to happen, regardless of anything else, in her brain she has just submitted to you. Do this a few times and especially during a sexual act and the woman finds you irresistible the same way a female animal finds the alpha male animal irresistible.

It cuts all of the social construct BS out of there and goes straight to the base natural instincts of a female being submissive to a male and it seems like its hardwired to be uncontrollably attractive to a female, as in a man who can force her to submit has ruled over her from an animalistic/primal instinct behavioral pattern that overrides any societal rules put in place by humans and its like giving her crack...she just wants more and more and more. This study pretty much proves it along wih the other studies that have been done in this area:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/head-games/201305/the-allure-aggressive-men

 

[Tictac]

I make no apologies for being aggressive and not tolerating BS. I've done the "OK" or "Its cool" thing many times in response to these situations. How many dates/lays did that get me from those women? ZERO.

I don't look like a guy that is going to say "OK" or "Its cool". I'm big, muscular, and intimidating to a certain point. I look like a dude who is going to call them out on their BS and is going to be edgy, and sometimes over the edge. That's my persona. I embrace it, and apparently that's what they are expecting as well.

So in my eyes, this woman was full of sh!t---let's look at the lies she told to me in a short period of time:

1) She was "busy" for 2 weeks with work, yet when I call her out on the carpet, she reverses course and suddenly has not one, but two days that week available to see me.

2) She doesn't like swallowing. Yet I force her to swallow, and she fvcking LOVED it based on her reactions and the number of texts afterwards.

I'm beginning to think there really is something to this whole domination thing Guru stated in his initial thread that leads to women becoming obsessed with you if done correctly. As in, you hear what the woman claims she doesn't like and then you simply tell her she is going to do it and then force her to do it. Its an act of domination. You are telling her to do something against her will and that means if she allows it to happen, regardless of anything else, in her brain she has just submitted to you. Do this a few times and especially during a sexual act and the woman finds you irresistible the same way a female animal finds the alpha male animal irresistible.

It cuts all of the social construct BS out of there and goes straight to the base natural instincts of a female being submissive to a male and it seems like its hardwired to be uncontrollably attractive to a female, as in a man who can force her to submit has ruled over her from an animalistic/primal instinct behavioral pattern that overrides any societal rules put in place by humans and its like giving her crack...she just wants more and more and more. This study pretty much proves it along wih the other studies that have been done in this area:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/head-games/201305/the-allure-aggressive-men

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Like I said, kinda pitiful and sad.

 

[Alexandar]

very nicely done. the hate ITT is over my head, i dont get it. why does he have to be a delicate flower? girls run this sort of crap constantly, i see nothing wrong with owning their souls for all the guys shes done it to. plus if she was willing to suk his d i c k so quick (and obv fk him) then how is that a "good thing" that he ruined prison you weirdo? please.

well done bud, this is how you get mentally strong enough to go toe to toe with the toughest women.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

very nicely done. the hate ITT is over my head, i dont get it. why does he have to be a delicate flower? girls run this sort of crap constantly, i see nothing wrong with owning their souls for all the guys shes done it to. plus if she was willing to suk his d i c k so quick (and obv fk him) then how is that a "good thing" that he ruined prison you weirdo? please.

well done bud, this is how you get mentally strong enough to go toe to toe with the toughest women.

Thanks bro...I don't see the issue with it either. Women apparently have a deep rooted biological desire to submit to dominance which leads to them wanting to have sex quickly. I am going to continue working on this as I think a lot of guys could benefit from this and just cut through so many levels of "red tape" with a woman.

 

[Suspens]

Low quality trash who deserved the treatment she got, she further proved her low value by those texts. Any self-respecting hoe would have left the table after that 'bold' statement.


However the way you treated her during the BJ proves that you are a damaged little fag who is on a rampage of revenge and justice. Not sure what has happened to you in the past, son.