FR: Hung out with 2 of my "girl" friends + 2 Minute Number Close

[ElStud]

Alright this is gonna be like 2 seperate interactions dude. First interaction is gonna be from when I met up with 2 "girl" friends who I'd previously known, who I had lunch with.

Lunch

So I met up with these girls and we walked to the Subway place on our campus...

- First they basically followed me up to Subway and most of the time they were talking to themselves and I didn't really say anything. This was pretty much the same way until the line. Haha, the girls themselves basically just talked about typical girl sh*t like guys and stuff. I didn't really care too much about that. I remember more into the line one of the girls asked "So what are you getting?".

- Eventually I bought my stuff and waited for them. When they got their stuff I showed them the table we were sitting at and they sat down and stuff. I told them I had to go get a pop from the machine, so I did so and then sat down.

- Most of the time we just ate and when we were pretty much done doing this, we just talked. By "we" I mean mostly the girls with me sometimes getting in the convo and getting a few laughs in from the girls. But yeah, they were pretty cool to hang out with. Being a guy though, I didn't really care for their talk about guys and relationships(Though lol they do tell some funny stories about how creepy guys have approached them though which I admit I laughed at).

- So in the end, we leave the lunch room and go down to the game room. This is the point where the overall vibe of the interaction just started to die and I felt the girls were more interested in themselves than me, though still following me around. By the time we were at the game room I'm thinking "Oh my god, I got to get rid of these girls!". So what did I do? Haha, I just left man and went out to try and find some other girls to talk to.

- When I came back from leaving the girls said "Oh, I thought you left us?" then I made up some BS about "Leave you guys? Nah, I just thought it was over". Blah blah blah, they say something like "How did you walk around the place so fast?" and I start saying I have teleportation powers and bullsh*t and one girl says "Yeah, that's kind of freaky". Eventually the girls said "Blah blah blah we got to go blah blah blah" and I just said "Bye" because I honestly didn't even care about the girls anymore and just wanted to get out of there.

2 Minute Number Close

So I was walking around campus and see this girl sitting outside of her dorm.

- I remember walking up to her saying something like "Well, I've only got 2 minutes, but what's your name?" blah blah and we start talking.

- I remember asking her if that was her dorm but she said no it wasn't and that she was waiting for a friend.

- I basically just plowed a lot. I think I talked about music and I definitely talked about the football game and everything in there. To tell you the truth other than the opener, I don't remember much of the actual convo that well.

- At the end I think I said something like "Well we got to hang out, so I'm gonna call you. Put your number in my phone" and I just give it to her and she puts her number in and I store it. And that pretty much ended the interaction.

Not very descriptive lol but I don't remember a lot from the interaction. All I really remember mostly is the opener and getting her number. And I don't give a damn what haters say. Call this fake, don't matter to me, I got the number in my phone and could easily do another 2 Minute Number Close tommorow.

 

[TheBaconator]

I think the title is a bit misleading, should be + "Unsuccessful" 2 Minute Number Close. But BRAVO man! Congrats! Way to go! You da man.

BTW did u ever call the number crazygirl gave ya?

 

[WalkingStick]

Wait, so you didn't get the number? That's not a number close.

 

[HandyAndy]

Gay...

JUST KIDDING! RELAX!

I like how you were only thinking about getting the hell out of there lol, were the girls boring or too into themselves?

 

[ARrocket]

Wait, so you didn't get the number? That's not a number close.

I'm pretty sure it was a typo.

ElStud: Yeah, you can get numbers. Cool. But what a FR is supposed to do is show HOW you got the number (meaning, you need to remember the conversation) so that you can help others who aren't as good as you at getting these numbers.

Now then, call up these girls and give us a report on the date! And make sure you tell us about the success, not about girls talking about other creepy guys

btw, where do you go to school?

 

[daygameguy]

No hating cuz you are taking steps forward. But here is my feedback:

1. You build too much rapport when you meet girls, so when you are hanging out with them there is not much to talk about.
2. You do very little kino, little or no teasing, no isolation tactics, no jealousy plot lines.
3. You need to neg/tease and isolate your target somehow, and create some sexual tension with the girl you are targeting.

Also, I would advice you to have canned stuff about your personal life in your head, ready to go, so that you can fill up any awkward silences. Do more day 2s, and practice building comfort and sexual tension. Work on your mid-game.

 

[TheBaconator]

I'm pretty sure it was a typo.

ElStud: Yeah, you can get numbers. Cool. But what a FR is supposed to do is show HOW you got the number (meaning, you need to remember the conversation) so that you can help others who aren't as good as you at getting these numbers.

Now then, call up these girls and give us a report on the date! And make sure you tell us about the success, not about girls talking about other creepy guys

btw, where do you go to school?

That's not his style. You see, he gets off on posting a daily FR about some weird to mildly friendly social interaction with a woman, sometimes resulting in a number, and then never mentioning it again. Instead he just proceeds to bring up a new FR where he gets another number to show what a stud he truly is.

Every once in a while he will post a FR where he seems to have decided to call the boatload of numbers he has collected, only to find out that the majority have been disconnected.

In between all of this he has his regularly scheduled argument with all the haters on this board. They spew out such hateful comments like "why don't you call her" and "maybe you should make a move", but alas he is never phased, because he is ELSTUD.

He doesn't need to call, don't you get it? I'm a hater just for posting in his thread. We could all learn a thing or two from this guy.

 

[sprint]

That second "FR" was pretty funny. He gave her his phone so she would put her number in and SHE DIDN'T DO IT!!! hahahahahahaha!

that is why I like his threads. a guy who thinks he's all that but is really just a lame chump. such good laughs.

oh and why even post a "FR" where a girl completely rejects you? hahahaha man this guy doesn't get it.


yeah and I just read this: "Though lol they do tell some funny stories about how creepy guys have approached them though which I admit I laughed at"
they're probably talking about Elstud. My god the irony here is awesome. I mean seriously what are the chances of this coming up in a conversation with Elstud? It seems like he's a troll but he can't be. He's just completely clueless.

 

[ElStud]

I'm pretty sure it was a typo.

ElStud: Yeah, you can get numbers. Cool. But what a FR is supposed to do is show HOW you got the number (meaning, you need to remember the conversation) so that you can help others who aren't as good as you at getting these numbers.

Now then, call up these girls and give us a report on the date! And make sure you tell us about the success, not about girls talking about other creepy guys

btw, where do you go to school?

Gave her the phone and she put the number in. Easy. And who really cares if you think it was a number close? She put the number in my phone and I have it stored.

But I see where you coud've got that idea because I put "doesn't". It should be "puts it in" which I've corrected.

That's not his style. You see, he gets off on posting a daily FR about some weird to mildly friendly social interaction with a woman, sometimes resulting in a number, and then never mentioning it again. Instead he just proceeds to bring up a new FR where he gets another number to show what a stud he truly is.

Every once in a while he will post a FR where he seems to have decided to call the boatload of numbers he has collected, only to find out that the majority have been disconnected.

In between all of this he has his regularly scheduled argument with all the haters on this board. They spew out such hateful comments like "why don't you call her" and "maybe you should make a move", but alas he is never phased, because he is ELSTUD.

He doesn't need to call, don't you get it? I'm a hater just for posting in his thread. We could all learn a thing or two from this guy.

My basic rule is call her and if she flakes, just delete the number. Kind of my idea of flake control. If I call them leave a voicemail and they never answer it back, I see that as being sort of a flake and just delete it.

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No hating cuz you are taking steps forward. But here is my feedback:

1. You build too much rapport when you meet girls, so when you are hanging out with them there is not much to talk about.
2. You do very little kino, little or no teasing, no isolation tactics, no jealousy plot lines.
3. You need to neg/tease and isolate your target somehow, and create some sexual tension with the girl you are targeting.

Also, I would advice you to have canned stuff about your personal life in your head, ready to go, so that you can fill up any awkward silences. Do more day 2s, and practice building comfort and sexual tension. Work on your mid-game.

Well yeah, that's your advice but I've never really used canned stuff and have gotten interest. However, I will take the tip on kino, though it's pretty useless when you have 2 girls + what's the point of escalating if you're not going to go for the kiss close? I'm just saying I'm probably only gonna try and escalate if I'm trying to go for the kiss.

And teasing I might try. Negging? Nah, not my thing and I feel like a jerk doing it.

 

[Clarky]

'what's the point of escalating if you're not going to go for the kiss close? I'm just saying I'm probably only gonna try and escalate if I'm trying to go for the kiss'

I dont understand this. Do you mean you arn't interested in these girls so you didnt escalate? or that you knew you wouldn't get a kiss close so you didnt escalate?

You're probably thinking who is this guy tranna give me advice? that's fair enough.

If you wonna know seeing as your interested in the topic i've 'kiss closed' 6 girls this year. It really isnt that hard to do in the right situation.

Get yourself to parties or clubs thats where all mine have come from it's so much easier and the atmosphere lends itself to that kind of activity.

I assure you, once you do it the first time it becomes second nature, thats just my view

 

[HandyAndy]

Funny how ElFag over here only responds to me when im making fun of his terrible interaction but he doesnt say anything when I ask him a genuine question...

Is that your idea of ignoring me? Troll!!!

 

[ElStud]

'what's the point of escalating if you're not going to go for the kiss close? I'm just saying I'm probably only gonna try and escalate if I'm trying to go for the kiss'

I dont understand this. Do you mean you arn't interested in these girls so you didnt escalate? or that you knew you wouldn't get a kiss close so you didnt escalate?

You're probably thinking who is this guy tranna give me advice? that's fair enough.

If you wonna know seeing as your interested in the topic i've 'kiss closed' 6 girls this year. It really isnt that hard to do in the right situation.

Get yourself to parties or clubs thats where all mine have come from it's so much easier and the atmosphere lends itself to that kind of activity.

I assure you, once you do it the first time it becomes second nature, thats just my view

lol I see ANY approach as simply practice. Therefore if I practice trying to kiss close one girl and it doesn't work out, I can just kiss another. But there's really no point in my mind of escalation, unless you're going to go for the kiss close. Kissing in itself is just another form of sexual escalation.

And yes that is true, kiss closing is 'easier' in those environments, but really that kind of environment isn't required for it. I haven't done it no, but I've seen a vid of a guy kissing a girl he just met during day game. In the end, it's more of a challenge to kiss on the approach, but it is better practice than doing it in a bar/club, because girls will be naturally more willing in that environment.

 

[oakraiderz2]

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