FR: college orientation = good timessss

[j8snx1]

Well I just got back from my college orientation, and WOW it was awesome!!!
I managed to get 4 girls' numbers, but I'm more interested in one of them.


Let's jump the gun to the highlight on my sarging of the orientation...

Alright, so it's the end of the 2nd night and they have a dance from 9-12! I freaking LOVE freak dancing; it has to be one of the most simplest, yet one of the most exciting dances of them all. So yes, the beginning of the dance was quite slow, since the songs were sort of boring and...joke-like. When things began to heat up, as in good hip-hop tunes came on, I became a freak !!

I just started butt bumping with the girls I wanted to dance with. Here's the cool part! If the girl doesn't wanna dance with me, I knew from her face expression (YES, REJECTIONS!!!), but as for the girls that DID wanna dance with me, they butt bumped back, and then the freak on began! (butt bumping is such a good way to ask for a dance without coming off as needY!)

There was this one girl who I butt bumped, and she was a HB8 and she freaked like mad! we danced for a while, and i noticed how her friends (2 of em) dragged her away n what not, and at times i noticed how she danced with like two or three other dudes. She also said she "didnt remember her cell phone number" when I #closed. So I thought to myself, "oh well, at least i danced with her; NEXT!" And I think that attitude showed when she was near me during the songs where I was having a blast freaking other girls. She started giving me those sexy "come here" motions when I was nearby, thus fueling the fun even more. After more dancing I got her to punch in her digits because she suddenly "remembered her cell #"!!!!

From then on the songs became more weirder with that one song that goes "something-something-something SHOUT! cmon now~ SHOUT!" and Grease, etc. I started making trains, joining trains, and the HB8 was following me as I began create some excitement!

Just wanted to report this because as DJ's we need that cool and relaxed attitude, for the needy and tense attitudes will scare women away; if you show that you can have an AWESOME time whether the girl is there or not, then you have higher chances of making things happen, such as the #close n what not.

Anyone wanna give comments, advice, add-ons, criticisms, PLEASE FEEL FREE TO DO SO!!!


PS: A QUICK QUESTION! I'm definitely going to call her up tomorrow to set up a date, but her zip code is kinda bizarre ...like in the 900s or 600s...so IM ASSUMING shes in North California while I'm in the South. I dont have a car, I dont think she does, and having a girl pick me up on the first date isnt such a bad idea but id wonder what she'd think of me as.. It's a lame dilemma because if she IS miles and miles away then my chances of her meeting with me for a good date will be a lot lower than normal! What should I do?

 

[AngelusPUA]

I love it how when she saw that other girls wanted you she suddenly rememberd her number.

 

[SnowBlind77]

thats awesome dude, thats the way to live life!

I experienced the exact same thing at my prom. I never EVER danced before, but i was just like "F*uck it, its prom night baby" and i was dancing with alllllll the girls. i got sooo mcuh attention, and all these girls were all over me. One chick who ive been attracted to for a while was looking for me all night to dance with ehr and ****, we danced all night, and guess who woke up next to me the next morning? :yes:

Dancing is actually key, most guys dont have the balls. Im probably the worst dancer out there, but i dance like nobodys looking and jsut try to enjoy myself, and amke a joke out of it at the same time, and thats when i realised.....thats what makes you a good dancer, is not givin a f*ck what anyone else thinks. all the girls think im a great dancer, figure that one out.

 

[j8snx1]

hhaahahaha yeahhh snowblind you're right. it's all about WHO GIVES A CRAP HOW I DANCE OR HOW EVERYONE THINKS I DANCE?!

The moment you let loose is the moment dancing is one of the best things that has ever happened! Some of the guys that I befriended during the orientation were so shy and all that man, but once they just started dancing (yes even the nerdiest looking guys!!!!) they had a blast with both among friends and good looking girls!


As for the HB8 I'm gonna' give her a call later tonight, you know, to leave on a good note before she rests @ home

 

[protienpowder]

going that far just to see a girl is kinda needy. If I were you, I would have a short conversation with her, then tell her that you guys should hang out sometime when you both get to college. If that time is too far apart for her forget it.

Seriously, in the first days in college, you should be get allot of girls numbers. Like in the hundreds. You should atleast get 50 if you go to the socials, meet people in your dorms, meet your friends friends, go to the parties, ect. Nobody knows each other, and pple wanna meet each other. Your rejection rate in the first couple days of college should be .0001%

 

[Big Eee Zee]

Liking orientation means you'll have a good time in college.

I didnt like it, and dont like college so far either. But then again, i dont even look at girls, im there to work my ass off. its no fun.

I also realize i matured out of and grew up past partying to a large extent.

Meh, whaddaya gonna do?

 

[j8snx1]

Hahahahaha oh hellllll yeah mannnn the first week will be simply AMAZING!

response to proteinpowder:

hey man you're right. It would SUCK to go that far and risk having her not like me that much afterall you know??? i'll definitely call her up soon and just keep in touch somehow, and if she manages to come down to so.cal (assuming shes in no.cal) then we'll chill, but otherwise, I'm not traveling 40+ miles for a date...UNLESS SHE decides to come here hehehe

response to big eee zee:

Dude...c'mon man! Sure you're there to study too, but how you behave now will pretty much reflect your behaviors later on! Think about it: say you keep up this whole charade of "not talking to or approaching women and staying away from social gatherings" for the rest of your college life! Dude, you miss out on 4 years of opportunities to approach women, get rejected, learn from mistakes, then go on again and again until it becomes second nature.

Cmon man, I'm sure the orientation, or even college, isnt that fun because you chose not to have fun and get rid of your inhibitions do so man, it's so worth the investment