FR: 4 approaches at the mall.

[ElStud]

So I went to the mall today and I approached 4 girls. Here it they went:

Approach # 1

So I see this hot girl in American Eagle and I go to talk to her.
Me: Hey!
Her: Hey!
[I stand there smiling for 15 seconds, not reacting to the silence]
[She laughs]
Her: So are you going to say something?
Me: You're funny.

And I left after that.

That was actually better then all the other approaches. Logicly it doesn't seem like this kind of stuff get the girls interest, but the game really isn't logical. I was unreactive and she started feeling social pressure.

Approach # 2

I'm walking in this womens clothing store and I see this hot chick who works there.
Me: Hey, I like your black dress, where'd you get it?
Her: Which one?
Me: No, I was asking you where you got your black dress?
Her: Target.
Me: I see. Which store would you say is better Target or K-Mart?
Her: I don't know, why?
Me: I don't know.
Me: So your job must get pretty boring, stacking clothes all day. Does it pay well?
Her: Not really.
Me: Well if there are higher paying jobs why don't you work at one of those?
Her: I don't know, it's fun.
Me: That's cool, doing things because you think they're fun.
Me: So do you play any instruments?
Her: No.
Me: Yeah, I play the guitar. I'm going to be a rockstar one day so one day I might give you a ticket to one of my shows.
Her: That's cool.
Her: My boss is calling me, I'll be back.

Yep, that was a pretty sh*tty approach.

Approach # 3:

I was walking through the mall and I see this when that I thought was young, but was older and approached her.
Me: So business isn't doing too well today huh?
Her: Not really.
Me: So does your job pay well?
Her: It pays okay.
Me: Yeah, I'm thinking about getting a job in the computer industry when I'm older. It pays a lot.
Me: So how much does this job pay exactly?
Her: I'd like to keep that private.
Me: Ah, I can respect that.
Me: Well, I'll see you later.
Her: Yeah.

Yep, that one sucked too.

Approach # 4

I'm in this clothing store and I see this hot Asian girl. Since my phone died I didn't know what time it was, so I asked her.
Me: Hey, do you know what time it is?
Her: Oh, it's 9.
Me: Oh, is that when the mall closes?
Her: Uh, I don't know, I guess.
Me: Oh, sorry I thought you worked here.
Her: No I don't work here.

And another sh*tty approach.

 

[BannedGod]

at least you were man enough to do the approaches, which is already a lot better then a lot of people out here, including me. Keep doing these approaches bro! (but work on some better dialogue )

 

[Canadien]

you justgave me more confidence man..

So I went to the mall today and I approached 4 girls. Here it they went:

Approach # 1

That was actually better then all the other approaches. Logicly it doesn't seem like this kind of stuff get the girls interest, but the game really isn't logical. I was unreactive and she started feeling social pressure.

Approach # 2

Yep, that was a pretty sh*tty approach.

Approach # 3:

Yep, that one sucked too.

Approach # 4

And another sh*tty approach.

hearing your story, now I'll actually feel normal shot down,kep it up, persistence will pay off big time...

 

[jtrain 289]

lol yo i gurantee u if u stopped focusing on how she thinks of you and techniques and started focusing on just having fun and being yourself your conversation would be a lot better and you would get alot of good results. If she rejects you when you were being yourself that will tell you that the problem isnt you its her so just forget about her. Thats the problem most of us have we think that if we get rejected that its cause were doing something wrong bull**** its them. Yuo approaching and being yourself means your a man if she doesnt recognize your masculanity that means she is not female enough for you she's not being a women she's being a *****.


This is the problem with our society today men are not being men and women are not being women this is why when you see a women you **** her and leave her because being women isnt all about boobs and an ass if she was women you wouldnt leave her.Same thing with us men this is why women use us for our money because we are not being men or they use us for their pleasure(players seducers speed seductionists) just be a man .


Getting the girl is not the sucess the fact that you had the balls to convey your real self makes you a man and sets you apart from 97 percent of the world if she doesnt recognize this then she is not for you.Im not gonna lie speed seduction will get you sex but that doesnt mean you'll be truely satisfied after a while girls will be meaningless to you with this route. A man is the path to freedom because then you will know it was you that got her and you will be comfortable around her because you are comfortable with yourself girls treat us the way we feel and treat ourselves.


If you think your **** she will treat you like **** if you think you are the **** she will treat you like you are the ****. Its like what Pook says As you think you shall become actually you dont need to think this because deep down you already know you have it. Its just philosophiy and the way people treat you has corrupted your mind. Men were madeto complete the world Women where made for the mans pleasure and this is a TRUE FACT. Men conquer worlds women conquer man(try to get the man to want them.)

 

[Effington]

Uhh, it's actually pretty rude to ask someone how much money they make, especially to strangers. Other than that, your "approaches" sounded like boring, close-ended questions. Props for the attempt, but that material is losing before you even begin.

In your next approach, I'd recommend saying hi and then use a neg on her. Personally, I use a lot of sarcastic humor, but that's just my style.

 

[Lust]

Dude you haven't improved at all since the last time I viewed on of your FRs which was a good 2-3 months ago.

You also haven't taken in the advice I remember giving you, or any advice anyone else has given you all that time ago. You're approaches are the same, and it's just not working.

Why are you wasting your ability to have enough balls to approach consistently with methods that don't work? You keep saying it's about what you are subconsciously conveying through bodylanguage etc... but you're conversational skills are horrible and that's what's killing your sets. You keep saying the same things eg. The rock star thing I told you about, yeah it's good for humor and a dhv but you can't keep using it when the situations aren't right. You can't just suddenly ask her if she plays any instruments because you're telegraphing too much interest, then the rockstar line that you always use straight after just kills it.

Change the way you do things, at least try it out for a while, because you're not going very well here.

 

[Cash37]

Approach #2 is pretty funny to me. I think your asking random questions before you even get into conversation. Try to stay on one topic, her.