I missed 3 easy pulls last weekend, and it was so frustrating. It was frustrating after the fact, not as it was happening, as I had a constant flow of girls coming to me, but as I was evaluating each, I lost all three. Here's what went down:
First girl: tall hot blonde:
This girl had a thin body, over 6' tall, stiletto heels, and approached me at the bar, standing uncomfortably close to me. I knew she was down. I start chatting her up, and she is going along with everything I'm saying. I tell her she is swedish, she is this that, and she agrees with everything. She is comfortable with the kino I try. I make a mistake and go for the number after like a minute and a half lol, and that puts a damper on things, and I leave the bar, slightly embarrassed.
Second girl: very cute blonde:
Actually, this chick was actually pointing me out at the bar and gossiping to her girlfriend about me as soon as she saw me. She disappeared into the crowd, but I caught up with her at the end of the night...
Third girl: hot brunette:
I decide to bounce to another bar, and see what's up. It's horrible. As I leave, a hot tall brunette opens me right on the street. It's about 1:30 AM and she asks: "where's the after party at?" She is a single girl with a boyfriend/girlfriend couple.
Now, if I had any awareness at all, I could have done the match: single girl, 1:30 AM, approaches me right on the street. She must be down. Yet, I take the question literally, and start chatting up her friends! My friend chats her up, and she bails, not getting what she wants!
Back to blonde girl:
I make my way back to the first bar and see the girl outside who was pointing at me earlier. She's talking to some scrubby looking guy. I figure she must be waiting for some opportunity to hook it up, as this guy looks like he has just crawled out of a trash container.
I approach her and ask her some lame question about where I've seen her before (obviously a half hour earlier). She squeezes my hand as we speak, and I just get nervous and bail.
It was horrible, man. Yeah, I did just get out a relationship and I was thinking about my ex and comparing girls to her, but sh!t as I was shopping in the candy store, I forgot to take some candy home!
Help me be more aware, guys.
First girl: tall hot blonde:
This girl had a thin body, over 6' tall, stiletto heels, and approached me at the bar, standing uncomfortably close to me. I knew she was down. I start chatting her up, and she is going along with everything I'm saying. I tell her she is swedish, she is this that, and she agrees with everything. She is comfortable with the kino I try. I make a mistake and go for the number after like a minute and a half lol, and that puts a damper on things, and I leave the bar, slightly embarrassed.
Second girl: very cute blonde:
Actually, this chick was actually pointing me out at the bar and gossiping to her girlfriend about me as soon as she saw me. She disappeared into the crowd, but I caught up with her at the end of the night...
Third girl: hot brunette:
I decide to bounce to another bar, and see what's up. It's horrible. As I leave, a hot tall brunette opens me right on the street. It's about 1:30 AM and she asks: "where's the after party at?" She is a single girl with a boyfriend/girlfriend couple.
Now, if I had any awareness at all, I could have done the match: single girl, 1:30 AM, approaches me right on the street. She must be down. Yet, I take the question literally, and start chatting up her friends! My friend chats her up, and she bails, not getting what she wants!
Back to blonde girl:
I make my way back to the first bar and see the girl outside who was pointing at me earlier. She's talking to some scrubby looking guy. I figure she must be waiting for some opportunity to hook it up, as this guy looks like he has just crawled out of a trash container.
I approach her and ask her some lame question about where I've seen her before (obviously a half hour earlier). She squeezes my hand as we speak, and I just get nervous and bail.
It was horrible, man. Yeah, I did just get out a relationship and I was thinking about my ex and comparing girls to her, but sh!t as I was shopping in the candy store, I forgot to take some candy home!
Help me be more aware, guys.