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DavenJuan

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i have been on this site for a while now, and i have contributed my advice as well as ask for some in return. there has been a lot of knowledge thrown my way since i have been here and i have learned a lot about myself. But it seems that since i have been trying to "convert" myself from my old "afc" ways i have been pursued by nothing but drama and trouble with women.

ie: I suggest maybe reading my thread about a month ago called "What the f*c!!" to better understand the situation.

I have been talking to this one girl for about a year now, (Sarah), and she is great, but i told her that i dont want a gfriend. She says that she understands and that its cool, but i konw that its not with her because of how long we hvae been talking for. well, she has been cool with the situation enough to not b*tch about it all the time until of late.

there is this other girl (well call her lisa) who i met a couple of months ago at a club (read old post). And i talk to her very seldomly. We ended up sleeping together and i never told Sarah. As a matter of fact, i told her that i didnt do anything but kiss Lisa once (they happen to know the same people kinda)

Well, the other night, Sarah (1yr girl) stayed at my house and its 300am and my phone is constantly ringing (private) i didnt answer because i never answer private calls, but right before the private phone calls starting coming in, Lisa (club/months girl) called once. So i assumed that it was her calling private. Sarah was the one who saw jen call and new it was her calling to, but just was telling me to answer it already. Well after a 1/2 hour passes, Sarahs phone starts to ring, and its her house number, she answers it and her momz is all hysterical saying how someone keeps calling the house and saying that sarah had left the bar drunk as hell and they were worried she didnt get home okay (which was all a lie). They said that there name was michele and sarah doesnt know a michele. well after she convinced her moms she was okay, she new it was Lisa cuz she was just callin' my phone, but neither of us couldve figured out how lisa got sarahs telephone number. Well in the morning sarah goes out to her car and she has bricks laying in her window and her car is all keyed up from someone last night. (obviously lisa) lisa left me a message askin me how my night was with sarah and how she never wants to talk to me again.

lisa called and left me a message tellin me to stop telling people she did that to sarahs car because she didnt do it and that she was considering this a threat cuz she knows where i live.

Now sarah, the girl ive been talking to for a year noiw is not trusting me and is debating if its worth even still talking to me cuz she doesnt want to have to deal with sh*t like this (and i cant blame her). as anyone else had to deal with pyscho girls like this, and what do i say to sarah, i dont want to lose her to some stupid pyscho chick.

tryin to move away from your old afc ways comes with high consequences i see.
 

Bonhomme

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more women = more drama

The math is very simple.
 

deeman

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damn dog! Can you say 'fatal attraction'.
 

Quick

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Right now, you should just hope that Lisa is true to her word and never speaks to you again, and just wanted one act of revenge. If she does, tell her that she's not going to accomplish anything by what she's doing. You like her and have no hard feelings against her, but if she keeps it up, you two can't even be friends anymore.

I would go with Sarah to file a police report on the car incident immediately, and tell them everything that you suspect happened. That gets everything documented in case Lisa escalates her behavior. It'll be the second incident, and be easier to get something done like a restraining order. Show Sarah that you think Lisa is crazy, and that you're making moves to stop her.

Good luck. Psychos rarely stop themselves. Try to be her friend and not to antagonize her. Because she's not rational, she has the edge in any battle between the two of you because she's willing to sacrifice more to get revenge.
 
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