stevey_2000
Senior Don Juan
Hi All,
This is my first posting for over a year and a half but i have to share something with you where i went drastically wrong and i'm going to get loads of stick for the following which i went back into AFC mode after successfully getting myself a HB with the help of the help from my fellow DJ's, let me explain:
The place i am currently working i used to be known as a ladies man and a guy who had plenty of fun at weekends and always up for a laugh, that was until i met a girl who worked there who i sort of liked but her IL was a lot higher than mine and after taking her number and giving her mine, she proceeded to send me texts very often and couldn't keep her away,
eventually we started dating every weekend and kept it at once a week while i was still seeing my mates all week and keeping myself busy at the gym, she was a tomboy and had quite a few male friends who text her but i didn't let this bother me at all which did get her pissed off i suppose, until about 3 months in i noticed a darker side to her after agreeing to seeing her nearly every night of the week she started getting mardier and got very nasty after having a few beers and flirting with other guys but by this time i got myself into her so much i took it and let myself go through months of crap which i took off her, bare in mind i hardly saw any of my friends at this point, we did everything together,
bare in mind that if i had a girl text me, she wouldn't let me forget and go insanely jealous, eventually (this will make you cringe) we got engaged and planned to buy an apartment which we moved in 4 months ago, then suddenly after moving in she started going out with female friends all the time and about 3 weeks ago she told me she no longer wanted to know me,
i have now moved out of the apartment and live at home with my parents which i am left feeling like this girl has took me for a mug!!, i've3 only just got over it and now am starting to concentrate on getting myself back to becoming what i was before i met this ho!!,
i found out last week that she went to meet a guy while she was still with me and i do believe that she has found someone else so has decided to offload me for someone who isn't wussy (which is what she changed me into!)
I'm not posting this story to moan about my luck as it was my fault for losing the DJ mindset but to teach all you guys from my mistakes and the lesson is this:
DO NOT LET A GIRL DRAG YOU AWAY FROM YOUR BUDDIES AND TAKE YOUR INDEPENDENCE AWAY FROM YOU AS YOUR MAKING A BIG MISTAKE
the only bad mistake you can make is one you don't learn from
cheers,
Ste.
This is my first posting for over a year and a half but i have to share something with you where i went drastically wrong and i'm going to get loads of stick for the following which i went back into AFC mode after successfully getting myself a HB with the help of the help from my fellow DJ's, let me explain:
The place i am currently working i used to be known as a ladies man and a guy who had plenty of fun at weekends and always up for a laugh, that was until i met a girl who worked there who i sort of liked but her IL was a lot higher than mine and after taking her number and giving her mine, she proceeded to send me texts very often and couldn't keep her away,
eventually we started dating every weekend and kept it at once a week while i was still seeing my mates all week and keeping myself busy at the gym, she was a tomboy and had quite a few male friends who text her but i didn't let this bother me at all which did get her pissed off i suppose, until about 3 months in i noticed a darker side to her after agreeing to seeing her nearly every night of the week she started getting mardier and got very nasty after having a few beers and flirting with other guys but by this time i got myself into her so much i took it and let myself go through months of crap which i took off her, bare in mind i hardly saw any of my friends at this point, we did everything together,
bare in mind that if i had a girl text me, she wouldn't let me forget and go insanely jealous, eventually (this will make you cringe) we got engaged and planned to buy an apartment which we moved in 4 months ago, then suddenly after moving in she started going out with female friends all the time and about 3 weeks ago she told me she no longer wanted to know me,
i have now moved out of the apartment and live at home with my parents which i am left feeling like this girl has took me for a mug!!, i've3 only just got over it and now am starting to concentrate on getting myself back to becoming what i was before i met this ho!!,
i found out last week that she went to meet a guy while she was still with me and i do believe that she has found someone else so has decided to offload me for someone who isn't wussy (which is what she changed me into!)
I'm not posting this story to moan about my luck as it was my fault for losing the DJ mindset but to teach all you guys from my mistakes and the lesson is this:
DO NOT LET A GIRL DRAG YOU AWAY FROM YOUR BUDDIES AND TAKE YOUR INDEPENDENCE AWAY FROM YOU AS YOUR MAKING A BIG MISTAKE
the only bad mistake you can make is one you don't learn from
cheers,
Ste.
