HumbleNinja
Banned
Seriously. Forget all the threads about approach, what's "best", the "tricks" to "make" chicks like you and all that other weirdo sht.
All you have to do is approach chicks like a NORMAL person and not like some overthinking whack-a-doo.
At work:
Hey! How's your work day going? Talk quick about yours and ask their name. Do it with all chicks at your job. You'll wind up meeting them all. Make small talk about work or things they're working on.
At a club: "Damn this friggin place is loud as hell! I need to get some drinks till my brain shuts my ears off!" or "Where's the bathroom in this joint?" "What kind of drink is that?"
Out: Hey! Nice shoes! I know a few chicks who have them. Good choice! What's your name? (Chicks love getting compliments on their shoes..It's weird as hell but they do. lol) Even if the chick brushes you off tell her your name and nice meeting you.
Forget about thinking about talking to her, or her not "liking" you/ "rejecting" you. Don't hesitate or your mind will start putting fear and doubt etc. into you.
There is nothing to fear but fear itself. Don't worry about the "no's" it's the YES'S that count.
Think of it as talking to a dude you just met. You don't care if the dude doesn't want to talk. You just talk and BS about random sht.
All you really have to do is talk about the situation your in, place your at, ask about their work day at work, or anything OTHER than focusing on asking/ wondering if she has a boyfriend/ if she "likes" you etc.
Most ALL chicks will start talking. Make small talk about whatever or wherever you are at. Exchange names and see if she keeps blabbing (the more the better) and then tell her to give you her number and you'll text her yours.
If you worked in a place doing sales with say all of the hottest girls alive you wouldn't run to a corner and hide or simply just quit the job...You'd HAVE to talk to them about all kinds of BS like you were talking to other dudes. You'd get so used to it you'd see there isn't some secret PUA or "DJ" nerd nonsense to it. You'd just talk, get to know them quick and possibly exchange numbers or see them again while meeting more and more doing the same thing NORMAL people do ALL THE TIME.
Don't overthink anything. Ask regular questions about what's going on, where you are at, anything but focusing on trying to "pick her up". If the chick likes the way you look, likes the random conversation she'll either keep talking to you, talk to you again next time, or exchange numbers with you when you pull out your phone and tell her to give you hers. EVEN IF ONE or a FEW don't? You keep talking to new ones the same way normal dudes do all the freakin time..
It really is THAT easy.
All you have to do is approach chicks like a NORMAL person and not like some overthinking whack-a-doo.
At work:
Hey! How's your work day going? Talk quick about yours and ask their name. Do it with all chicks at your job. You'll wind up meeting them all. Make small talk about work or things they're working on.
At a club: "Damn this friggin place is loud as hell! I need to get some drinks till my brain shuts my ears off!" or "Where's the bathroom in this joint?" "What kind of drink is that?"
Out: Hey! Nice shoes! I know a few chicks who have them. Good choice! What's your name? (Chicks love getting compliments on their shoes..It's weird as hell but they do. lol) Even if the chick brushes you off tell her your name and nice meeting you.
Forget about thinking about talking to her, or her not "liking" you/ "rejecting" you. Don't hesitate or your mind will start putting fear and doubt etc. into you.
There is nothing to fear but fear itself. Don't worry about the "no's" it's the YES'S that count.
Think of it as talking to a dude you just met. You don't care if the dude doesn't want to talk. You just talk and BS about random sht.
All you really have to do is talk about the situation your in, place your at, ask about their work day at work, or anything OTHER than focusing on asking/ wondering if she has a boyfriend/ if she "likes" you etc.
Most ALL chicks will start talking. Make small talk about whatever or wherever you are at. Exchange names and see if she keeps blabbing (the more the better) and then tell her to give you her number and you'll text her yours.
If you worked in a place doing sales with say all of the hottest girls alive you wouldn't run to a corner and hide or simply just quit the job...You'd HAVE to talk to them about all kinds of BS like you were talking to other dudes. You'd get so used to it you'd see there isn't some secret PUA or "DJ" nerd nonsense to it. You'd just talk, get to know them quick and possibly exchange numbers or see them again while meeting more and more doing the same thing NORMAL people do ALL THE TIME.
Don't overthink anything. Ask regular questions about what's going on, where you are at, anything but focusing on trying to "pick her up". If the chick likes the way you look, likes the random conversation she'll either keep talking to you, talk to you again next time, or exchange numbers with you when you pull out your phone and tell her to give you hers. EVEN IF ONE or a FEW don't? You keep talking to new ones the same way normal dudes do all the freakin time..
It really is THAT easy.
