For tthos of you that have Doc Loves the system...please share your knowledge.....

[FrancisBegbie]

hello. first of all I would like to introduce myself and say tthat this here site is a really good thing for males around the world...now for my question. Lately Ive been coming to this sitte alot as I was once an AFC (with my last gfriend) and now I am planning on learning as much as I can and becoming a Dj myself. Tthe only thing that ive noticed is that I cant seem to find too much onspot information aboutt keeping a girl 1 or 2 yrs into a relationship. What to do and not to do when youre already in a deep relationship with a girl. The reason I ask this is bcus I am currently in a relationship and want to make sure that I dont mess up. I know were nott really supposed to care if we mess up or nott and justt go witth the flow butt Id like some tips on certain things we can do(real life situations) to keep a relationship going stroing throughout the years. This is tthe main reason why I was considering buying Doc Love's The System as many people say that he is the mastter in showing you how to keep a woman interested. The problem is that at the moment im just a college student and therefore dontt have too much bucks tto spend ...I dontt frett about this though since I am less than a year from completing my bachellor's degree in Computer Science and I know that as soon as I graduett there will be many companies offering me job opportunities that really pay big bucks. I was wondering ttho...i know tthat there are many guys on this board that do own Doc Loves the system and well I was wondering if they could do the rest of us here a favor and post some of what doc love advises in order tto have a good relationship....what does he say we should do in order to make a relationship work and more importanttly always keep a woman interested. I know that he talks about being a challenge...but how so? Does hw give examples of this? Also how do u remain a challenge and allurring once uve been in a relationship for quite a while. I would really appreciate any advice and pointers taken from tthe system that you guys could give us...thanks alot in advance


PS: my keyboard sux, so I apologize for my ****ty grammar...

 

[ApocalypseCow]

Re: For tthos of you that have Doc Loves the system...please share your knowledge....

Originally posted by FrancisBegbie
The problem is that at the moment im just a college student and therefore dontt have too much bucks tto spend ...I dontt frett about this though since I am less than a year from completing my bachellor's degree in Computer Science and I know that as soon as I graduett there will be many companies offering me job opportunities that really pay big bucks.

You don't read the newspaper much, do you?

 

[squirrels]

As a Comp-sci major, I'd hope you could at least fix that sticking 't' key.

If you concern yourself with messing up, you WILL mess up. Concern yourself with how to keep the relationship fun.

Being "mysterious" can be as simple as trying new things, or taking one action when she's become accustomed to things occurring a certain way, or disagreeing with her on something when she expects you to agree...or even just changing how your dress or something. There are articles on this kind of stuff in the DJ Bible and elsewhere.

I was in a strip club last night and my friend, who is a semi-regular at this place, had just gone to the ATM to get money for a lapdance with this stripper who had been flirting with him all night. As soon as he left, she turned to me and said, "He's so predictable." That's what you NEVER want a woman to say about you. Disagree with her. Don't let her get her way ALL the time. Surprise her with something you think she'll like. Just don't be "predictable."

As for Doc Love's "System," I can't speak for it, but usually his articles are pretty good.

 

[FrancisBegbie]

Re: Re: For tthos of you that have Doc Loves the system...please share your knowledge....

Originally posted by ApocalypseCow
You don't read the newspaper much, do you?

sure I do...maybe you dont....heres a couple of excerpts from articles found on the web..oh and dont hate someone for being ambitious and trying to succeed. That is a very non-dj like behavior....
(taken from www.msn.com)
TOPPING THE SALARY HEAP COMPUTER SCIENCE AND INFORMATION TECHNOLOGY GRADUATES COMMAND HIGHEST STARTING INCOME
Bill Scanlon News Staff Writer; Bill Scanlon News Staff Writer

TOPPING THE SALARY HEAP COMPUTER SCIENCE AND INFORMATION TECHNOLOGY GRADUATES COMMAND HIGHEST STARTING INCOME.
Eighty thousand dollars to start? Plus a $9,000 signing bonus? Plus $12,000 in stock options? Parents attending college graduations this spring can be forgiven their envy at the starting salaries some of their children are commanding. Or for suggesting that their children pay back their own dang college loans.

Never have so many recruiters wooed, glad-handed or coaxed college seniors as they have this year, say Colorado's college career services

Jack Swindle, who testified on behalf of Texas Instruments in Dallas, said although electrical engineering and computer science jobs are high-paying and available after graduation, there is still a shortage of degree holders.

Swindle said Austin's average salary in the high-tech industry is number five in the nation at $76,000.

"We still have many jobs unfilled despite the growth," Swindle said, adding that there are currently 35,000 high-tech jobs open in Texas.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: Re: Re: For tthos of you that have Doc Loves the system...please share your knowledge....

Originally posted by FrancisBegbie
sure I do...maybe you dont....heres a couple of excerpts from articles found on the web..oh and dont hate someone for being ambitious and trying to succeed. That is a very non-dj like behavior....

I want to wish you a lot of luck. There is a lot of competition out there with IT professionals with not only a degree but many years of experience. Hopefully you have knowledge on one of the hot technologies (.NET, SANS, security).

I suggest that during your last year, you get some experience under your belt, even if it's just an internship. That little bit of extra work can make a world of difference.

 

[FrancisBegbie]

Re: Re: Re: Re: For tthos of you that have Doc Loves the system...please share your knowledge....

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I want to wish you a lot of luck. There is a lot of competition out there with IT professionals with not only a degree but many years of experience. Hopefully you have knowledge on one of the hot technologies (.NET, SANS, security).

I suggest that during your last year, you get some experience under your belt, even if it's just an internship. That little bit of extra work can make a world of difference.

yes I am planning on doing just that next semester...it will really get me prepared for whatts to come after I graduate...thanks bro..

 

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[dionysius_d]

I've been in IT for a while.. its like anything.. if you love it, and enjoy doing it, you'll make money. If you do it for the money itself, it will be slow and painful.

I got out of programming myself because i didn't like it.

In this country, there is an IT oversupply and an undersupply of jobs.. not many companies give a stuff about new IT at the moment and are making do with short projects with contractors.

I know a few network dudes who are very good, and are applying with 100+ other networking dudes for one job.

Java has potential.

You posted about Doc Love anyway.. i have only ever bought one 'book', but to be honest, most of the stuff is available free, and even here on occasion..

i don't pay for info anymore since its usually been pilfered from somewhere else.. and u can find it. This has been true for me 9 out of 10 times.. even with "secret" stuff.


good luck,

D.

 

[FrancisBegbie]

so....anybody else got any The System tips to share....?It would really be appreciated

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by FrancisBegbie
so....anybody else got any The System tips to share....?It would really be appreciated

The System is as Doc Love puts it, a dating dictionary that reaffirms that "the key to women is challenge," and that the bottom line is determined by HER INTEREST LEVEL.

This concept branches of into several areas but it does not work unless you are confident, challenging, patient and have high self esteem. Without these things, any tips we can give you will not work for you very easily.