For those who don't believe the ex will come back around... YEAH IT HAPPENS

[badger04]

Well it's been a busy 2-3 weeks to say the least. BUT, When I was going through my serious ONEITIS and break up with my LT girlfriend I came in here looking for help.
All the more experienced guys on the board told me what would happen and I didn't believe it at first. NOW I BELIEVE.
You know the story, LT girlfriend breaks up because I didn't put her on a pedestal as all other guys have. Next day shes with her NEW guy. The guy does everything I wouldn't do, kisses her ass, gives her 24/7 attention, and she proceeds to throw him in my face at every opportunity.
Funny thing was Friday night I went out after I left my new GF's house at about 12:30. " I got laid but seriously thought I needed to hit my favorite club to see what else was going on"
I parked by the door as usual, went inside, and only stayed about 15-20 minutes. I recieved a call from the EX on Saturday asking where I went last night. WTF? I told her and she told me that she was out by herself. "Why was she out by herself at 12:30 if shes so much in love with this guy? YEAH because shes going to do the same thing to him"......
Anyway, She told me that she saw my truck there but when she came back around I was gone. She proceeded to tell me how she was wearing this hot ass mini skirt, leather boots, tight shirt etc.... YEAH she always looked freaking hot. She said she wanted to come in and see me but I was gone. I asked her WHY would she want to do that.? Ill tell you why. Because ever since we broke up I started doing things that I wanted to do. I let my hair grow out ala Bon Jovi, put some highlights in, bought a whole new wardrobe of hot cloths, hit the tanning bed etc.. etc.. etc.. I feel like a million bucks when I go out and have alot of confidence.
Shes pulled this crap 2-3 times in the past 2 weeks and I have just laughed her off.
She even had the nerve to tell me how she was coming in to check me out and to make me jealous because she was looking hot? WTF....
So I simply told her that I was going out Saturday night that she should come out because I didn't care. She told me that if she came out she wouldn't be alone. I told her to bring goofus with her as I didn't give a rats arse and it didn't bother me at all.
Than she had the nerve to tell me that she would guarantee that she could make me jealous as hell and I would probably leave the club within 5 minutes if she shows up with him.
I was getting real sick of this crap and I just laughed at her and said " Do you remember how evertime we went out we looked hot as a couple and you could actually feel people glaring at us sometimes. you don't get those looks anymore because no one gives a rats ass about you and him. " this hit a nerve and she said YEAH now they all just look at me.............LOL
I told her that I had to go that I had things to do. "actually my ?GF came to my office Saturday and I ended up banging her on the desk...
I am glad you guys got me through that crap with her as I won't lie it still bothers me a little when she calls and does this crap as I am still a little confused about why in the hell she does this for.
I even asked her jokingly why she was tormenting me and she said that " I am going to torment you the rest of your life....................... WTF is up with that shat. I know I am probably the only guy who ever rejected her GODDESS like mentality and took her down off that pedestal but why does sh still do this stupid shat for. this girl is freaking 26 years OLD!!!!!!!!!

 

[OpenMind]

Its great that you are going out and bettering yourself. More power to ya!

I am glad you guys got me through that crap with her as I won't lie it still bothers me a little when she calls and does this crap as I am still a little confused about why in the hell she does this for.

You know why she does it? Because you allow her to do it. Dont answer your phone and talk to her and she will slowly back off. By allowing her to contact you, you are allowing her to get at you! You're on the right track moving on with your life.. but dont let this woman stop you in your tracks and slow down your progress by continuing contact with her. She will only bring you down. You wouldnt have posted this if she wasnt messing with your head, but to be honest, you are just asking for it. If you are honest with yourself, you are still communicating with her because deep down you see some "hope" at getting back with her. Is this really what you want? If it is, expect what you get, if not, then prepare yourself as you have been to date better women and who make you happy. I know its hard to do but you have to stick to your guns if you want to get over this woman.. good luck!

 

[Chaos-Knight]

hmmm ex trouble eh?

My ex was calling me alot then I got an answering
machine

I was getting messages from her like everyday
and a few days it was 2 plus messages...

I picked up the phone once before answering machine
and it was her = told her I was busy had to go...
(thats the last I spoke to her directly )

after that I sceened all calls through my machine,
after awhile she gave up.I still screen calls though anyway.

With ex's sometimes ya gotta cut contact and remain busy.
Answering machines or call display are
the best damn inventions ever made ~
(other then Bongs )

Good luck to ya,just cut the connection like I did
if you don't want to hear from her again...
Or do it the jerk way and tell her to F off and get a life...
(I almost did it = but she did stop calling eventially)

 

[badger04]

Yeah I see your guys point about this. I still have some feelings for her but in a sick and twisted way I wish I would run into her so that she can see what she lost and won't get back. I am taking my new GF to the club with me Saturday " It's the 12 bars of Christmas.....YEEEEEEEEEEE WHOOOOOOOOO.
She looks really hot so I am hoping to run into bit@h face. Funny thing is that I am selling my business and I just bought a new tanning business that I am going to be running. I have this funny feeling that I will NOT be caring at all about this retard in about 3-4 weeks so to speak...........
The funniest thing about this whole thing is that everytime I see them out driving around or see his car at her house I can't help but think about the time I went to her house to get some things she had. " This was 3 weeks after we broke up and she had been with him for this time. I threw a move on her, ended up banging the shat out of her, and to top it off let it go all over her face........... So she always wonders why I laugh at them when I see them. THATS WHY.... this moron was AFC'd into buying her anything she wants. doing anything she wants, and I was STILL able to hit it, slosh it on the face, and the only thing this guy knows is that hes in lovvvvvvvvvvve and shes the best thing in the world. RIGHHHHHHHHHHHHHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[CLOONEY]

She is tormenting you and making you look like a fool!!!! STOP IT!! Seriously dude, you just gotta delete her number, forget about her, this girl is a seroius joke!! Do this and you will torment her, because she is sooooooo insecure and by playing these games she somehow gets a rise out of you! and this makes her feel good! You can try to play the games back as I used to with HBs and trust me you WILL NOT WIN!! Becasue she is a girl and can do this for a VERY VERY LONG TIME! It is in her genetics. The best thing you can do to make her see her foolish self is call her on her ****, tell her she is insecure as fukc and that she needs to look in the mirror at herself. Then tell her you have a crazy azz life to live, you are going out to have fun and that you are not talking to her again so tell her to not bother calling. If she does, dont answer. Simple as that!

 

[OpenMind]

the best revenge is ignorance,

Ignorance of her (since revenge is obviously what you are seeking) good luck!

 

[joey37]

Some girls have a real hard time coming to terms with the fact that not every guy wants them. Sounds like this may be what's happening here.

 

[badger04]

OK, I think that deep down I still have some feelings for her and thats what makes it hard to be a prick. These feelings though are diminishing each day.
I was hoping to possibly keep the lines open and maybe turn her into a possible FB as it was pretty good shat. I see your guys point though as this girl has NEVER had a guy either 1. dump her, or 2. reject her in any way.
I think Ill take the advice on just telling her I am busy and hang up. At this point I seriously think I am not even wanting her for a possible FB I just want her to go away. I feel fine for days without talking but EVERY DAMN TIME she calls it stirs up alot of old feelings that I wish would stay buried.
Naturally I want her to go through what she put me through and I think you said it best. IGNORING her will only make her fell worse.
Oh well. I am taking over the tanning business I mentioned in about 10 days so I have a feeling girls will be flocking in there at all times and I will definitely have plenty of chances to practice some DJ tactics and who knows maybe even pick up a date or two. Hell the girl I am talking to now is hot and I have a feeling Ill be meeting plenty more in the future who are just as hot as the EX was. I guess I am just a little in experienced in deeling with these type women.
I have dated my share of 7's 8's and a couple 9's but this girl had the whole package but also had the problems I hear you guys talking about when you date this type of "pedestalled goddess"
I just keep asking myself is it really worth it to have these type girls. While on one hand it's great to have a girl that everyone is always checking out and telling you " damn shes hot" but on the other hand it's almost like a damn job to keep this type girl happy because every AFC shes been with has ruined it for the next guy..............