It isn't all about the sex, though the sex is awesome. It isn't really about the companionship (we all have our buddies), though spooning is nice, and it isn't about the arm candy, though we all want to flaunt it..... so what are we really doing chasing after tail in the first place?
Why we are on this site, why we have dedicated our mental capacities to figuring out women, and why we spend so much time breaking down our interactions comes down to our self-concept. I put forth we as guys want inner-confidence and high self-esteem just as much as we want 'great sex' and a deep connection with an awesome girl.
It starts on the inside fellas. We need to learn to love what we have and who we are. Everyone knows women respond to guys who are confident in their own skin and who respect themselves.
It's not easy. There is no such thing as a free meal, and there sure as hell is no such thing as an easy path to self-discovery. Get on the path, figure out what you need to do to improve your confidence. Get positive, stop beating yourself up, man-up and take responsibilty for your actions and move on. Do the best with what you have, and get real about changing yourself. Take a month, two months, three months, whatever and make a committment to yourself to stop the bull**** self-defeating talk that constantly pollutes your psyche. Force yourself to find things about you that are totally the ****. Think about them, don't brag outloud, but know what they are. When bad thoughts get in, squash them with your positive attributes.
Share it with us. I want to know what you are doing to be a more positive, enlightened dude. I want to know what you are doing, what you are saying to yourself, and what your negative thoughts are and continue to be. In place of self-abusive mindsets, what are you installing into your thought process?
This is real stuff and it has real effects on every area of your life. You can do it. That's not bs, you can really change yourself. Good luck.
Why we are on this site, why we have dedicated our mental capacities to figuring out women, and why we spend so much time breaking down our interactions comes down to our self-concept. I put forth we as guys want inner-confidence and high self-esteem just as much as we want 'great sex' and a deep connection with an awesome girl.
It starts on the inside fellas. We need to learn to love what we have and who we are. Everyone knows women respond to guys who are confident in their own skin and who respect themselves.
It's not easy. There is no such thing as a free meal, and there sure as hell is no such thing as an easy path to self-discovery. Get on the path, figure out what you need to do to improve your confidence. Get positive, stop beating yourself up, man-up and take responsibilty for your actions and move on. Do the best with what you have, and get real about changing yourself. Take a month, two months, three months, whatever and make a committment to yourself to stop the bull**** self-defeating talk that constantly pollutes your psyche. Force yourself to find things about you that are totally the ****. Think about them, don't brag outloud, but know what they are. When bad thoughts get in, squash them with your positive attributes.
Share it with us. I want to know what you are doing to be a more positive, enlightened dude. I want to know what you are doing, what you are saying to yourself, and what your negative thoughts are and continue to be. In place of self-abusive mindsets, what are you installing into your thought process?
This is real stuff and it has real effects on every area of your life. You can do it. That's not bs, you can really change yourself. Good luck.
