For my fellow plate spinners, how do you remember info about every single girl you talk to?

[er1x]

I've found it difficult to spin multiple plates at a time as I have worked on myself for a long time and gotten all this attention suddenly and recently. What has been happening is, If I'm talking to a girl that I'm having casual sex with, I'll sometimes get something wrong about her and she'll call me out on it and I'll instantly remember that what I said was applicable to the other girl I was sleeping with. This is even harder when texting and getting to know girls, how do you guys remember everything about every individual girl you talk to and not **** it up? It seems impossible when you talk to so many

Funny thing is, they'll occassionally be like "no that must be one of your different girls" in a joking manner, but they'll be exactly right, lol.

 

[Juanto]

Sometimes this happens to me as well, I think it just takes some time to get used to this lifestyle

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I've found it difficult to spin multiple plates at a time as I have worked on myself for a long time and gotten all this attention suddenly and recently. What has been happening is, If I'm talking to a girl that I'm having casual sex with, I'll sometimes get something wrong about her and she'll call me out on it and I'll instantly remember that what I said was applicable to the other girl I was sleeping with. This is even harder when texting and getting to know girls, how do you guys remember everything about every individual girl you talk to and not **** it up? It seems impossible when you talk to so many

Funny thing is, they'll occassionally be like "no that must be one of your different girls" in a joking manner, but they'll be exactly right, lol.

Keep notes containing their details/what they've told you on notebook paper, that's what I do. Review as needed.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Happens, but you can take notes in the notes app on your phone, like b-days, sibs names, and noteworthy chit.

 

[threeforfree]

Add to the Notes section of their contact in your phones Contacts app

 

[Murk]

I would forget things I’ve said to who all the time and get answers like “you didn’t talk to me about that must have been someone else” with an awkward laugh. I would just shrug it off because really who gives a fck if you don’t remember. If you’re speaking to multiple women you’re not supposed to remember everything like rainman.

 

[In2theGame]

IMO you shouldn't care much. Know why? because this whole time they could be or are talking/fvcking around with other guys.

Yet, you're here worrying about slipping up.

I have slipped up many times when I was talking to multiple Woman and they would give me the same line they gave you "Oh, sorry you have me confused with your other girls Haha".

Do not underestimate these Women in having other Men besides you. Women can be fantastic actresses to the point where you'd never know but with experience comes knowledge and being ahead of the curve.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Just agree & amplify, say you have a terrible memory, and shrug it off like Murk said.

Funny story from a few years ago (At least I found it funny): I was getting matches on OLD. I would get their number with some excuse ("Im not much on the app" or something) and text back and forth outside the app for a bit before asking them out. If her name was X I would save her on my phone like "X Tinder".

So I matched with a girl whose name I cant remeber now, lets call her Amy. I get her number and I save her on my phone as "Amy Tinder".

Sometime goes by. Im texting with a lot of girls. Some on the app and some outside the app. One day Im chilling a home and I get a text from "Amy Tinder". Scratch that, I get two different texts from two different "Amy Tinder"s. They had similar age and looks and all this time I thought they were the same person.

 

[Hal9000]

I've done that. Just shrug it off and move on. If it bothers you that it bothers her you're already too close.

 

[threeforfree]

Small talk doesn't need to be documented. Some stuff, like "peanut allergy" or "doesn't like to be choked" should probably be jotted down somewhere.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Don’t. It actually increases your value when you “honestly” mix up facts about your plates.

 

[corsica]

Add to the Notes section of their contact in your phones Contacts app

That's what I do. Notes and birthdays are useful. I even put a picture. Very useful if you haven't seen them in a while.