For men 35+ Your older self is more attractive to younger women (if you're still in shape)

[oc16]

I was thinking about this today.

I'm 44, and I'm still as physically fit (if not better) as I was when I was 34 or 24.

Sure, I don't look as young in the face as I did 10 to 20 years ago, but that's not what women are attracted to anyhow.

Think about it:

At 35 to 50 (assuming you are not fat) you are now more mature, more confident, more financially stable than the same version of yourself 10, 15, 20 years ago.

Heck, at 24 I think I was unemployed and at 34 my career was only about three years old.

At 44, I am alot more financially stable and own property.

Look at these two different pics of actor Ben Affleck. Which one looks more manly, dominant and confident? I think you already know the answer.

So, yes.....that cute 23 to 26 year old at your gym, mall or Starbucks was indeed checking you out, it's not your imagination.

We older guys tend to think, why would a younger woman be attracted to me? I look old! We incorrectly think since we (as men) are attracted to youth and beauty that women are the same. Wrong!

We say to ourselves "If I were only 25 or 30 again I would be able to get this babe 10+ years my junior."

Hog wash!

Your age is an asset as long as physical fitness levels are still good.

 

[Plinco]

I was thinking about this today.

I'm 44, and I'm still as physically fit (if not better) as I was when I was 34 or 24.

Sure, I don't look as young in the face as I did 10 to 20 years ago, but that's not what women are attracted to anyhow.

Think about it:

At 35 to 50 (assuming you are not fat) you are now more mature, more confident, more financially stable than the same version of yourself 10, 15, 20 years ago.

Heck, at 24 I think I was unemployed and at 34 my career was only about three years old.

At 44, I am alot more financially stable and own property.

Look at these two different pics of actor Ben Affleck. Which one looks more manly, dominant and confident? I think you already know the answer.

So, yes.....that cute 23 to 26 year old at your gym, mall or Starbucks was indeed checking you out, it's not your imagination.

We older guys tend to think, why would a younger woman be attracted to me? I look old! We incorrectly think since we (as men) are attracted to youth and beauty that women are the same. Wrong!

We say to ourselves "If I were only 25 or 30 again I would be able to get this babe 10+ years my junior."

Hog wash!

Your age is an asset as long as physical fitness levels are still good.

I agree with some of this. Definitely a good attitude to have. However the older you get, the less years you have ahead of you, and the less long term opportunity you have.

 

[SmoothSmooth]

Below 30, everyone has youth and optimism on their side. It’s hard to differentiate life’s winners and losers.

By age 30 there’s a divide between the have and have nots, which widens with each year. You can really see who has let themselves go and made bad decisions by that point.

So yes; your smv does increase IF you’re in the small % who live a life dedicated to self improvement.

A good example is Corey Wayne. He is 50 and could easily date hot 20 year olds - he has a few on his new episodes

 

[EyeBRollin]

A good example is Corey Wayne. He is 50 and could easily date hot 20 year olds - he has a few on his new episodes

No he cannot.

 

[SmoothSmooth]

No he cannot.

Dudes a millionaire off property and has thousands of IG followers, years of experience In the game….I’m pretty sure he could. Stop pedestalizing 20 year old women lol

 

[Who Dares Win]

It depends on two major factors which are the local culture and your looks ( hairline/density especially).

A further factor is how old is she cause a 20 yrs old girl will hardly go with a guy 10 yrs older than her while a girl in her late 20s would usually do if the guy is attractive enough or has a youtish life style.

Me personally I dont feel any attraction toward women my age (mid 30s), neither physical nor personal...its like talking to other dudes except that I cut it short due to the lack of common topics and possible complication.

Im pretty sure Im not alone in that since I see older guys chatting with the 20yrs old chubby waitresses but very few with the 30yrs old attractive one...it goes beyond sex.

 

[Tilex]

I have a theory that men look more masculine the older they get.
There's a certain rugged & refined look you could never achieve in your 20's.

I mean I go out grocery shopping on certain nights thinking I look like total sh!t, and yet somehow I'm still attracting women.

It's really a phenomenon.

 

[Velasco]

There's a certain rugged & refined look you could never achieve in your 20's.

I mean I go out grocery shopping on certain nights thinking I look like total sh!t, and yet somehow I'm still attracting women.

Not an age this. An appearance thing.

Disheveled hair, untidy/shirt that's at least a size too long for you. I got the "rugged" (said in an attracted voice) comment from a chick (age 32) at work when I did come looking into work looking this way when I normally wear a shirt tucked in that is slim fit that emphasizes my muscles (what GQ advices guys wear to make girls wet).

 

[Bigpapa]

Not an age this. An appearance thing.

Disheveled hair, untidy/shirt that's at least a size too long for you. I got the "rugged" (said in an attracted voice) comment from a chick (age 32) at work when I did come looking into work looking this way when I normally wear a shirt tucked in that is slim fit that emphasizes my muscles (what GQ advices guys wear to make girls wet).

I think that most people here are quite autistic , as they try to frame things into 100% black or 100% white . In reality everything is different shades of grey . Some darker , some whiter

 

[mrgoodstuff]

They don't always have to like you even if you're more fit and better looking. Because peer and social acceptance is really big for them.

 

[metalwater]

I think that most people here are quite autistic , as they try to frame things into 100% black or 100% white . In reality everything is different shades of grey . Some darker , some whiter

being decisive is masculine, indecisive in the middle is feminine.

 

[In2theGame]

There is a girl at my gym who is definitely into me. I started talking to her recently to chit chat. She's a VERY hot Latina with a smoking hot body and a beautiful face. She's about 19 or 20 since she's in college.... I'm 38.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

I was thinking about this today.

I'm 44, and I'm still as physically fit (if not better) as I was when I was 34 or 24.

Sure, I don't look as young in the face as I did 10 to 20 years ago, but that's not what women are attracted to anyhow.

Think about it:

At 35 to 50 (assuming you are not fat) you are now more mature, more confident, more financially stable than the same version of yourself 10, 15, 20 years ago.

Heck, at 24 I think I was unemployed and at 34 my career was only about three years old.

At 44, I am alot more financially stable and own property.

Look at these two different pics of actor Ben Affleck. Which one looks more manly, dominant and confident? I think you already know the answer.

So, yes.....that cute 23 to 26 year old at your gym, mall or Starbucks was indeed checking you out, it's not your imagination.

We older guys tend to think, why would a younger woman be attracted to me? I look old! We incorrectly think since we (as men) are attracted to youth and beauty that women are the same. Wrong!

We say to ourselves "If I were only 25 or 30 again I would be able to get this babe 10+ years my junior."

Hog wash!

Your age is an asset as long as physical fitness levels are still good.

We all know men age like wine (IF you take care of yourself physically and mentally). This is rarely the case for women, it happens, but its much more rare. This is also not a rule per see, if you let go of yourself you will decay the same way most women decay with age.

Evolution has benefited men as with age comes an phletora of attractive qualities in the mating world. Maturity, wisdom, strength (old men's strength), etc, etc.

I am 35 and I can already feel having much more love for myself and appreciating myself a lot more as I age. It also forces you to be more active to keep your fitness level which in return has several benefits in so many levels.


Modern Man Advice

 

[Bingo-Player]

29 currently semi involved with a 21 y/old and a 23 y/old

The 21yr old nearly wet her pants when i showed her a "daddy choke me" meme , she regularly sends me nudes without asking

The 23yr old told me she likes how i take charge of her and situations

Both girls know that boys their age cannot dominate them like i can and thats the biggest thing that gets the pu$$y tingling

As women get older they become harder and usually colder this shows through the face and body , men if they are careful with lifestyle generally become more experienced and attractive

Once i achieve financial success i have no doubt i will still be smashing 21 - 25 y/o at 39

 

[Barrister]

We all know men age like wine (IF you take care of yourself physically and mentally). This is rarely the case for women, it happens, but its much more rare. This is also not a rule per see, if you let go of yourself you will decay the same way most women decay with age.

Evolution has benefited men as with age comes an phletora of attractive qualities in the mating world. Maturity, wisdom, strength (old men's strength), etc, etc.

I am 35 and I can already feel having much more love for myself and appreciating myself a lot more as I age. It also forces you to be more active to keep your fitness level which in return has several benefits in so many levels.


Modern Man Advice

Men become most physically attractive to women in about the 35-45 (sometimes even past that) age bracket from what I can tell (again - IF you stay in good physical shape). You still have a fairly youthful appearance but no longer look like a boy in any way. This typically brings with it an appearance of sophistication and confidence - especially if you are a sharp dresser on top of that. I am also 35 and I can actually attract young-mid twenties women better now than I ever have at any point in my life.

Game + confidence to top the above all off will make you highly attractive to 20s women when you hit this age.

 

[In2theGame]

Don't tell the older Women (30+) that you're fvcking Women between 19 & 25. They will shame you in to oblivion lol!

They know deep down that they could never compete with fresh, young, wild, sexually experimental Females.

 

[Mr. Personality]

I was thinking about this today.

I'm 44, and I'm still as physically fit (if not better) as I was when I was 34 or 24.

Sure, I don't look as young in the face as I did 10 to 20 years ago, but that's not what women are attracted to anyhow.

Think about it:

At 35 to 50 (assuming you are not fat) you are now more mature, more confident, more financially stable than the same version of yourself 10, 15, 20 years ago.

Heck, at 24 I think I was unemployed and at 34 my career was only about three years old.

At 44, I am alot more financially stable and own property.

Look at these two different pics of actor Ben Affleck. Which one looks more manly, dominant and confident? I think you already know the answer.

So, yes.....that cute 23 to 26 year old at your gym, mall or Starbucks was indeed checking you out, it's not your imagination.

We older guys tend to think, why would a younger woman be attracted to me? I look old! We incorrectly think since we (as men) are attracted to youth and beauty that women are the same. Wrong!

We say to ourselves "If I were only 25 or 30 again I would be able to get this babe 10+ years my junior."

Hog wash!

Your age is an asset as long as physical fitness levels are still good.

you know it’s interesting. I know this sounds dumb but I’m 26 now and at times think I need to be here or there and it really is hard to have patience and know that if you just stay the course you can really have it all, (with hard work) I think if you could show guys how they’ll look in the future and just give them a glimpse of what could be, that would be of value. I’m only 26 but even at 26 there are things that I think are important or even women that I sometimes think are important or I need that one. But if you could see that girl at 35,40… maybe my or whoever’s rational brain kicked in it would put those thins in perspective more. Good post

 

[Machine10033]

if you could show guys how they’ll look in the future and just give them a glimpse of what could be, that would be of value

If you eat right, take care of your skin, workout religiously... you will literally feel no different at 41 than you did at 21!

I actually feel better at 41. When I was in my 20”s people said it’s fun now... wait until your 30’s... then in my 30”s people said things fall apart in your 40’s it’s all down hill. Well it’s not... it’s a lie the lazy tell those working to hard. They want you to get home from work and suck down some fast food and a 6 pack.

my advice to anyone in their 20’s and 30’s is that your 40’s and probably 50’s are going to be as good as you make them.

 

[oc16]

you know it’s interesting. I know this sounds dumb but I’m 26 now and at times think I need to be here or there and it really is hard to have patience and know that if you just stay the course you can really have it all, (with hard work) I think if you could show guys how they’ll look in the future and just give them a glimpse of what could be, that would be of value. I’m only 26 but even at 26 there are things that I think are important or even women that I sometimes think are important or I need that one. But if you could see that girl at 35,40… maybe my or whoever’s rational brain kicked in it would put those thins in perspective more. Good post

Your best years are still way ahead of you.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Don't tell the older Women (30+) that you're fvcking Women between 19 & 25. They will shame you in to oblivion lol!

lol I already did this, and the reaction is what you expected. The most sour looks on their faces.