fooling around

[Zurphy]

alright so ive been dating this girl for about 2 weeks now. whenever i go to her house, we always make out and fool around on the couch...

ive gone up the shirt and fingered her several times, but shes never reciprocated. do u guys have any tips to how i can get her to give for once instead of receive?

 

[Eternal]

Bring her close to orgasm a few times, then stop. Keep doing this and keep leaving her on the edge. If she still doesn't try and do the same to you, take her hand and put it on your pants over your dick. She should get the idea.

 

[ShizamDaMan]

Hell, I'd be like "Your turn!" and whip it out. If you're comfortable fingering her, then you shouldn't have any problem with this. Just give it to her straight, she'll understand you have needs too.

 

[Pheonix:ScndrlReborn]

Originally posted by ShizamDaMan
Hell, I'd be like "Your turn!" and whip it out. If you're comfortable fingering her, then you shouldn't have any problem with this. Just give it to her straight, she'll understand you have needs too.

Yeah!! That won't ruin the mood

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by ShizamDaMan
Hell, I'd be like "Your turn!" and whip it out. If you're comfortable fingering her, then you shouldn't have any problem with this. Just give it to her straight, she'll understand you have needs too.

Yeah, that's how you should go about it...

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by crazykid Bring her close to orgasm a few times, then stop. Keep doing this and keep leaving her on the edge. If she still doesn't try and do the same to you, take her hand and put it on your pants over your ****. She should get the idea.

she will get the idea but may not want to follow.

Originally posted by ShizamDaMan
Hell, I'd be like "Your turn!" and whip it out. If you're comfortable fingering her, then you shouldn't have any problem with this. Just give it to her straight, she'll understand you have needs too.

personally this is so abrasive for me

chances are that she is willing to do it anyways so just ask

"would you go down on me?"

thats just the way i like to do it

theres no pressure <even though she will prolly do it anyways>

and by not including "head", "suck my ****" in your sentance it sounds better

 

[Sax God]

I have to agree with Drixsa, just ask.

"Ask and it shall be given unto you; seek and ye shall find."

 

[Eternal]

Why should he have to ask? So she doesn't follow, atleast she knows what he wants then. What's next? Would he have to then ask later on "may I stick my penis in you?"

 

[Da Game]

I'm with the whipping it out idea, but maybe a little more subtly. i.e. take off your pants while you're making out with her. She should get the idea.

 

[ShizamDaMan]

If you've got a girl's pants off, are fingering her, and taking your pants off for some pleasure ruins "the mood," then you and your girl have some issues you need to straighten out.

What do you think she's going to say? "OH MI GOD IT'S YOUR PENIS! EWWW!!!" No, definitely not. It works both ways. Since she's obviously not smart enough to realize you want a BJ, you'll have to convey it to her.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by crazykid
Why should he have to ask? So she doesn't follow, atleast she knows what he wants then. What's next? Would he have to then ask later on "may I stick my penis in you?"

he should ask b/c if for some reason she will not give him head then he looks like a dip**** for whippin his dyck out

 

[crunchtime]

...Don't mean to hijack the thread from the original poster, but what if the girl admits that she won't/doesn't go down on guys? Any suggestions?

EDIT: This girl isn't a virgin either, and we are going to have sex soon, if that helps any.

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by drixsa
he should ask b/c if for some reason she will not give him head then he looks like a dip**** for whippin his dyck out

I never said he should whip his dick out. This is what I said earlier:

Originally posted by crazykid
Bring her close to orgasm a few times, then stop. Keep doing this and keep leaving her on the edge. If she still doesn't try and do the same to you, take her hand and put it on your pants over your dick. She should get the idea.

 

[xanderbaz:ice]

Asking her to suck your member is like asking her: "Would you go out with me?". You don't do stupid sh!t like that.
Go with the flow, let the tension between you grow (remember, sexual tension is good) and when she's close to an emotional peak just look at your watch and say "Uh, gotta go." Leave.
Do it as many times as it takes for her to really want you bad. God knows how many times this did the trick for me.

 

[Sax God]

Originally posted by xanderbaz:ice
Asking her to suck your member is like asking her: "Would you go out with me?". You don't do stupid sh!t like that.
Go with the flow, let the tension between you grow (remember, sexual tension is good) and when she's close to an emotional peak just look at your watch and say "Uh, gotta go." Leave.
Do it as many times as it takes for her to really want you bad. God knows how many times this did the trick for me.

Then you would suggest saying to her, "You are going to suck my ****."?

Nice. It might just work if you have a gun to her head also.

 

[Eternal]

Anything wrong with just taking her hand and putting it over your pants and rubbing it while making out?

 

[Sax God]

Originally posted by crazykid
Anything wrong with just taking her hand and putting it over your pants and rubbing it while making out?

Nothing at all. I've done that before, they get the hint. The girl I did it to was still hesitant, though.

 

[xanderbaz:ice]

Originally posted by Sax God
Then you would suggest saying to her, "You are going to suck my ****."?

Nice. It might just work if you have a gun to her head also.

I never said that you should do it that way, SaxGod. I was comparing the absurdity of asking for something like that. That's why I gave an example on how to deal with the situation further in the post.

 

[Sax God]

Originally posted by xanderbaz:ice
I never said that you should do it that way, SaxGod. I was comparing the absurdity of asking for something like that. That's why I gave an example on how to deal with the situation further in the post.

Okay, my mistake. I'm going to apologize for my response. I was in a really bad mood when I wrote it.

 

[xanderbaz:ice]

Originally posted by Sax God
Okay, my mistake. I'm going to apologize for my response. I was in a really bad mood when I wrote it.

It's OK, it happens to all of us. Appology accepted.