I know most of us, if not all of us, meet that special lady from time to time who is "different from the rest", who we love spending time with and perceive as relationship material.
There's nothing wrong with that and if you meet a girl like that, then of course you'll want to snap her up! You're not doing yourself any favours by running away and banging some low quality slvt just to keep your feelings in check.
However, the big mistake guys make is pursuing this chick differently to all others. They'll start gaming her for a relationship, rather than for sex. They'll try to pull some Hollywood sh!t, act romantic or try to portray themselves as one of the good guys who would make a great boyfriend. And this is destined to fail.
9 times out of 10, women are the ones who decide the status of a relationship.
As men, we need to focus on triggering her physical instincts and getting laid. Instead of telling her how you love her company and how beautiful her eyes are, you should be making sexual jokes, suggestive comments, touching her and describing the things you want to do to her. Get her excited and get her into bed and you're doing your part.
Many guys are afraid if they act this way they'll scare this chick away, cos "she's different". They hold back on the physical stuff because they want more than just sex, but before they know it they're heading the same route as all the other asexual AFCs she puts in her friendzone.
So, what next? Just keep banging her when you get chance, have fun around her, joke, flirt and tease, but never speak of relationships. Let her chase you and when and if the time is right, she will make that decision.
It's a valuable lesson I learned this year. I developed oneitis for a number of girls and found that I was gaming them differently to the ones I just wanted to fvck. Every time, the girls I was pursuing as GF material ended up backing off, standing me up and brushing me off with some "I just need space" type speech. The girls I just wanted to fvck, on the other hand, would not leave me alone (in fact I'm still getting texts from them months later). They want more from me now and some have acted quite obsessively.
Since then I started to treat my oneitis girls the same way I treat the girls I want to bang and it's brought success. I even told my last oneitis about some of the girls I was dating and how wild one of them was in bed. It went against every instinct I had because I was scared she'd see me as a player and disqualify me as relationship material. She got jealous, even seemed p!ssed off, but that same night everything changed and she basically offered herself to me. Secretly I wanted her as my GF, I had butterflies in my stomach whenever I saw her, but I just acted like I wanted to have some fun. I did bang her and we had plenty of fun, but that was all I asked from her. As time went by we got closer and she initiated the relationship we have now.
Women (and men) are scared of committing to relationships too soon. Relationships carry risks of people getting hurt and once you get involved, you lose your options. It's a big decision and, as with all big decisions, women need to "try before they buy" and they don't appreciate some sales person laying on the hard sell.
It's also worth paying attention to women who get played by jerks. He gets with her and gets laid, then once he's got what he wants, he backs off. Meanwhile, she's gutted and feels used because she wants more from him. She moans on Facebook about hating all men, she whines to her friends and cries to herself, but can't stop thinking about him and chasing him.
Now, had he took her on dates, brought her flowers and treated her like a girlfriend, she'd have kicked him to the curb long before he even got to see her naked.
There's nothing wrong with that and if you meet a girl like that, then of course you'll want to snap her up! You're not doing yourself any favours by running away and banging some low quality slvt just to keep your feelings in check.
However, the big mistake guys make is pursuing this chick differently to all others. They'll start gaming her for a relationship, rather than for sex. They'll try to pull some Hollywood sh!t, act romantic or try to portray themselves as one of the good guys who would make a great boyfriend. And this is destined to fail.
9 times out of 10, women are the ones who decide the status of a relationship.
As men, we need to focus on triggering her physical instincts and getting laid. Instead of telling her how you love her company and how beautiful her eyes are, you should be making sexual jokes, suggestive comments, touching her and describing the things you want to do to her. Get her excited and get her into bed and you're doing your part.
Many guys are afraid if they act this way they'll scare this chick away, cos "she's different". They hold back on the physical stuff because they want more than just sex, but before they know it they're heading the same route as all the other asexual AFCs she puts in her friendzone.
So, what next? Just keep banging her when you get chance, have fun around her, joke, flirt and tease, but never speak of relationships. Let her chase you and when and if the time is right, she will make that decision.
It's a valuable lesson I learned this year. I developed oneitis for a number of girls and found that I was gaming them differently to the ones I just wanted to fvck. Every time, the girls I was pursuing as GF material ended up backing off, standing me up and brushing me off with some "I just need space" type speech. The girls I just wanted to fvck, on the other hand, would not leave me alone (in fact I'm still getting texts from them months later). They want more from me now and some have acted quite obsessively.
Since then I started to treat my oneitis girls the same way I treat the girls I want to bang and it's brought success. I even told my last oneitis about some of the girls I was dating and how wild one of them was in bed. It went against every instinct I had because I was scared she'd see me as a player and disqualify me as relationship material. She got jealous, even seemed p!ssed off, but that same night everything changed and she basically offered herself to me. Secretly I wanted her as my GF, I had butterflies in my stomach whenever I saw her, but I just acted like I wanted to have some fun. I did bang her and we had plenty of fun, but that was all I asked from her. As time went by we got closer and she initiated the relationship we have now.
Women (and men) are scared of committing to relationships too soon. Relationships carry risks of people getting hurt and once you get involved, you lose your options. It's a big decision and, as with all big decisions, women need to "try before they buy" and they don't appreciate some sales person laying on the hard sell.
It's also worth paying attention to women who get played by jerks. He gets with her and gets laid, then once he's got what he wants, he backs off. Meanwhile, she's gutted and feels used because she wants more from him. She moans on Facebook about hating all men, she whines to her friends and cries to herself, but can't stop thinking about him and chasing him.
Now, had he took her on dates, brought her flowers and treated her like a girlfriend, she'd have kicked him to the curb long before he even got to see her naked.
) ...BUT! if in some months or even years! I find out she doesnt even like me that much...OBOY!!!!!!!!!!!!