This is something I thought I'd never see. I was at a political party meeting and there were a lot of lesbians there, ie, more than you'd see on the street each day. The older ones had the 'butch' look, but the younger ones could probably pass for straight.
Anyway, I wasn't there for meeting women, I was actually trying to see what was going on politically. Some of the lesbians came up to me since I wasn't a regular and one was basically asking me the get-acquainted questions. I saw a ring on her finger, but her behavior didn't match so I teased her about it, because she talked about having a crush on the politician at the meeting. I teased her on this, basically going into a C&F pattern and mentioned her ring, to get the story on it. She told me she was lesbian (as I thought), and I said, "oh, you're just wearing a ring to keep guys from hitting on you, "
She was flattered, but said she was too old and that men didn't hit on her anymore (she was 41, but looked 33). Somehow we got some incredible rapport going, even though there wasn't going to be any laying. Then she started aggressively trying to hook me up with her straight friend who was also there.
Said friend looked okay, HB7 with an 8.5 body. I passed on the opportunity because I'm not really in a position to do a lot of dating for various reasons.
The funny thing here was that 1.) I found myself flirting with a creature I would have considered unflirtable, and 2) I could have had the social proof for the straight girl in the form of her lezzie friend if I'd pursued her. It makes me wonder what's going on in a woman's mind when you're in a pass, given that the lesbian woman exhibited many of the signs a normal one would have. It could have been that she was bi, but since her "committed partner" was right there, she wasn't going to just run off with some man.
What have DJs found about (real not porn) lesbans? I'm thinking that they might not be useless, but I don't have consistent strategy for dealing with them yet.
Anyway, I wasn't there for meeting women, I was actually trying to see what was going on politically. Some of the lesbians came up to me since I wasn't a regular and one was basically asking me the get-acquainted questions. I saw a ring on her finger, but her behavior didn't match so I teased her about it, because she talked about having a crush on the politician at the meeting. I teased her on this, basically going into a C&F pattern and mentioned her ring, to get the story on it. She told me she was lesbian (as I thought), and I said, "oh, you're just wearing a ring to keep guys from hitting on you, "
She was flattered, but said she was too old and that men didn't hit on her anymore (she was 41, but looked 33). Somehow we got some incredible rapport going, even though there wasn't going to be any laying. Then she started aggressively trying to hook me up with her straight friend who was also there.
Said friend looked okay, HB7 with an 8.5 body. I passed on the opportunity because I'm not really in a position to do a lot of dating for various reasons.
The funny thing here was that 1.) I found myself flirting with a creature I would have considered unflirtable, and 2) I could have had the social proof for the straight girl in the form of her lezzie friend if I'd pursued her. It makes me wonder what's going on in a woman's mind when you're in a pass, given that the lesbian woman exhibited many of the signs a normal one would have. It could have been that she was bi, but since her "committed partner" was right there, she wasn't going to just run off with some man.
What have DJs found about (real not porn) lesbans? I'm thinking that they might not be useless, but I don't have consistent strategy for dealing with them yet.