I've been hanging around a bunch of girls lately that are total flirts. What I mean by this, they're very touchy-feely with everyone, and often take the conversation dirty. There's one girl in particular, who is probably the hottest of the group (although they're all gorgeous), who leads the crew. She's the one that turns all the other girls into flirts when they're out with her. Lately we've become very close friends, yes I'm like her gay friend, and even though we're just buddies and the boundries have been set, I still feel like she crosses them with me. Her boyfriend is away a lot (he's in a touring band) and she calls me once or twice during the week to go out to dinner and drinks, along with every weekend. It's like a date except we split the bill and I'm not getting any. The last three weekends have ended up with us both getting trashed and her sleeping in my bed (although that was partly my doing since I live in a studio and don't have a couch for her to crash on). Even though we aren't going to have sex, it is pretty damn painful to have a hottie in your bed with you and not do anything about it.
At this point I like going out with her for credibility. I get looks from everyone in the bar when I walk in with her, it's great. I point out girls I think are cute and she initiates conversation. She's the ultimate wingman.
Anyway, while I'm totally friend-zoned, she still flirts all day with me. I don't complain and of course reciprocate, however I know her intentions. That brings me to the point...I met a new girl last week and we were flirting pretty good, all was good, and I know she's single, but how do I know she's actually flirting and interested as opposed to just messing around?
I had a conversation about this with a female coworker and she agreed that she flirts with guys even if she has no interest; it's just how she acts. So...how do you tell? Kino is already escalated to the point where we're feeling each other up and doing everything except making out, but apparently that's not an indicator of interest?
At this point I like going out with her for credibility. I get looks from everyone in the bar when I walk in with her, it's great. I point out girls I think are cute and she initiates conversation. She's the ultimate wingman.
Anyway, while I'm totally friend-zoned, she still flirts all day with me. I don't complain and of course reciprocate, however I know her intentions. That brings me to the point...I met a new girl last week and we were flirting pretty good, all was good, and I know she's single, but how do I know she's actually flirting and interested as opposed to just messing around?
I had a conversation about this with a female coworker and she agreed that she flirts with guys even if she has no interest; it's just how she acts. So...how do you tell? Kino is already escalated to the point where we're feeling each other up and doing everything except making out, but apparently that's not an indicator of interest?
