Flaked On The Last Time I'll Proably Ever See Her

[TheEdgeOf]

I'm pretty pissed. So there's a friend of mine (Just a friend, not a girl I'm trying to game) who's moving to a different country in a few days. Anyways, we ended up making plans to see each other one last time before she left the country. And then I talked to her In the morning to sort out the details of our plans and she tells me that she made other plans with some of her other friends instead, and she's seeing both of those other friends again before she leaves.

Wtf, why would she even make plans if she was just going to break them a couple hours later. Seriously, I feel bad that I even wasted time on a friendship with her if she's "too good" to even hang out one last time as a last goodbye.

I think I'm finished with her, even talking to her, guys, but I really feel bad about the whole thing.

 

[n00bPimp]

Well shes just being a complete b.tch on purpose. But yeah it sucks that she doesnt give a rats ass about the fact that she wont see you again. Maybe your relationship with her isn't as important to her as it is to you?

 

[Effington]

Sorry to hear that, man. At least you won't have to worry about her cancelling on you again.

 

[TheEdgeOf]

Man, I really feel like telling her off for that right now, but I'm better than that... I hope...

 

[sosuave_vigilante]

tell her off, u are the man and u run your life, u do EXACTLY what u want

learn from it, and show love to a girl who wont act like this bytch did

 

[TheEdgeOf]

what the hell? that's not your typical Sosuave attitude. I like it.

 

[sosuave_vigilante]

what the hell? that's not your typical Sosuave attitude. I like it.

you only learn from your own experiences........advice means nothing dude

you do as YOU please, and if the ***** happens to not like it, then u absorb the information, and move on, and who knows, maybe the next girl u are trying to game wont have the same result..........u cant fake your own attitude, or else u will die a slow personality death

EDIT: you will appreciate a girl who will be nice to u more, when u learn how to tell a cvnt off like u want to

 

[TheEdgeOf]

Why haven't any other Sosuavers spoke against telling her off yet 'cause really, I'm considering doing it right now.

 

[j0n024]

Because like everyone in this post has been saying "You do what YOU want," noone here will face the repercussions of your actions except YOU. IF you want to **** talk her then go for it , it's not like your gonna see her again anyways and if she thinks your a child afterwards then hey fvck her right.

I wouldnt tell her off but delete her from everything you have her on...phone,myspace,yahoo everything. I mean she probably will come back to the states just to visit and by that time you should have matured and become a better person and then she will be envious, or she will come back and see you as a child because you told her off.....but like I said earlier your actions your problems.

 

[peterw20]

If I were you, I'd probably say something along the lines of "Have a nice life" and leave it at that and don't speak to her anytime soon.

 

[Canadian Catnip]

It's always best to accept people just as they are and not try and change them. The mature thing to do is just let it go.

There is an old saying.

If you love someone, let them go. If they come back they are yours, if they don't they never were.

If someone doesn't consider you close enough to meet to say goodbye then getting angry at them is not going to bring you both any closer.

I just had someone do this to me a few weeks ago. A girl I've known for over two years and have gone out with several time was leaving and I asked her to join me for a coffee before she went. She immediately said she was certain that she would not have the time for us to get together. I said, OK, and let it drop.

It's also a good practice to become a more mature man if you can accept things you don't like in life with grace and poise.

 

[TheEdgeOf]

It's always best to accept people just as they are and not try and change them. The mature thing to do is just let it go.

There is an old saying.

If you love someone, let them go. If they come back they are yours, if they don't they never were.

If someone doesn't consider you close enough to meet to say goodbye then getting angry at them is not going to bring you both any closer.

I just had someone do this to me a few weeks ago. A girl I've known for over two years and have gone out with several time was leaving and I asked her to join me for a coffee before she went. She immediately said she was certain that she would not have the time for us to get together. I said, OK, and let it drop.

It's also a good practice to become a more mature man if you can accept things you don't like in life with grace and poise.

Thanks, Good Post.

 

[WesCottII]

Welcome to women logic. In her mind what she did was justified, and nothing you say will convince her or the posse of girlfriends and AFC's that she'll have backing her up otherwise. It's not worth the drama.

Just let it go, it's just your ego wanting to hit back. She's not worth the hassel.