mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You don't have to be "better" to have a "hotter" chick, she just has to like you. And "hotter" doesn't means she's "better".
Fixing a girl’s pair bonding
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anonymous12345
Senior Don Juan
OP here.
That high body count = pair bonding issues seems to be all over the manosphere. Personally I cannot confirm it, I’ve been with fine women that have had active sex lives. It might be this is just men being insecure or distasteful of experienced women (I would count me as one of them). But I do agree the skanky, hardened pro bar hopper is unattractive and I can surely appreciate the reindeer.
Notice I didn’t say high body count, I said pair bonding. So, these problem one can have for other reasons than high body count, I think.
I agree “fixing” people, particularly if she’s damaged by high body count, is pretty hopeless, but it isn’t that far. It’s just a young (I think 21) musician with a lot of emotions and attitude. A woman. She’s also a young HB, so she needs to learn to fend things off left and right, while trying to live her own life.
The real problem here is that I am not yet man enough for handling her, I fold/freeze at her sh1t tests. I think the solution for her is to have a solid, stable, inert man that extinguishes her turbulence. The one who is that gets her, kind of. Seen it happen before. Maybe I am it next time we meet.
I think I have a tad of the same problems myself, and that can be an explanation to the dysfunctionality here and our/mine attraction. Too much game, too many failed oneitis, too much tango.
That high body count = pair bonding issues seems to be all over the manosphere. Personally I cannot confirm it, I’ve been with fine women that have had active sex lives. It might be this is just men being insecure or distasteful of experienced women (I would count me as one of them). But I do agree the skanky, hardened pro bar hopper is unattractive and I can surely appreciate the reindeer.
Notice I didn’t say high body count, I said pair bonding. So, these problem one can have for other reasons than high body count, I think.
I agree “fixing” people, particularly if she’s damaged by high body count, is pretty hopeless, but it isn’t that far. It’s just a young (I think 21) musician with a lot of emotions and attitude. A woman. She’s also a young HB, so she needs to learn to fend things off left and right, while trying to live her own life.
The real problem here is that I am not yet man enough for handling her, I fold/freeze at her sh1t tests. I think the solution for her is to have a solid, stable, inert man that extinguishes her turbulence. The one who is that gets her, kind of. Seen it happen before. Maybe I am it next time we meet.
I think I have a tad of the same problems myself, and that can be an explanation to the dysfunctionality here and our/mine attraction. Too much game, too many failed oneitis, too much tango.