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Don Juan
This thread contains a lot of different info about my day yesterday, bear with me - it was the most eventful day with girls I've had!
With regards to my previous thread
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?threadid=48795
I took the advice of the people who replied to my post, and asked this girl from uni out for a drink. As it was the first time I have ever asked a girl out, I was quite nervous, and this probably came across. The exchange went like this:
ME: so, I think me and you should go out for a drink next week sometime
HER: why?
ME: I think you deserve a chance to get to know me
HER: oh, I've got a boyfriend. I should have been more honest and told you
At this point, I had nothing to say. I'd made myself believe that she was just gonna say yes so much that I didn't know what to do when she said no! I think she was being honest about having a boyfriend.
She then started saying how she would really like to meet me for a drink if she was single, that she had been trying to flirt with me, and was sorry for not being honest about having a BF. I just said "don't worry about it". She then said "don't stop talking to me now" and I just replied "of course I won't, see you later."
I was pleased with myself for actually taking action for the first time ever, but also felt a bit depressed about the results, even though she does seem to actually like me.
Anyway, me and my mates had organised to go out that nite (well, all day actually) round some bars and to a club. Again, I have always been useless, but have recently been trying to make eye contact and smiling at girls in the club etc. Me and my mate were on the dancefloor when 2 girls came up and started dancing next to us. They weren't really attractive or anything, but I had been drinking for about 9-10 hours!! So I started to dance up behind one of them - success!! After a while she turned around and we just started kissing. I left to go to the toilet and returned, only to find my mate had disappeared. I was on the dancefloor with another mate, when I spied another girl just on her own, seemed quite attractive. So with my new found confidence, I just started dancing up behind her!! This continued for a while, feeling ass, thighs etc. Then I just left her to talk to my mate. All the while I could see her looking at me, so I just made occasional eye contact and smiled. Later, she grabbed me to dance again, ended up kissing her, and at the end of the nite, got her number. She sent me a txt message while me and my mates were getting some food saying "nice to meet u tonite, hope I can see u again"
I couldn't believe it - I've never kissed any girls while out in a club before, then I do it twice in one nite!!! I completely forgot about the girl at uni, and now it doesn't bother me!! Normally all the girls just stare at my 2 mates when we in the club, because they are both really good looking, and I'm always ignored, but I decided it was time to take some action!!! It really goes to show that all guys out there who lack confidence like me, just need to take some action. I know it's difficult, and it's taken me a long time - but it's worth it. If you're rejected by one girl, the best thing is to find a girl who doesn't reject you, because then u don't care!! Plus, it definitely is true that success with another girl really helps you get over other girls. I had been really depressed about the end of my 6-month relationship with the older woman, but this has really helped me get over it!!
I have a question about the girl whose number I got tho. I didn't really speak to her much, and she must be attracted to me. I used a little C+F when getting her number - she had to get her phone out to display her number, so I just teased her about not knowing her own number.
I probably wanna meet her to actually have conversation with her, but I think she's a student so will be going home for easter at the end of the week. Now, I'm thinking of txting this girl with a little message to try and keep her IL up over the easter holidays - anyone have any suggestions?
With regards to my previous thread
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?threadid=48795
I took the advice of the people who replied to my post, and asked this girl from uni out for a drink. As it was the first time I have ever asked a girl out, I was quite nervous, and this probably came across. The exchange went like this:
ME: so, I think me and you should go out for a drink next week sometime
HER: why?
ME: I think you deserve a chance to get to know me
HER: oh, I've got a boyfriend. I should have been more honest and told you
At this point, I had nothing to say. I'd made myself believe that she was just gonna say yes so much that I didn't know what to do when she said no! I think she was being honest about having a boyfriend.
She then started saying how she would really like to meet me for a drink if she was single, that she had been trying to flirt with me, and was sorry for not being honest about having a BF. I just said "don't worry about it". She then said "don't stop talking to me now" and I just replied "of course I won't, see you later."
I was pleased with myself for actually taking action for the first time ever, but also felt a bit depressed about the results, even though she does seem to actually like me.
Anyway, me and my mates had organised to go out that nite (well, all day actually) round some bars and to a club. Again, I have always been useless, but have recently been trying to make eye contact and smiling at girls in the club etc. Me and my mate were on the dancefloor when 2 girls came up and started dancing next to us. They weren't really attractive or anything, but I had been drinking for about 9-10 hours!! So I started to dance up behind one of them - success!! After a while she turned around and we just started kissing. I left to go to the toilet and returned, only to find my mate had disappeared. I was on the dancefloor with another mate, when I spied another girl just on her own, seemed quite attractive. So with my new found confidence, I just started dancing up behind her!! This continued for a while, feeling ass, thighs etc. Then I just left her to talk to my mate. All the while I could see her looking at me, so I just made occasional eye contact and smiled. Later, she grabbed me to dance again, ended up kissing her, and at the end of the nite, got her number. She sent me a txt message while me and my mates were getting some food saying "nice to meet u tonite, hope I can see u again"
I couldn't believe it - I've never kissed any girls while out in a club before, then I do it twice in one nite!!! I completely forgot about the girl at uni, and now it doesn't bother me!! Normally all the girls just stare at my 2 mates when we in the club, because they are both really good looking, and I'm always ignored, but I decided it was time to take some action!!! It really goes to show that all guys out there who lack confidence like me, just need to take some action. I know it's difficult, and it's taken me a long time - but it's worth it. If you're rejected by one girl, the best thing is to find a girl who doesn't reject you, because then u don't care!! Plus, it definitely is true that success with another girl really helps you get over other girls. I had been really depressed about the end of my 6-month relationship with the older woman, but this has really helped me get over it!!
I have a question about the girl whose number I got tho. I didn't really speak to her much, and she must be attracted to me. I used a little C+F when getting her number - she had to get her phone out to display her number, so I just teased her about not knowing her own number.
I probably wanna meet her to actually have conversation with her, but I think she's a student so will be going home for easter at the end of the week. Now, I'm thinking of txting this girl with a little message to try and keep her IL up over the easter holidays - anyone have any suggestions?