First Date with a Feminist

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BeDJ

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We met at a bar and took her to 2 venues. Good indicators of interest all around and she offered to go to a theatre and paid (I know, I thought a makeout was guaranteed, but much more was revealed.) We snuck a bottle of wine in and she asked if it was fine with me if she got a little buzzed. 30 minutes in, she dropped the F-Bomb. No response from me. Time to deploy some beta game. I reached over and held her hand to which she squeezed. She began initiating a lot more touching afterwards. My thinking is that I validated her and she began to think it was in her control to kino. I tested this out, I glazed over her hand, no response. Right after I pulled away, she pulled my hand back and massaged it. Interesting.

The movie ends and we were walking to my car. She asks me what I thought? I replied, the movie or you? Both. I turned her cheek and she moved away. I don't kiss on the first date.

Ha. Ha. Ha. Pump and dump victim. I played coy and asked her why not. She said she only does that if she was committed to someone. I responded, 'That's to bad, I thought we clicked.' ....and walked at a faster pace.

Feminist decoy neutralized. Hamster initiated.

In the car, she kept repeating how much she liked me. I kept quiet and gave her occasional smirks. She turned her body towards me and just stared at me. Stoic BDJ.

When we got to her car, she said 'I want to see you again, but if you don't want to, I understand....I'll be upset but will get over it.' Okay was my response. Hamster spinning 100 miles and hour, she asked, can you give me a hug outside of the car? Let's give it a treat. I gave her a hug and backed off, she pulled me back and gave me pecks on the cheek. Hugged me again with he cheeks pressed against mine, a hailmary to get some type of validation from me (kissing her back on the cheek.) Nope. Not tonight cupcake.

10 minutes later she texts me that she 'had soooooo much fun, thank you, hope you have fun with your fambam (family....who the fvck says that?)

In the beginning she was very submissive, agreeing to everything and supplicating to my whim. Alcohol kicks in and she claims she is a feminist. Might be a rookie or benchwarmer. Can her agenda compete with BDJ's indifference? Stay tuned.
 

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love it, please update when possible.
 

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Pure fvcking gold, BDJ.
 

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BeginningDJ said:
. I don't kiss on the first date.

Ha. Ha. Ha. Pump and dump victim. I played coy and asked her why not. She said she only does that if she was committed to someone.
Awesome! You had her so flustered, she had no idea what she was saying. She only kisses on the first date if she's committed to someone? Who commits themselves on the first date?

I reckon you can have some fun with this one. She's not as clever as she thinks she is.
 

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haha one of these type of girls..keep us updated. she thinks she gaming you, and trying to be little you with her comments. (or shes bat**** crazy).
 

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How do you feel you have the upper hand here?

You tried to kiss...she backed away

Your princess is in another castle

You initiated conversation about it instead of leaving

Looks like she played you for emotional validation

there is no such thing as *beta* game or *indifference* game

You either are escalating or you're her fag buddy
 

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Give her one more date. Go for the kiss within the first half hour. If she'd declines cut the date short.
 

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All posts are interesting, would like to see how this fem goes, there is nothing more awesome about hearing fems getting pumped and dumped, or if not this, their hamsters justifying their clvt behaviour.

All posts except for those in bold, obviously.
 

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god damn thats a lot of mental gymnastics
 

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Burroughs said:
How do you feel you have the upper hand here?

You tried to kiss...she backed away

Your princess is in another castle

You initiated conversation about it instead of leaving

Looks like she played you for emotional validation

there is no such thing as *beta* game or *indifference* game

You either are escalating or you're her fag buddy
One of your very few posts that doesn't sound like a broken record player. I agree. I might see her again if she texts me her address while drunk and horny.

I had so many opportunities to kiss her during the date. Hell, we were in my car twice. Had I gone for it, I would have not wasted my time.

I received a few texts from her, but didn't bother responding. My d!ck and self-respect deserve better.
 

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Your non-response will solidify her assumptions that she was correct to avoid your advances because all men are only after one thing. But you can't have hers because its golden.

Hamster rationalizes her to be right. +++ goes the price on her pvzzy.
:crackup:
 

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Tiguere said:
Give her one more date. Go for the kiss within the first half hour. If she'd declines cut the date short.
this. she declines say "i thought we had a connection" still no kiss bounce
 

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Purefilth said:
Your non-response will solidify her assumptions that she was correct to avoid your advances because all men are only after one thing. But you can't have hers because its golden.

Hamster rationalizes her to be right. +++ goes the price on her pvzzy.
:crackup:

I'd say if a chick thinks all men are only after one thing (especially if she says it) you throw her own statement back at her: "Why would you say that? Are you the type of chick who's only good for that one thing?" Then have her qualify herself to you before escalating again.

Or if you decide to use it as a blow off. Simply tell her in response to that: "Since you think that. It's got to be because you're the type of chick who's only good for that one thing." And then bounce on her azz.
 

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Mr. Smooth. I would have went for the kiss three or four times during your story. Dam. You played it cool, nice work, hamster is spinning I'm sure.

Sometimes though, they want you to be aggressive, and show her what a bad little girl she really is.

Who knows with these feminists, if you read her right, she could have just been trying to get you to go for gold, just so she could turn you down.

I'm sure she'll want to see you again. The way you played it, she'll be thinking about you for quite a while.

As someone else posted, keep us informed :)
 

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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Purefilth said:
Your non-response will solidify her assumptions that she was correct to avoid your advances because all men are only after one thing. But you can't have hers because its golden.

Hamster rationalizes her to be right. +++ goes the price on her pvzzy.
:crackup:
This.

BeginningDJ said:
I received a few texts from her, but didn't bother responding. My d!ck and self-respect deserve better.
Chill out dude. She turned her cheek. That's all. She's probably not some evil cvnt, she just turned her cheek the first time you tried to kiss her. For all you know, she was just nervous. You claim to be so indifferent but it sounds like you took this sh!t personally...

Self-respect? Come on...
 
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BeDJ

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ARrocket,

I don't understand how you agree with Purefilth's post and criticizing my actions afterwards.

This is a game that I can not win, as Purefilth pointed out. I dropped her.

A week goes by and she texts me

You don't want to see me again???

Hamster. Nuked.

I'm sure many men fall into her trap of giving in and thinking that relationship will lead to sex. I'm sure she may dump him before she put out. Her emotional needs are met, she feels validated and the 'BF' becomes disposable. This may or not be the case, but I'm not going to find out.

Maybe she will think twice before she attempts to control the relationship early next time.
 

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TXT her back:

You are a strong and independent woman, I get the feeling you don't really need a man and I think I would just hold you back from becoming what you truly are. I really like you and I hope we can still remain friends.

Best Regards

BJ
 

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BeginningDJ said:
This is a game that I can not win, as Purefilth pointed out. I dropped her.

A week goes by and she texts me

You don't want to see me again???

Hamster. Nuked.

[...]

Maybe she will think twice before she attempts to control the relationship early next time.
Thank you, you came from a position of abundance and you Passed the P*ssy Forward. Unlike most men who give chicks a ton of attention and make other men's lives more difficult, you have made the life of the next guy slightly easier. Imagine how you would have fared if the guys before you hadn't put her p*ssy on a pedestal.

You have increased your Man Karma and you will be rewarded in the future.
 
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