Well I met up with a chic I knew in highschool that had just come home from college. I hadnt seen her in 3 years nearly so after phone tag for a week or so we went to the mall together just to meet up and shoot the ****. At first there was a lot of akward silence because we were just walkin around the mall lookin at clothes and ****. So I suggested we hit a restaurant inside the mall that had a bar. Once we had a few drinks we both openned up a lot more and I got a lot of laughs out of her. I sorta forgot to Kino her but I was not really in a mind-set that it was a date, just 2 friends hangin out.
We made plans for our next "outing" (date? just hanging out? I dunno yet) while at the bar. We're gonna hit a bar/store/movie, actual day is not set yet. So she mentions that she is going out of town for this weekend for a friend's graduation party at the bar. But when I drop her off I mentioned I had sunday off and that we could do something then (forgetting she was going away). She says she was going to go away for the weekend but to call her anyways because she might just blow it off and go out with me instead. Afterwards she gives me a hug and the "it was great seeing you again!" line. Was not expecting the hug, kinda caught me off guard.
Next morning I have an email from her saying she had a good time, gave me her screen name, etc etc.
Now I am totally oblivious to women and the signs they give off. I have no clue when/if a woman is attracted to me. At the bar she had her chair turned towards mine and her shoulders were openned up towards me the whole time. Sounded interested in hookin up again, gave me a hug, yatta yatta. Is she just friendly or does she sound interested? How should I go about our next meeting? I would definately persue a relationship with her if she were interested but I dont know if she is or not.
She went to school out of state and doesnt really have anyone to hang out with right now back at home. Maybe she's just looking for someone to hang out with? Someone shoot me if I am being oblivious.
So anyways, someone asses the situation for me please because I cant. Ask away with any questions as well. Thanks for the help DJs!
We made plans for our next "outing" (date? just hanging out? I dunno yet) while at the bar. We're gonna hit a bar/store/movie, actual day is not set yet. So she mentions that she is going out of town for this weekend for a friend's graduation party at the bar. But when I drop her off I mentioned I had sunday off and that we could do something then (forgetting she was going away). She says she was going to go away for the weekend but to call her anyways because she might just blow it off and go out with me instead. Afterwards she gives me a hug and the "it was great seeing you again!" line. Was not expecting the hug, kinda caught me off guard.
Next morning I have an email from her saying she had a good time, gave me her screen name, etc etc.
Now I am totally oblivious to women and the signs they give off. I have no clue when/if a woman is attracted to me. At the bar she had her chair turned towards mine and her shoulders were openned up towards me the whole time. Sounded interested in hookin up again, gave me a hug, yatta yatta. Is she just friendly or does she sound interested? How should I go about our next meeting? I would definately persue a relationship with her if she were interested but I dont know if she is or not.
She went to school out of state and doesnt really have anyone to hang out with right now back at home. Maybe she's just looking for someone to hang out with? Someone shoot me if I am being oblivious.
So anyways, someone asses the situation for me please because I cant. Ask away with any questions as well. Thanks for the help DJs!
if not, you should still be able to be her mate and plus she should respect you for at least having the balls to ask her.