first date "as friends"

[Sg]

Going out with a girl on friday from my work.
She shows many signs of interest, LOTS of eye contact, open body language, ect. Shes not the hottest woman on the planet, but far from passing up.
She didnt hesitate in the slightest to say alright with going out on friday except for the words.... "Im married so we have to go as just friends"
Couldnt let her win with that comment so instantly i fired back with "I didnt ask you on a date".
So, shes interested, but its a friendly date here in Las Vegas.
I dont want any BF Destroyer patters, would be too fast.
Shes sort of in the damged goods section. Needs to be brought out of her shell. Need i mention shes not very tall, around 4'7.
Shes fast with words and comebacks. (this slightly worries me, but im also fast.) Anyone have any ice breaking ideas, hidden compliments, attraction grabbers, conversations, or funny things to add?
Also must add, Need to get her excited because she doesnt get out much, so keeping her interested is a must. She loves dogs...

 

[felony]

Sg with the 200+ posts......

What funny things do you want us to add?
I don't like this post and i normally wouldn't reply, but this one has me particularly lost!

- Ice Breakers. Whatever for? What ice breaking do you have to do? What are you trying to achieve here?

- Hidden Compliaments. Again, are you trying to win her over from her HUSBAND?

-Attraction Grabbers? wtf? Are you trying to make her become sexually attracted to you? (read the bible if so) or are you simply planning to dye your hair orange, wear your boxers on the outside and fall over in public?


It all sounds to me that you are confused and getting yourself into lots of trouble. What do you want to gain from this venture?

- Do you want to bang her? Don't bother! She can't be that good; there are plenty of others out there!
- Do you just want to be friends? (not sure why you'd want to) but if so then quit stressing this is easy to do.


Quite frankly, what do you want the rest of the so suave community to say? I can think of two words.

She's Married.

Ugh, can you see where i'm coming from here?
felony.

 

[Sg]

Nice worded criticism.
Shes unhappily married, 21 yrs old.
Wants a divorce.
I was asking for maybe ways of making her laugh that i didnt think of. Stories, topics, occasions, ect.
Experienced DJs can help evaluate another persons problem and come up with possible solutions. But even experience has a few unknown areas in there we ask others for ideas for things overlooked..
Thanks for replying, but in the future dont be a d*ck please.

 

[felony]

Excuse me?
Don't be a ****?

I read your post and replied to it for what it's worth. Funny how most others are ignoring this particular post.

Sg, you didn't ask for funny alternative ways to make her laugh in your original post. You simply briefed us on a current situation you are in, which i personally, and know certain other members on this forum would feel as a blatant waste of time.

Infact i was so shocked at the level of quality in this thread that i spent some time reading your other posts here and there throughout the forum. As no surprise the half dozen i viewed were all pointless statements which contained absolutely no constructive material.

I simply replied to clarify whatever trash you were trying to cough up incase i could be of some helpful assistance. After all isn't being helpful what this forum is all about?

I'm not trying to pick any fights here, i never have and don't plan on starting one now.

Best of luck in your future endeavours,
felony.

 

[Doppler4000]

She's gonna use you for ego-feeding attention that she's supposedly not getting at home. Do us a favor and promise us you won't come back here whining when you've fallen for a dishonest married chick who ain't into you.

The correct answer here, is for her to give you a call once the divorce is final and then get back out there and meet some girls who are actually available. Even if she does get out of the marriage, her coming to you is still unlikely because she's already told you she only wants to be friends. I'm sure you'll tell us that's because she's still married right now..... but hey, you can believe that if you want.

This sounds harsh, I know- but you have no idea what a pointless exercise you're getting yourself into.

 

[InLawsHateMe]

This is what some of us call, 'Easy Pickings'.... she may be looking for any excuse to drop her pants right now. Then again, I've known women who have said the same thing, 'I'm not really happily married.' but for reasons only known to them (kids, commitment, religion) they won't do anything but go out with ya. I had a buddy of mine who once told me a woman threw up on him during sex, and he still manages to get fine unhappily married women out on movie dates. *shrugs*

If you want in her pants, and you set your mind to it, it is possible, but be warned.... ya work with her, and if you lay down the pipe, and she gets weird on you... don't say we didn't warn you.

My best advise is if you do her, do her like there's no tomorrow, make it worth it to you and to her. It may help with her feelings. Good luck, please be careful.

 

[echo1212]

Married....4'7".........? Oy vay!!!!

 

[Sg]

Damn, i sure ate this thread.

 

[Kwah]

All I can say is, why not be the other man? Your not going to end up with her if she gets divorced anyway probably so just do what any man who doesnt know the other guy would do, bang the **** out of her.