Finding my PC Muscle

[piri]

Hi.
I've been trying to find my PC muscle for a few months, and I started to work it out. At least, I thought it was my PC muscle, but when I squeezed it during sex, I reached orgasm faster.
I used to squeeze the "tube-like" muscle between the anus and the testicles. That's not it, or is it?

So I began searching for it again, and I'm having trouble finding it. Can anyone help me out with this?
I really want to master my sex life.

Thanks a lot.

P.S. - I'm not sure if this is the right forum for this. Sorry if it's not.

 

[Skilla_Staz]

When your pissing, stop the piss flow. That's your PC muscle. Chances are you will c*m quicker when you grip that during sex. Or at least I do. Research "Kegels" and "reverse kegels".

 

[piri]

What do you mean?
Isn't it supposed to make you control your ejaculation?

 

[donjuanjovi]

That "tube like muscle" is actually your penis. The PC or "pubococcygeus" muscle connects from your pubic bone to your coccyx (hahaha coccyx). To physicslly find it you would need a sharp knife and a lot of will power. To flex it simply stop peeing while peeing. Or pretend you're peeing and stop the "imaginary pee".

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kegel_exercise

There's the wikipedia for Kegals

 

[izza]

You strengthen the muscle at other times. But if you squeeze it during sex, you're going to fire like a cannon.

The purpose of strengthening it lies in gaining voluntary control of an involuntary reaction. Cumming is an involuntary reaction performed by these muscles. Fortunately, you can learn to control and strengthen them, increasing your endurance.

Some people, like John Gray, say that learning endurance is a useless skill. Sex that lasts too long can kill a sex life because, surprising as it may seem to those who don't have enough sex, SEX GETS BORING (even to a man) if you have three-hour sex every day.

But if you insist on using this useless technique (after all, it is very normal to seek after "sex that never ends"), there are excellent websites out there on it.

 

[Skilla_Staz]

You can stop an ejaculation by stopping and squeezing, or you can train yourself to have multiple orgasms, so to speak. It doesn't STOP you from c*mming though as far as I know, if you keep pumping away.

 

[piri]

Thanks for the advice.
I'm still havning trouble finding it, but I'll start doing exercices after I piss to make sure that the muscle I'm exercising is the PC.

Thanks again.

 

[mrRuckus]

eh? I can stop from cumming by squeezing it off. I don't know about if i keep hammering away while i'm stemming the flow but if you stop and squeeze off with a somewhat strong pc muscle you should be able to not ***. I hardly think the girl will be mad you stopped for 5 seconds of your 45 minute humping session.

edit: why can i say cumming but not come with a u?