Yo whats up guys. I haven't posted on here in a while, mostly because I've been too busy with school work (which I should be doing right now), been doing too much other activities, and been too sleepy (cause of school work and my other activities), but I digress...
So I'm finally seeing results brothers, in terms of the girlies! These past couple of weekends I've hooked up with two different girls, and am going to hang with another different girl this weekend. Whereas, before that, I was on a dry spell of like a year and a half. Nice to finally get out of it.
So what I'm thinking so far is that girls, just like everything else comes in spurts. There are dry spells and there are high spells. So for example the past year and a half has been my dry spell (and I'll tell you why I think I was in a dry spell). And recently I've just been kicking into a high spell (though I know it most likely won't last forever, but I think I can drag it out for a while). Anyways though, I'll get on with the point which is, if you're wondering, my observations of going into a high spell. And this is all just from my experience and what I've thought of it.
So, I've noticed there's basically three things you need to do to eventually get into a high spell if you're not in one.
1. Become as fly as you can be. By this I mean take pride in your own personal image. Go out and buy nice clothes, work out, and get a clean haircut. If doing some of these things means you'll have to hold out on your school lunch money for a week, or skip a couple of burgers to get the money, then do it. Dress so that you feel you look good, and always make sure you're comfortable with yourself. Spend some extra money whitening your teeth or going to the tanning salon (something I need to do).
2. Get out and do stuff. By this I don't mean go out and play video games at your friends house for the weekend. I mean do things such as: going to your school's basketball games, go to dance parties/clubs with your friends, chill with your bros and invite a couple of girlies, go to raves. Just basically do anything social that lines you up to get noticed by girlies or do something that directly relates to getting girlies like going to dancing clubs and such. Please just don't stay home ALL weekend.
3. Learn game/social skills and spit it. This means practice, and ties in with the other two. If you look fly, then you're game will be even better because of the natural confidence that you will have. Doing social things will line you up with perfect opportunities to practice your game. Be an overall friendly person and meet as many new people as you can. Who knows, the random dude you decide to say what's up to at the burger king line could end up becoming your friend and introducing you to more chicks. Be social with guys and girls, and practice your game.
For example, I met the girl I hung out with last weekend because she approached me. Why did she approach me? Because she thought I looked fly and hawt. Me working on my image finally payed off because someone finally noticed! It may take a while, but just keep working on your image.
The girl I hung out with like two weeks ago I met at a rave. Soo, going to social places really does work. Do enough social events, sports games, parties, dances, and you'll eventually find someone.
The girl I'm hanging out with this weekend I met because of my game. I met her on the train ride home. I thought she was hot, sat across from her, said hi, asked her if her piercing was real, got into a convo and got her number by the end. Now we're meeting up this weekend.
Why I was on a dry spell earlier was because I wasn't doing any of those three things. I was hardly focusing on my image, I wasn't putting myself out there at all, and I wasn't trying to be social and meet new people or working on my game. Once you start doing these things though, times will change. Although it will take time, if you keep at it long enough, you will see results.
Take out of this what you will though, and if all else fails, remember to just atleast TRY. Good luck
So I'm finally seeing results brothers, in terms of the girlies! These past couple of weekends I've hooked up with two different girls, and am going to hang with another different girl this weekend. Whereas, before that, I was on a dry spell of like a year and a half. Nice to finally get out of it.
So what I'm thinking so far is that girls, just like everything else comes in spurts. There are dry spells and there are high spells. So for example the past year and a half has been my dry spell (and I'll tell you why I think I was in a dry spell). And recently I've just been kicking into a high spell (though I know it most likely won't last forever, but I think I can drag it out for a while). Anyways though, I'll get on with the point which is, if you're wondering, my observations of going into a high spell. And this is all just from my experience and what I've thought of it.
So, I've noticed there's basically three things you need to do to eventually get into a high spell if you're not in one.
1. Become as fly as you can be. By this I mean take pride in your own personal image. Go out and buy nice clothes, work out, and get a clean haircut. If doing some of these things means you'll have to hold out on your school lunch money for a week, or skip a couple of burgers to get the money, then do it. Dress so that you feel you look good, and always make sure you're comfortable with yourself. Spend some extra money whitening your teeth or going to the tanning salon (something I need to do).
2. Get out and do stuff. By this I don't mean go out and play video games at your friends house for the weekend. I mean do things such as: going to your school's basketball games, go to dance parties/clubs with your friends, chill with your bros and invite a couple of girlies, go to raves. Just basically do anything social that lines you up to get noticed by girlies or do something that directly relates to getting girlies like going to dancing clubs and such. Please just don't stay home ALL weekend.
3. Learn game/social skills and spit it. This means practice, and ties in with the other two. If you look fly, then you're game will be even better because of the natural confidence that you will have. Doing social things will line you up with perfect opportunities to practice your game. Be an overall friendly person and meet as many new people as you can. Who knows, the random dude you decide to say what's up to at the burger king line could end up becoming your friend and introducing you to more chicks. Be social with guys and girls, and practice your game.
For example, I met the girl I hung out with last weekend because she approached me. Why did she approach me? Because she thought I looked fly and hawt. Me working on my image finally payed off because someone finally noticed! It may take a while, but just keep working on your image.
The girl I hung out with like two weeks ago I met at a rave. Soo, going to social places really does work. Do enough social events, sports games, parties, dances, and you'll eventually find someone.
The girl I'm hanging out with this weekend I met because of my game. I met her on the train ride home. I thought she was hot, sat across from her, said hi, asked her if her piercing was real, got into a convo and got her number by the end. Now we're meeting up this weekend.
Why I was on a dry spell earlier was because I wasn't doing any of those three things. I was hardly focusing on my image, I wasn't putting myself out there at all, and I wasn't trying to be social and meet new people or working on my game. Once you start doing these things though, times will change. Although it will take time, if you keep at it long enough, you will see results.
Take out of this what you will though, and if all else fails, remember to just atleast TRY. Good luck
