Final Words

[VIVAlasVEGASBaby]

I've learned quite a bit from my months away from this site, probably more than i ever did on the site. So, i'm going to share with you what i've learned, then i think im going to permanently sign off with my 100th post.

First off, this site is great and everything, but i think people make it out to be more than it really is. The techniques and posts written here come off as forcing afc's and budding Don Juans into one basic thing; a "Don Juan". I've learned that all this crap about confidence, kino and assorted other "attractive" qualities do not make you into a different person.

We all have our personalities. Everyone has their own unique personality that probably even ourselves know little about. When on this site, you look at all the kino, confidence, and attractive qualities, but lose sight of your own personality.

Confidence is a tiny fraction of nothing that is a part of your personality. And to be honest no one should have to consciously say to themselves, "ok, be confident". When you do this do you think you are truly being confident?

Here is my point, and the most important thing i've learned in these past few months;

Be yourself. Now keep in mind if you want to change, then change! So i guess in other words, be the person that you want to be. Personality is what makes attraction, ESPICIALLY with guys.

For instance, a guy who has no muscle, is short, and scrawny is going to have to resort to other methods of attraction. Or a pseron who is not witty or funny might have to have more "manliness". You get the point.

There is no universal formula that will attract every girl, and to be quite truthful, it is very likely that the ratio of girls who are attracted to you to the bulk of all females will be small to average, just like with every other guy. Why is this? Because different females are attracted to different personality traits. How else could the AFC score?

This is where that being yourself thing comes into play; because not every person on this planet will like you, so you might as well like yourself. I believe that when the ol' AFC finds this site and begins to read the bible, he slowly begins to lose sight of his personality. Which is why leaving the site for a few months is recommended; to regain sight of your personality and let the DJ stuff settle to the bottom and let your personality sort out all the info and remold it to yourself.

The details go away and you stop thinking about kino and confidence and being funny. If you remember one thing from this meaningless post, just remember that you do not have to listen to anyone on this site, because no one has all the answers and the only way to go about life is to find them yourself, and decide for yourself who you want to be.

Here's an example of myself. I am not ****y and in fact i find people who are ****y and arrogant to be jerks and annoying people. If you like being ****y then by all means be ****y, but for ME this quality didn't seem appealing.

Here are my reasons for leaving this site.

First off, i want to thank everyone here. This site has really helped me in incredible ways and really pointed me in the right direction, but now that i'm headed the right way, all that is left to do is begin walking. I do not need this web site anymore and i plan to focus my life on things more important to me. That is what this site is for, POINTING YOU IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION. It cannot and will not do anything more for you.

Another reason is that I've realized I know JACK ****, so why sit here and waste my time writing posts pretending I know everything? Now all of you posters; keep posting!!!, but for me posting is holding me back in life.

Cheers to all of you and good luck with your lives. I wish you all the best of luck. Peace out!!

 

[krd]

Personally, the reason why I come on this site so often is simply because I have nothing better to do--not because it's helped me in any significant way. You can bet if I was out on dates all the time with attractive women, I wouldn't be on this site half as much. Posting here is kind of like an outlet for all the thoughts that are building up in my head on a day to day basis. I have to let them out somehow.

 

[Oxide]

yeah, this isnt something i come for everyday so i can get with girls. it was at first month, may be first 2 months. after taking a break ive understood life much better. now this is just a palce for me to chat about things with guys who think generally the same way i do.

i enjoy talking to intellegent people that is why i stick around here.

 

[Brasco]

I don't come to this site to get the answers. I come here to get advice and peoples thoughts on situations. Sure some of the stuffs on here should just be ignored if its not what your looking for. All it takes is a little comon sence to decifer the good and the bad stuff. I give my 2 cents every now and again and if people don;t like what I say , they just ignore it, cool with me!!!

Secondly, if you come to this site to get all the answers about woman, it is not that simple. The only way to get all the answers is to go out and experiment. Also, if you come to get to get the answers to "does she like me". The only way to get the true answer is to ask her, but some people are afraid to get the true answer so they come to this site to hear want they want to hear. Then when they get fraustrated and blow it with a chick they come here and write posts saying that this site is all bull and that they are leaving. Well no one is stoping you!!!