Fights Fights Fights... what to do?

[Climax]

For those of u here that have gf's.... How often do you fight with her, and tell us some stories of ur fights, and how u "made it better" again.

 

[Don Pablo]

Ask Joe Collapa. I think that was his name. But he was always getting beat up by girls.

 

[Climax]

hmmmmm?

But i mean... did the 2 of u not argue and get angry with 1 another at all during ur relationship?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Sometimes you need to consider what you argue about moreso than the amount of arguments that you have. Also, do all disagreements merit a fight, is it not enough to agree to disagree?

Just something to consider.

 

[Don Pablo]

I'm talking about a guy who used to post here. Any body remember?

 

[diplomatic_lie]

Yeah I remember Joe Collapoppa, that guy has some funny ass stories. I wonder if his "girlfriend" still beats him up.


But generally I prefer to avoid arguments. If a girl I date argues with me, I just remind her philosophically to look at the big picture, instead of getting fussed about the petty details. That usually ends the argument on good terms.

 

[Climax]

Ok shweet.... but here's 1 more problem that i have....

I USE to be a playa etc.... so now my gf keeps on having these doughbts that 1 day i'll just leave her for some other girl, or that i am just "playing" her, so everytime another girl comes into the picture or is brought up my gf gets all insecure and that normally leads to an arguement.

So here is my question.... How do i get to trust me fully given my past? (And please dont say "time")

We do go out places, we do get along well, everything is like "perfect", untill her insecurities come up, and its starting to annoy me alot, so any opinions on this would be appreciated.

Thanx

Laterz...

 

[m4a1]

Yeah, Joe was a funny dude.

He got banned in the end, although I looked at his last few posts and didn't see anything worthy of getting banned over, but hey, maybe he PM'ed SoSuave.com with a death threat, who knows.