Fight help, I've got myself into a situation.

[thebestthing]

Long story short, this girl and her friends [guys] want to kick my ass.

I'm fifteen, sister is seventeen, I told her, she told her guy friends and started trash talking to the dude that wanted to kick my ass.

Apparently it's supposed to happen tomorrow at some park,
but he's like 'is it me and you or your friends vs my friends?"
I initially said my friends and his, but he's like 'are you too much of a ***** to fight me yourself?'
[kids a pot head, scrawny too.]

I'm confident in my friend's fighting ability; they kick ass, besides, they're older than these guys.
What I'm not confident is in my own. I really don't want to get my ass kicked in front of my sister and her friends.

I don't know what to do.
Please don't tell me 'do the mature thing, go to the authorities'

I've done that when the harassment started, they did nothing.
My sister is dead set on going tomorrow anyway, so right now I'm just looking for advice.

 

[S.Y.L]

Tuck your chin, keep your hands up, take him down, get mount, then go for some GNP

 

[jeffthechef]

well...you say he's a pothead...chances are if he's high...you probably will have an extremely hard time making him feel anything...ive seen a cop fight a guy who was high and it was quite interesting

but if you're not a good fighter...don't bother with any standing combat...you watch mma?...i would say stick to wrestling/submission....if you can get him in a sleeper hold...or armbar...or leg lock...and you can break one of his bones or dislocate something...then you win and you can leave...unless you're much bigger than him...then just try and knock him out...

and it's a street fight...so rip his balls off..poke his eyes...dirty is ok
if you can take away his vision..he'll lose...unless he's like frank in bloodsport...or a bruce lee type...then you're fukced either way

but if it's group on group...just get dirty...man on man...stgay on ground...unless you're bigger then knock him out

but i dont suggest violence...at least call the police and tell them where it's going down...and make sure it's going down or else they will ignore you the next time...but be prepared to fight either way...and again...go for the submission..if you can break something/he can't move/can't see...its over

 

[thebestthing]

I'm not bad at fighting, I know a fair amount BJJ, I just haven't been in a REAL fight for a long time. I'm not like bruce lee though.

 

[Ztr1der]

Dude seriously the secret to these school fights its hit first...

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

well...you say he's a pothead...chances are if he's high...you probably will have an extremely hard time making him feel anything...ive seen a cop fight a guy who was high and it was quite interesting

Lol it's pot not PCP. This is all so juvenile. Why does this guy even want to fight you? I would honestly just say to go for it, but fighting these days is a lose/lose situation. If you lose, you look the fool and get shamed. If you win, there's always that chance that you look the bad guy and get sued/prosecuted when you did some major damage to the other guy while defending yourself.

What is the point of this fight anyway? If someone wants to attack you, then defend yourself, but showing up to one of these schoolyard brawl types of things seems totally lame.

 

[jeffthechef]

well no **** sherlock...it is all juvenile..and there is no point in showing up...but if you know he's going to come for you...and the police don't do ****...what choice do you have

 

[thebestthing]

The reason for all of this is because of a fling with a girl, whom I rejected afterwards to actually being in a relationship with.

She decided to go tell everyone I tried to molest/rape her.

I told the principal, I told the police, I've walked away from every confrontation even though I looked like a *****. The harassment is not stopping, and I have decided to take the only other route to make it cease.

 

[ariet]

Show up it and take a video if it happens
isnt there a rule in dj bible not to fight over a girl?

but i suggest that you dont do it unless you have to
dont let one of your friend fight for you dats just pizza
tell them you dont want to fight ( as i understand they cant just bash you because u have friends)


what my friends do is they to reduce the dmg they make it a group fight so your friend can pwn them while u dont get hurt as much

 

[thebestthing]

That's originally what I wanted, but my sister wants me to 1v1 him and she says "We're just there to make sure they don't jump in, the problems between you and him."

 

[MSwrestler]

Wouldn't a good sister try to dissolve this situation rofl. It seems like she is looking forward towards the fight event. lol. Advice wont really work, fighting ability comes from training. So my Advice is train with someone who knows what they are doing, atleast the basics.

 

[thebestthing]

Aggression is really important in a fight, so is your mindset and other such things. I don't know how good you fight to be honest, but the fact that you even posted this thread shows you have fairly low confidence in your fighting abilities and you're probably not that aggressive, no offense. Its up to you whether you want to show up and fight him anyways.


And your sister sounds like a horrible role model. Just wanted to put that out there, lol.
Good luck.

For the first part, you hit the nail on the head. I'm not aggressive at all; I've walked away from every previous confrontation and I've informed the police of the harassment. It hasn't stopped, my sister knows this, more or less told them "If you have any brains, you'll leave him alone now."
I dunno, I do hate this kid though. You have no idea how much ****'s been started because of him.

She's fairly confident in my ability it seems and she really does stick up for me a lot, we're pretty close.. but I'd agree. She's put me on the spot where if I don't show up, I look like a *****.

I'm more or less going with what S.Y.L. said. Strike first, strike hard, get him to the ground, achieve mount and go for some GnP, or if he gives me his back I'll go for a submission or choke. [and most chokes don't ****ing work on the street, holy ****, they'll grab your balls.]

Anyway, any more advice is welcome.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I'd kick him in the balls, and then, straight blast down the middle, grab his neck, and slam my head into is nose. That might kill him, but, "I was in fear for my life" is all you have to say.

 

[kraytkiller]

or if he gives me his back I'll go for a submission or choke. [and most chokes don't ****ing work on the street, holy ****, they'll grab your balls.]

If you try to put him in a choke on the ground from behind and your afraid of him grabbing your balls wear a cup OR wrap your legs around one of this legs and squeeze so your sort of pressed against him, no homo, and put him in one of these http://content5.videojug.com/76/764...e0/how-to-do-bas-ruttens-rear-naked-choke.jpg. A rear naked choke, if you can't read.

Nearly impossible to escape. Make sure to turn your head too so he doesn't claw your eyes.

 

[thebestthing]

If you try to put him in a choke on the ground from behind and your afraid of him grabbing your balls wear a cup OR wrap your legs around one of this legs and squeeze so your sort of pressed against him, no homo, and put him in one of these http://content5.videojug.com/76/764...e0/how-to-do-bas-ruttens-rear-naked-choke.jpg. A rear naked choke, if you can't read.

Nearly impossible to escape. Make sure to turn your head too so he doesn't claw your eyes.

Yeah, I learned that in BJJ, but the only issue I have is if he tucks his chin it's difficult to apply the choke.

 

[Phoenix]

You should try to win before you battle.

 

[S.Y.L]

He cant grab your balls if you have his back mounted, he cant do much really. Hold the choke till hes passed out, then leave lol.

 

[ariet]

just show up because winning is nothing
important thing is that someone stops the fight if they go too far
tell them theyll regret it and then u get a baseball bat and do whatever

be smart and dont have fear

 

[Accension]

Trust me on this one.
If a 6 pack gets you drunk drink 3 cans before the fight.
Listen to a lot of death metal before the fight and get angry.
After listening to death metal, watch Courage Wolf on youtube; sounds stupid but this'll really get you in state.

From there, if you don't stop punching him you WON'T lose.
All there is to it, don't over complicate this just do it.

 

[thebestthing]

Trust me on this one.
If a 6 pack gets you drunk drink 3 cans before the fight.
Listen to a lot of death metal before the fight and get angry.
After listening to death metal, watch Courage Wolf on youtube; sounds stupid but this'll really get you in state.

From there, if you don't stop punching him you WON'T lose.
All there is to it, don't over complicate this just do it.

"Now your insulting shandi! That's not smart either! Im telling you right now that you did and your being a bigass ***** about it! Im going to laugh all over your face when jessey kicks your ass tomorrow"

lol.