Field Report

[Kodiac]

Ok, so my game has been going to sh*t lately. So i figure i need to go out and do some approaching to get it back up to an acceptable level.

So here is is, Kodiac's Field Trip - WARNING, LONG!

Me and 2 friends, one of them is similar to the guy mentioned above in terms of women and the other is a natural DJ. So after a lot of convincing i get them to agree to head off to another town and stay in a hotel for a bit of brake, try out some new clubs etc etc..

Anyway, we have a few drinks and i head down stairs, just 2 scope out the hotel / area why they are up stairs watching some fkn documentary on TV.

Approach 1 - I start flirting with one of the hotel staff (kasey) and ask if i could get another bed for my room, she gives me this big grin and shes like "sure, ill get one made up for you" ...i was enquiring to when she finishes and what she was doing after work, conversational went well but i left it at that...4 now.

I headed back up to the room, my mates were still lounging around. It was around 7pm so still a little early to head out...i go out on the balcony and leave them to their documentary. It's a great view, the beach is about a stones throw away and their is a pretty busy walkway going directly past out hotel to the beach.

(Half) Approach 2 - Notice a group of ladies walking along, i yell out at them, 'evening ladies' and try yelling out some small talk... they yell some stuff back but i can't hear exactly what - she had a very little voice!
Another group of 3 girls walks past so i try again, i notice they have these pink fluffy pompom kinda things sticking out of their pants ... I try the same method as previous but can actually hear these girls!
They are dressed pretty skimpy so i try "Show us your pink bits" (pink pompoms lol) so the HB8 blonde bends over and starts rubbing her crotch!
I continue, "I can't see them so well from up here, you will have to come up to room 412" they smile and walk off. Bugga!

I go back into the room, my mates are still watching tv, bastards! So, i look for some alcohol but only find some wine, i need a bottle opener so i give the front desk a call and ask for Kasey ...do some light flirting over the phone with her, she says she will bring it up personally! She brings it up, she struggles to pop the wine cork "I don't have much experience doing this" me "That's all right, ill help you pop it" and take the bottle opener off her...(my friends were pissing themselves at this point), open the bottle and tell her she should drop by when she finishes work.

Approach 3 - When Kasey was leaving i notice a bunch of 'younger' girls going into the room next door. I tell my mates about them and suggest they give their room a call. None of them have the balls (i thought my dj friend would have) which surprised me. So i pick up the phone and call their room.
me "Evening ladies"
them "Who is this"
me "The man of your dreams"
them " (giggling) Oh really"
-you could hear them gathering around the phone at this stage and a new chick takes the handset
her "Hello, how are you"
(insert fluff talk)
I find out they are having a girls night out, one of them just turned 18 and broke up with her boyfriend.
At this stage i put them onto my friend (the dj 1) as i was losing Interest.

Next thing i know, there was a knock on the door. Guess who!!! Thats right, the 3 chicks i PU from the balcony. They wander in theres a blonde HB8, brunette HB7 and short fat one HB4.
I invite them in and start flirting, my friends hung up on the other ladies and both had huge grins.
-Insert flirting here-
They invite us up to their room as it 'has a better view'. So we all head up there. We go into their room and they've got loads of alcohol and even a can of whipped cream... The HB8 asks if if like a drink, so she starts making me one and then gives it to her friend, BIATCH. I commented on how her pink bits were a little overgrown (the pompoms were losing hairs) and that she should take better care of herself as it'd scare hot guys like myself off.
She stole the drink back of her buddy and gave it to me...she also pulled out the whipped cream and went wild!

I got a call and went out on the balcony. 5 minutes later the blonde comes out and starts smacking me on the butt ...she heads back inside when i cease to pay her any attention lol I notice someone on the balcony over to the right, when my phone convo finishes i start talking with him, decent fella who just got out of a 2 year relationship, i tell him hes welcome to come out with us later.

(Half) Approach 4 - His gaze wonders and i see hes looking at another group of ladies walking along the street not far from us, hes "damn, they r hot". So off i go again, "Evening ladies, where are you headed" -insert fluff talk- ..they weren't from around here and were kinda lost, so i suggest they head out with us and we would show them around (like i knew where the fuk 2 go, i wasnt local either lol) and to come up to room 412.

At this stage the blonde comes out again and shes like "hey, you better not be bringing those skanks up to our room!!" and she looked over the edge and yelled out "fuk off skanks" so i grabbed her on the arse "hey, thats not very nice, you dont know whether they are skanks or not"... she smiled, but walked off back into the room.

The dude next to me was like "damn, well done man!! hey, can i come over to ur room...u cant have all the ladies!" i told him sure, come over.

One of my friends (the shy one) came out and said he doesnt have any standards anymore and that he wanted to bone the fat chick lol So im like, go for it!! We start having a little convo about the ladies and hes thanking me for bringing them up 2 our room in the first place. I told him there were some hotter ones on the way, so dont get rid of your standards just yet He was like "fuk, this is the best day of my life" hehe
Then it hits me, i gave the chicks from the street the wrong room number, i gave them OUR room number instead of the chicks (where we were). So i excuse myself and head back down to our room (my shy friend came with me).

Didn't catch them there, so we headed back up to the chicks room. My DJ friend was getting pretty close to the HB7 brunette, so i gave him the thumbs up. He said that a group of ladies were calling out looking for me but that the blonde told them to fuk off, apparently they went to our room but no one was their.... FUK! Stupid blonde biatch lol

I gave the room key to my dj friend and told him to go wild... and that we were heading out. So to town we (my shy friend and the dude from the room next door) went.

 

[Kodiac]

HIGHLIGHT OF THE NIGHT -I got a little side tracked down stairs. There was a bow tie / suit party on down stairs. It was like a formal event of some type. So i suggest we have a seet at a nearby bar and scope out the ladies in their $1000 dresses for a bit. We are sitting at the bar, this HB7 blonde sits nearby, really expensive dress on and looks quite sophisticated? the bartender was hitting on her, she was smiling when he was making advances and giving her compliments but she kept making eye contact with me.

Im considering (mistake) approaching but she gets up and heads back to the group / into the formal environment, im cursing, saying i should have approached. They were saying how it didnt matter etc..etc.. fuk that, AFC's telling me it was ok ? It's NOT ok, i let an opportunity pass me by.
I stand up and tell em ill be back in a second, i walk straight into the room full of guys in suits -here i am dressed in faded jeans, blue t-shirt and sneakers! I scope the place out for a bit, see my target dancing with a group of other females, i walk straight up 2 her, lightly grab her arm and say "you know something, i like your style" she cracks a huge smile and you could see she loved the attention, her friends jaws dropped.
I dance a little with her and put my arm around her, go in for the kiss but she gives me the cheek. This surprised me and she came out with "What would i tell my busband?" (fuk!) she kissed me anyway ...then i pulled out, headed back to my mates and had a good laugh.

My mate went outside for a smoke and we ran into a group of guys who were from the party, all dressed up and talking really 'posh' like. I striked up conversation with these guys which leaded to some pretty interesting topics, even got one of their business cards from a HR manager for a large Teleco here in Aus incase i was interested in a career change, must have given them a good impression!

Approach 5 - Walking to town, notice a HB8 crying at the bus shelter, i tell the guys ill be back in a sec, i sit down next to her and ask whats up, etc. etc.. she seems pretty unreceptive, i give her a hug and tell her i hope she feels better soon. next.

Approach 6 - HB7 on the other side of the street, alone, walking quite fast, i catch up and am like "excuse me" her "yes" i ask her where shes headed in such a hurry but she gives me the cold shoulder and continues on her way! pffft

We hit a club. The guys are getting drinks, i scope the place out, keeping an eye out for some targets. I notice 2 girls 2gether, one hb8 and a fatty. My shy friend comes back (dont know where the other guy went to, thats the last i saw of him lol) and i ask whether hed 'hit that' pointing out the fatty, hes like, "sure would!" lol

Approach 7 - I approach, introduce, get a hug from BOTH ladies. I try and do some fluff talking in but its 2 loud so i try and hint to do some dancing. She says that she can't as she can't leave her friend. I flirt with her friend and point out my buddy, i try and hint that hes interested in dancing with her. My buddy waves me over so i tell the ladies ill be back when they get their dancing shoes on.

Talk to my buddy, tell him to get off his arse and talk to her. After a lot of convincing he agrees so we head back the ladies. When we get back their, there is 2 guys hitting on the HB8. I just smile at them, sit down next to her and put my arm round her while i whisper something in her ear.... (i said something stupid but i know she wouldnt be able to hear over the music) and just left my arm around her the guys left.

Look back at my buddy, hes standing there with his hands in his pockets next to the fatty that hes ment to be PU. Baahhh! I try my best to get them hooked up but it doesnt happen. No luck trying anymore, c0ck blocked.

re-Scoped out the club but saw no other HB's. Tried another club and no luck there either. We decided to head back to the hotel, i was pretty fuked but still got quite a few hi's, smiles and eye contact on the walk back.

And that's the night.

Nothing really to show for it ?? No numbers, no p*ssy, well, that's definately not what i was after.
Sure, i could have got a fuk if i had played it differently...there's no doubt in my mind. The night was for me, to improve my confidence, test out my skills and put me out of my comfort zone so that i could improve my game...and improve my game i did.

Saturday night, here we come

 

[uniassign]

Mate,

It seems to me that you are being direct with your approaches. That's good maybe if you want ONS, it cuts the crap and get straight to the point.

However, if you want to play the more sophicated game, and have WAY more successes, you will need to learn to TALK. This way you demonstrate millions time more value that the average guy.

No offence, but at the moment, you differientiate yourself from the rest of the AFC population by being more BOLD. This, however, does not equate to CONFIDENCE. Boldness comes from not giving a f&*k about what the other person thinks and do whatever that is on your mind.

Confidence, in my opinion is boldness without the stupidity. For example: your approaches on the balcony with passers by. This is the same scenario as those guys that want you to sign up to save the forests on the street. Unless you are ACTIVELY looking to save the trees, you are not going to stop.

In the same way, passers-by have a place to go, and when you stop them, psychologically you are the obstacle, and unless they are actively looking to pull, you will be classified as an idiot. No offense, just how I see things.

Your real chances would have been the chick at the bar, and the chicks in the next room.

You are being way too forward. Chicks will see this as you just trying to f&*k them. (We all know that's the point) but if you want more success rate, you will need to learn to GAME them. This means you give them what they want, and they will give you what you want.

Instead of fluffing with them, learn to demonstrate value. Demonstrate to them that you are WAY above all the other guys they have/will meet and they will hang around. This means making them have the time of their lives, give them an adventure, take them on an emotional ride etc.

I think if you slow down, your success rate will skyrocket.

 

[Intense]

Kodiac, that's a solid night out! Pretty bad fvck up with telling them girls the wrong room number though Now I'm all riled up to go do some polishing of the skillz.

Intense.

 

[Kodiac]

However, if you want to play the more sophicated game, and have WAY more successes, you will need to learn to TALK. This way you demonstrate millions time more value that the average guy.

There was a lot of flirting / talking going on. If i included all the sh*t that i said the post would have been twice as long and i figured it was LONG enough as it is Not that i can remember half the stuff anyway, it was a lonnng night!

Confidence, in my opinion is boldness without the stupidity. For example: your approaches on the balcony with passers by. This is the same scenario as those guys that want you to sign up to save the forests on the street. Unless you are ACTIVELY looking to save the trees, you are not going to stop.

I was bored and fuk watching TV when im on holidays! It was fun anyway, and it did work on more than one occasion (2 my surprise)... pstt, save the whales, harpoon a fat chick! Point taken though, lame way to approach, thats why i classified it only as a half approach hehe

You are being way too forward. Chicks will see this as you just trying to f&*k them. (We all know that's the point) but if you want more success rate, you will need to learn to GAME them.

I was in a town about 5 hours from my home so i really had no intention of developing any connections with these females.

All good points though uniassign, i see where you are coming from. Thank you for the input.

But don't get me wrong, THIS trip was just a refresher course, like a mini boot camp for me. I was going to start from the beginning and do the eye contact / hi's to 100 women but i did it on a little more advanced level. Although, at the end of the night i did take it back to basics with the EC and hi's.

If i hooked up and put a little effort it maybe i could have scored with the first HB...but then i wouldn't have reached my goal - approach! It wasn't a night out for trying to number close, fuk close or get into a LTR - it was meant to be a night out meeting people and 2 me, my goal was achieved, this Saturday is the night to test out my building rapport, fuking skills etc...

 

[uniassign]

Mate,

Coming from experience, it is better that you go as far as you can with a chick. You will learn MUCH quicker. PU is like a game with no "save" button.

So in effect, you are approaching the first week, and then working on rapport the second week right? Since there is no "save" option, you will have to do the approaching again in the second week anyway. So why waste perfectly good opportunities during the first week NOT practising rapport?

Big points to you for doing approaches. My wing is having a re-lapse and wouldn't approach. I might have to kick his butt tonight ...

 

[Kodiac]

So in effect, you are approaching the first week, and then working on rapport the second week right? Since there is no "save" option, you will have to do the approaching again in the second week anyway. So why waste perfectly good opportunities during the first week NOT practising rapport?

Good point!
I another motive i had was just proving to myself i had the guts to approach hot women! After seeing my ex / oneitis kissing another guy made me feel like sh*t.

I was having a blast approaching all these women and just flirting, testing the waters and more important playing with them! It was a great night, best ive had for a while and i didn't even score

This weekend im back home at home...time to build some rapport / connections and go for some numbers.

lol, kick your wings butt

Go for it Intense, enjoying urself while improving ur skills...what could be better ?