Field report with young girl

[BadBoy89]

I just had a lunch date with a young girl in her later 20’s. She was very talkative, very easy to talk to, confident. She looked pretty good.

Anyway, we were talking about ex’s. She told me she was friends with this guy for years. The guy was attracted to her and made several moves on her, and she rejected him each time. Why? Because, as this young girl said, he was short. He was shorter than her. She was not attracted for this reason. Everything else about him, she said, was good, but she could not get aroused for this reason. She didn’t say “he didn’t have game, he didn’t know how to dress well, he didn’t know how to order alcohol, he didn’t know how to be social, he didn’t know how to go out.”

The guy is now married to a woman older than him, but still, this is what she told me. Not saying this to frustrate or shock or annoy or talk about genetics. I’m just reporting what the young girl told me without me bringing it up.

I set up another date with her during the date. She later told me she had a good time.

Thoughts?

 

[SW15]

I just had a lunch date with a young girl in her later 20’s. She was very talkative, very easy to talk to, confident. She looked pretty good.

Lunch dates are a terrible idea. They are even worse than dinner dates.

Anyway, we were talking about ex’s. She told me she was friends with this guy for years. The guy was attracted to her and made several moves on her, and she rejected him each time. Why? Because, as this young girl said, he was short. He was shorter than her. She was not attracted for this reason. Everything else about him, she said, was good, but she could not get aroused for this reason. She didn’t say “he didn’t have game, he didn’t know how to dress well, he didn’t know how to order alcohol, he didn’t know how to be social, he didn’t know how to go out.”

It's a bad idea to talk about exes during a first date.

I set up another date with her during the date. She later told me she had a good time.

Let's see what happens.

 

[Stanley]

Lol

 

[RazorRambo24]

Nice, thats how I feel about fat chicks and ugly chicks

 

[EyeBRollin]

Nice, thats how I feel about fat chicks and ugly chicks

At least fat chicks can do something about being fat

 

[Ricky]

Lunch dates are a terrible idea. They are even worse than dinner dates.



It's a bad idea to talk about exes during a first date.



Let's see what happens.

Lunch dates dont have easy ways to escalate. Save them for women you are already f&$ing

also agree about talking about exes. If they come up at all be really positivr about them

 

[SW15]

Lunch dates dont have easy ways to escalate. Save them for women you are already f&$ing

That's the same problem with traditional dinner dates in restaurants and coffee shop dates. I won't do either of those dates.

 

[devilkingx2]

Anyway, we were talking about ex’s. She told me she was friends with this guy for years. The guy was attracted to her and made several moves on her, and she rejected him each time. Why? Because, as this young girl said, he was short. He was shorter than her. She was not attracted for this reason. Everything else about him, she said, was good, but she could not get aroused for this reason. She didn’t say “he didn’t have game, he didn’t know how to dress well, he didn’t know how to order alcohol, he didn’t know how to be social, he didn’t know how to go out.”

If that's at all true you know this girl is extremely shallow or has a hardcore height fetish.

It's also possible he was absurdly short like 5'2 or something.

We always say on here not to take a woman's words seriously so there may be a hidden double meaning here, although I'm not sure what it is.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I just had a lunch date with a young girl in her later 20’s. She was very talkative, very easy to talk to, confident. She looked pretty good.

Anyway, we were talking about ex’s. She told me she was friends with this guy for years. The guy was attracted to her and made several moves on her, and she rejected him each time. Why? Because, as this young girl said, he was short. He was shorter than her. She was not attracted for this reason. Everything else about him, she said, was good, but she could not get aroused for this reason. She didn’t say “he didn’t have game, he didn’t know how to dress well, he didn’t know how to order alcohol, he didn’t know how to be social, he didn’t know how to go out.”

The guy is now married to a woman older than him, but still, this is what she told me. Not saying this to frustrate or shock or annoy or talk about genetics. I’m just reporting what the young girl told me without me bringing it up.

I set up another date with her during the date. She later told me she had a good time.

Thoughts?

In most cases women don't want to date a guy shorter than them but will happily date a guy the same height or taller.

I've dated a woman taller than me before and she didn't care at all. It all depends on the woman.

Most guys don't bother trying to date women they are shorter than to begin with, not sure you are bringing up anything groundbreaking here.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

That was her excuse at the time. That's what she rationalized in her head. Girls say this, and there's probably some truth to it, however, sounds like he was just stuck in the FZ and was pulling a Sisyphus.

 

[Bokanovsky]

I just had a lunch date with a young girl in her later 20’s. She was very talkative, very easy to talk to, confident. She looked pretty good.

Anyway, we were talking about ex’s. She told me she was friends with this guy for years. The guy was attracted to her and made several moves on her, and she rejected him each time. Why? Because, as this young girl said, he was short. He was shorter than her. She was not attracted for this reason. Everything else about him, she said, was good, but she could not get aroused for this reason. She didn’t say “he didn’t have game, he didn’t know how to dress well, he didn’t know how to order alcohol, he didn’t know how to be social, he didn’t know how to go out.”

The guy is now married to a woman older than him, but still, this is what she told me. Not saying this to frustrate or shock or annoy or talk about genetics. I’m just reporting what the young girl told me without me bringing it up.

I set up another date with her during the date. She later told me she had a good time.

Thoughts?

Some women won’t date short guys. Others will. I see short guys with good looking women all the time. Height is just one factor. It’s not everything.

 

[Tilex]

This story has a lot of smoke n' mirrors.
I spotted a huge flaw right at the beginning of the story that no one noticed.

That guy that's been her friend for years started in the wrong frame to begin with and just kept going with it for years apparently.
He started in the Friend Zone and became fossilized there.
After she placed him there, she lost all physical attraction towards him forever.

The height excuse overall is just an illusion.
Rejecting a man because of his height is just a dating market trend.
Women a few decades before this would reject a man if he had a mustache.
Some women would use facial hair or no facial hair as an excuse to reject a man.
Some women would reject a man if he lived in the suburbs, and others would reject a man if he lived in the city but didn't have a vehicle.
The point I'm trying to make is these are all "safe" excuses that are acceptable to society.
A woman could be completely racist deep down, but if she uses the height excuse, she could never be judged by anyone in society.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Think OP has a Height Fetish

It's nice tasty bait but i'm not gonna nibble ,

 

[Mike32ct]

For better or worse, I think she was being honest about the height thing.

Women can and do provide plenty of honest/legit intel. But it does take experience to filter out any BS that is mixed in.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Nothing new here. I think we all know here that most modern girls looking to date, will always say height is important.

To some it will be a deal breaker, to some simply a turn-off, and to some not ideal.

I honestly think that guy's issue was not just his height. Not saying it wasn't the main reason for her to reject him, but I genuinely believe that with all the right "tools" even the most strict girls will give a chance to a guy shorter than her.

Finally, I am talking about 1 or 2 inches shorter. Now if the guy is 5'3 and she is 5'9+. That is a steeper hill to climb.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

I spotted a huge flaw right at the beginning of the story that no one noticed.

That guy that's been her friend for years started in the wrong frame to begin with and just kept going with it for years apparently.
He started in the Friend Zone and became fossilized there.

From here on out, FZ stands for Friend Zone