Masculinity
Master Don Juan
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About a week ago, I went to my first wedding ever. I did not have much of an idea of what to expect, except for the part where the state representative declares the couple as wife and husband. Interestingly, it turned out to be very similar to what is portrayed in the media. It also made me wonder whether it is because of media that people behave as they do in real weddings--food for thought. In sum, there was a ceremony, food, bride's maids, groom's men, children dressed up carrying stuff, food, speeches and dancing.
How I handled myself: I made it a goal to assume familiarity with all people at the wedding (after all, we HAD to know someone in common to be there). I was starting conversations with random people, introduced myself to them, and then introduced those new people to people I've known for a long time and others I had just met at the wedding. In short, it made me seem socially outgoing and well-connected to people.
The pinnacle of the fun, however, came when people started dancing. I was wussying out at the beginning, but got my mind straight and began dancing, attracting attention, and having fun. Shortly afterward, I grabbed a few of the most attractive women at the event to dance with me. Needless to say, that move allowed social proof to kick in, giving other women a cue to my perceived status. One of these women was apparently watching a lot of my moves (from how I interacted with my family to the women with whom I affiliated). Later in the night, I noticed her carrying things. I began to tease her and ask her questions about herself. After a regular conversation, I told her I found her attractive, number closed and gave her a hug. A few days later, I called her to set up plans to go out. She was thrilled to have been approached and confessed that she had been checking me out, wondering if I would notice her. Well, I did! :yes: We went out a few days later and later that night, she was in my room doing things that I will leave to your imagination
Keep being money and cold approach as much as possible!
How I handled myself: I made it a goal to assume familiarity with all people at the wedding (after all, we HAD to know someone in common to be there). I was starting conversations with random people, introduced myself to them, and then introduced those new people to people I've known for a long time and others I had just met at the wedding. In short, it made me seem socially outgoing and well-connected to people.
The pinnacle of the fun, however, came when people started dancing. I was wussying out at the beginning, but got my mind straight and began dancing, attracting attention, and having fun. Shortly afterward, I grabbed a few of the most attractive women at the event to dance with me. Needless to say, that move allowed social proof to kick in, giving other women a cue to my perceived status. One of these women was apparently watching a lot of my moves (from how I interacted with my family to the women with whom I affiliated). Later in the night, I noticed her carrying things. I began to tease her and ask her questions about herself. After a regular conversation, I told her I found her attractive, number closed and gave her a hug. A few days later, I called her to set up plans to go out. She was thrilled to have been approached and confessed that she had been checking me out, wondering if I would notice her. Well, I did! :yes: We went out a few days later and later that night, she was in my room doing things that I will leave to your imagination
Keep being money and cold approach as much as possible!
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