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Field Report: Turned down a HB7+ that wanted to fvck

Ronin I

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Last Sunday I was hanging out with two buddies of mine and we run into these two girls that one of my friends knows (HBFaketits and HB7+) - so we hang out all night and come back to my house for afterhours (I just moved into a phatty new apartment :) ).

So I'm getting a good vibe from HB7+ and she winds up taking one of my long sleeved shirts with her (it got kind of cold later in the night so I gave it to her to keep her warm).

So the next day my buddy talks to HBFaketits and she proceeds to tell him that HB7+ was quite taken with me and that she just kept talking about me, etc, etc.

So on Wednesday HBFaketits calls up my buddy and wants me and him to hang out with her and HB7+ - I decline as I have to work early the next morning.

So last night I'm out at a local club and run into a bunch of girls that I know and am chatting it up with them when HB7+ and HBFaketits walk in - I say hello, give them both the gratuitous kiss on the cheek and then go back to talking to the girls that I was orignally talking to. (Side note: it happens to be HB7+'s birthday).

So after I'm done talking with the girls HB7+ comes up to me and we chat. I wish her a happy birthday (24) and she goes on to tell me that she's been meaning to stop by and drop off my shirt - I tell her no big deal and that she should take my number so she can call to make sure I'm home first - she says great, that I should have her number? and then says that she doesn't think I will call her?? So I tell her that I have to go to another bar to meet my other friend and that I might be back but if I don't see her to have a good time and enjoy her birthday.

So as me and my buddy are walking to the next bar he proceeds to tell me that HB7+ is really into me and that she told him that she wants me to give her a "birthday present".

So at this point things are all good. I was pretty much planning on going back to that bar before last call and closing the deal.
Then things got a little wacky.

I meet up with my other buddies at bar #2 - we're all hanging out having a good time, throwing back a few drinks when not even 30 min later, guess who shows up - HB7+ and her friends. She walks right up to my buddy and says "Tell Ronin, I've given him two chances already and he's blown both of them. Tell him that I'm going downstairs to dance and that when I come upstairs he'd better be man enough to do something.." :confused:

I'm sitting two seats away from my buddy the whole time and the whole time he's yelling at her, "He's right there. You tell him!!"

Anyway, he tells me what she says and at this point I was completely turned off. First of all I was turned off by the fact that she followed me to the next bar and secondly I was turned off by the fact that she tried to bait me into action by challenging my manhood. I guess I was supposed to take the bait and "prove" to her that I am a man by fvcking her brains out - whatever. Add to that that while we were at the first bar when she first came up to talk to me she started grilling me about who the girl was that I was talking to (acting all jealous - like it was any of her business) - anyway, this girl clearly identified herself as being a few cards short of a full deck - so I wound up leaving that bar and going back to bar#1 to finish my night off.

In some ways I feel kind of stupid turning down such easy pvssy like I did but I'm at the point where I refuse to put up with stupid little girl antics just to get some ass.
 

white_hype

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dont worry man, i know your pain

i hate it when girls just throw themselves at you, i need a challenege at this point in my DJing career

if theyre just all over your nuts it makes them not fun and as attractive, i need a chase

i have a perfect example of this:

last friday i was talking to all these HB7.5+'s at a party, whom i all just met that night, when a girl i knew from a few months ago who is a hb7 came and was drunk and was hugging me for no reason (like hugs ever 2 mins) and asking me why i had never called her over the summer (we only hung out once after i met her at a party and i decided to next her cause i met other girls who were better) and that totally put me off, it was like i already conquered her or something

however if they are really hot i have no problem doing something with them

i think the hb7 might not have been that hot to start with then once she started acting all slutty towards you she just dropped of the cliff
 

icepick

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Originally posted by Ronin I
"Tell Ronin, I've given him two chances already and he's blown both of them. Tell him that I'm going downstairs to dance and that when I come upstairs he'd better be man enough to do something.."
Ah ha ha ha ha!

I love how some chicks take rejection!

It is ALWAYS the man's fault! They never consider that we can enjoy OTHER women also. :rolleyes:

Next time a chick blows me off, I think I will use that line of reasoning:

"I gave her a chance...buuuut she blew it. Looks like she is just not feminine enough for me!"

LOL! :D
 

becker

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Originally posted by white_hype


however if they are really hot i have no problem doing something with them

I think that this one sentence is most relevant here. In my most recent thread below, I was talking about this very thing.

To me, it's not about a challenge, it's about finding a HB9+. As those of you who know me, I tend to not settle for anything less than totally hot girls (like the one in the pic in the link I posted in my thread "my girl"). I guess this is part personal preference, but it's also from gtting tired of putting up with crap just like this thread.

Hats off to you RoninI, for turning down that girl. Most people here are so AFC or desperate that they would have immense trouble turning down some HB7+ p*ssy. I wan't deny that it's awfully difficult to do it, but you can train yourself to do it. It takes some serious conditioning, like Pavlov's dog, for you psych majors. Some don't care, and would hit it no matter what type of HB it is, just as long as it has a vagina.

Try to discipline yourself, that's the moral of this story. Have some respect for yourself and be a little more confident that if you pass this up, more will come your way, and hopefully you'll get some from a girl that you REALLY want.
 

Julian

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**** ronin, you did the right thing, therefore you deserve some pimp status.
 

myfriendblu

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Ah man I love this stuff!!! Nice ronin, for knocking that bitc h off her pedastal. Yep, its obvious she was fallowing you around. And by playing it cool like a DJ and talking to other girls as well, you drove her IL up sky high to 10. Played it nicely. now here is what you do - within the next two weeks, call her up out of the blue and make plans. A few drinks a bar or two, nothing expensive, and I bet you can get right in them panties. She is probably a bit vulnerable now to and her self-esteem is shot down as well. Good. :) . Tap that a few times and discard. :D
 
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