Genghis Juan
Senior Don Juan
Over the past few months I have mentioned on this board that I occassionaly see a HB8.5 to 9 who is origanlly from KY and is unsure if she is going to stay in Boston.
Had a date with her on Sat night. Our interaction can be described as a rubber band; when one pushes, the other pulls away and the process repeats itself.
Just a couple of days ago she got accepted into a B school here and now feels she has more of a 'reason' to stay in my town.
I want to keep this short and simple so I will go over the rubber band interaction quickly:
-She told me to call her after I return from my vacation, I call, she doesn't return. A few weeks later I call again, feel a cold response, cut it short, tell her not to waste my time if she doesn't want to go out, she says she wants to go out next week, I just tell her to call me then.
-She calls, I reject; too busy. Over Memorial Day weekend, she calls me TWICE, now offering the entire weekend to me. So we go out Sat. night and she lets me in her apt for the first time.
-(She loves to go to dinner to 'talk'.) She wonders why I am even putting up with her shyte, she says Im handsome, funny and smart and I could easily find someone else. I tell her some BS about how I think she is worth it.
-She tells me she has something in her past she doesn't want to tell me about yet that makes it difficult to trust people. Thats why she freaks out and doesn't move forward, all her previous R-ships moved slow at first. She jokingly says that if I wasn't a good guy, a jerk instead, she probably wouldn't push me away.
-I fire back. I say, I am a good guy, and no matter what I am not going to treat her like a jerk, but I AM NOT GOING TO BE YOUR DOORMAT. (She looks like she's going to cry). I told her when I didn't hear from her for a couple of months I went out with another girl a few times. She jokingly says you cheated on me! She quickly interrogates me about the other girl (first question was the age, the other girl is 22 hehe, KY girl is 26 going on 27! hehe).
-I tell her she doesn't want an R-ship, then suddenly she changes and says she does though and we should see eachother more often. I give her a cynical look, and she nervously smiles and says "you don't believe me huh?" I say nothing and change the subject.
-Later on at her apt, she tells me what a wonderful convo we had. (Im actually kind of worn down from the jostling of the convo). She tells me to call her Sunday. I give her the cynical look again, again she says "you think Im full of ****...". So she says we should go out again, and I sarcastically say, "what the week after next?" and she says no, this week.
-Just as I get ready to leave, she kisses me and then kisses me on the check and initiates a little kino on me.
-Sunday morning, while I was sleeping she calls to be sure I got home alright and to give her a call when I get a chance. I left a message later that night.
Let me know your critique at my attempts to play this
I thought it when reasonably well. We'll see how this unfolds.
Had a date with her on Sat night. Our interaction can be described as a rubber band; when one pushes, the other pulls away and the process repeats itself.
Just a couple of days ago she got accepted into a B school here and now feels she has more of a 'reason' to stay in my town.
I want to keep this short and simple so I will go over the rubber band interaction quickly:
-She told me to call her after I return from my vacation, I call, she doesn't return. A few weeks later I call again, feel a cold response, cut it short, tell her not to waste my time if she doesn't want to go out, she says she wants to go out next week, I just tell her to call me then.
-She calls, I reject; too busy. Over Memorial Day weekend, she calls me TWICE, now offering the entire weekend to me. So we go out Sat. night and she lets me in her apt for the first time.
-(She loves to go to dinner to 'talk'.) She wonders why I am even putting up with her shyte, she says Im handsome, funny and smart and I could easily find someone else. I tell her some BS about how I think she is worth it.
-She tells me she has something in her past she doesn't want to tell me about yet that makes it difficult to trust people. Thats why she freaks out and doesn't move forward, all her previous R-ships moved slow at first. She jokingly says that if I wasn't a good guy, a jerk instead, she probably wouldn't push me away.
-I fire back. I say, I am a good guy, and no matter what I am not going to treat her like a jerk, but I AM NOT GOING TO BE YOUR DOORMAT. (She looks like she's going to cry). I told her when I didn't hear from her for a couple of months I went out with another girl a few times. She jokingly says you cheated on me! She quickly interrogates me about the other girl (first question was the age, the other girl is 22 hehe, KY girl is 26 going on 27! hehe).
-I tell her she doesn't want an R-ship, then suddenly she changes and says she does though and we should see eachother more often. I give her a cynical look, and she nervously smiles and says "you don't believe me huh?" I say nothing and change the subject.
-Later on at her apt, she tells me what a wonderful convo we had. (Im actually kind of worn down from the jostling of the convo). She tells me to call her Sunday. I give her the cynical look again, again she says "you think Im full of ****...". So she says we should go out again, and I sarcastically say, "what the week after next?" and she says no, this week.
-Just as I get ready to leave, she kisses me and then kisses me on the check and initiates a little kino on me.
-Sunday morning, while I was sleeping she calls to be sure I got home alright and to give her a call when I get a chance. I left a message later that night.
Let me know your critique at my attempts to play this
I thought it when reasonably well. We'll see how this unfolds.
