Field Report: Sarged a two set in the middle of my date, Part II

Marlimus

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(Read part 1 first)
I whispered to my guy friend, D: "Yeah, man, still got it." And showed her the contact info. My date, lets call her sally, demands to know what we are talking about. I tell her its guy stuff. She claims that she can relate to guy stuff. I ask her
"Are you going to sulk now?"
"Yes."
"Good. Make yourself useful for once and hold this umbrella while I put on my jacket." We walk back to the theatre. She's not walking with me again, deliberately so.
We get to the theater, and I spend most of my time talking to my guy friend, lets call him Don, while basically ignoring Sally. Don, coincidentally, is reading "The Game" for the first time. I wanted to recruit him as a wing last year, but I thought he wouldn't be into this stuff. I was pleasantly surprised when he told me that he borrowed 'the game' from a friend of mine who told him I was a PUA.

Sally disappears, reappears then tells me that she has an emergency at work and that they are sending a car for her after the show. I do not doubt her for a second. I act indifferent, still. We sit down, and she spends what must have been like half an hour talking to some guy she went to middle school with while I sat between them. It was borderline rude, and I felt uncomfortable, but decided to simply act unfazed, and read the playbook, although she seemed to be somewhat flirty with the guy.
The show starts, and 3/4 way through I put my arm around her but she gives no response. She doesn't move in closer or anything. When the scene ended I withdrew my hand to clap, and did not replace it.
Overall, her conduct does not please me, and I would no longer be able to isolate her before the evening was over, robbing me of my kiss close. Also, I felt uncomfortable giving her IOI's during a ****-test push-pull scenario. I regret putting my arm around her.

I was walking up to the exit after the show, when she disappeared. I walked out, wondering if she would really leave without saying bye. She shows up and thanks me warmly for bringing her, and her eyes linger on mine for a few second. I contemplated a public close, but part of me was disappointed with her behavior, and did not want to give her that satisfaction. I kept a tight lipped smile while she talked, with a slightly cold look.

I had my hands resting on my umbrella in front of me, like a pimp's cane, and when she leaned in to hug me I simply bowed slightly, I did not return the embrace, and turned my back to her quickly. I went with the others (it was a big group that went) and we walked over to eat at a Brazilian restaurant, but the 'date' part is over...

My afterthoughts: I must disqualify her again to let her regain my approval. This was not supposed to be the time for **** tests and jealousy plotlines. When next I hear from her, when she asks how it was, i will tell her that the musical was okay but I expected her to be more fun to be around. After that, silence. I have fresh numbers and other prospects lined up. I like how I sarged the two set, but I didn't like how the main date ended, or the fact that she's trying to play these games. In the beginning she was the one who issued the invitations, and she qualified herself to me before I even knew what A3 was. Here we go again.
 

Distant Light

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At times when it seems like your in C1 you may be in A3 actually. I girl shouldn't be acting like that when you get into C1 not at all. I liked how you gamed that other 2 set. That arms around her was another bad move like you said, don't give IOIs to bad behavior I learnt that the hard way.

Nice post though
 

izza

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In my experience, freezeouts do not work. Women do it to each other all the time, and women seem to view it as womanly behavior. Instead, I recommend calling her out, especially with humor (the no. 1 weapon we have against women). That being said, a good silence every once in a while shows that you're not begging for her attention.

Izza
 
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