Field Report No. 02 - "Drink date with FWB, tongue kiss, no fvck, potential Epic Fail"

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Like I said, two days ago I had a drink date with this girl who agreed to be FWB with me on Tinder prior to our 1st date.

When we set up the date a few days before that, she said the date is only drinking and getting to know each other, nothing further in a jokingly way, to which I replied I'm cool with that too, don't think I'm gonna let you do anything to me too before I know who you are in a jokingly way also. After that, no texting until the date.

Fast forward to the date. We were chilling, exchanging saliva with a lot of tongue kisses. At some point she said my fingers are hard, at which I said I have something much harder, and continued to kiss her. When the date was nearly its end, I said let's go somewhere so I can fvck you until your pvssy dried up, and she said that's what I'm hoping too, but I'm sorry but not today. I did not push her further because I didn't want to look needy and desperate.

So we said goodbye.

Today, I texted her asking how she was doing, and so far no fvcking replies.

I will not double text, nor I will send anymore messages. Here are my takeaways from this experience:

1. I SHOULD HAVE OFFERED to brought her home for "Netflix and Chill" INSTEAD OF the line "let's go somewhere so I can fvck you until your pvssy dried up". Because this might have activated her Anti-Slut Defense System, albeit subconsciously.

2. I made the fatal mistake of texting her FIRST after the date, instead of letting her initiate all contact like I used to do with many other less-hot plates. I made this mistake in a moment of being over-horny for a pvssy. The lesson learned here is I should have masturbated first lol.

3. Whenever we go to the date, ALWAYS ASSUME attraction from her, and ALWAYS TAKE THE CHANCE TO FVCK her, because who knows, your 1st date might be very likely to be your last date. At this time and age where chicks' values are over-inflating like crazy, our "Window of Opportunity" in fvcking them is very small. This, combined with the flaky nature of women, is the reason why you should do everything you can to fvck her on the 1st date.


So, whether I'm going to be able to fvck this chick or not, I have learned some valuable lessons to enrich my arsenal for the neverending journey of pvssy slaying.

Your valuable inputs are welcome, brothers. I would love to hear and learn from you. Thank you!
 
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Like our fellow SS brother @BackInTheGame78 has wisely said:

No matter how well you think the date went or how much interest she seems to have in you there is NO GUARANTEE of you ever seeing her again after any date. Act accordingly.
 

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Like our fellow SS brother @BackInTheGame78 has wisely said:
Man, some of what I would classify as my best dates and highest interest women are the ones I never saw again. Who knows what is going thru their mind...

Alternatively some women I thought had no real interest in me turned out to be crazy about me(in a good way) and turned into LTRs...

The closest thing you can get to a guarantee og seeing her again is if she enthusiastically texts you after the date letting you know how much fun she had ans how much she wants to see you again.
 

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Man, some of what I would classify as my best dates and highest interest women are the ones I never saw again. Who knows what is going thru their mind...

Alternatively some women I thought had no real interest in me turned out to be crazy about me(in a good way) and turned into LTRs...
"Best dates" mean actually nothing to me if I can't physically penetrate them because that's always my end-game.

Women are flaky because at any give time their options are always abundant. It's the reality. And this reality is getting worse thanks to legions of simps all over the world who are always ready to be at women's disposal.
 

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I think No.1 was THE mistake.
Thanks for your input bro. I took the chance to whisper that line to her ears (before tongue kissed her) because I thought that's what she'd accept when she agreed to be FWB with me during our Tinder chat.

It activated her Anti-Slut because I was basically telling her to "Be my wh0re tonight" hahahahaha bad move!
 

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Like I said, two days ago I had a drink date with this girl who agreed to be FWB with me on Tinder prior to our 1st date.

When set set up the date a few days before that, she said the date is only drinking and getting to know each other, nothing further in a jokingly way, to which I replied I'm cool with that too, don't think I'm gonna let you do anything to me before I know who you are in a jokingly way also. After that, no texting until the date.

Fast forward to the date. We were chilling, exchanging saliva with a lot of tongue kisses. At some point she said my fingers are hard, at which I said I have something much harder, and continued to kiss her. When the date was nearly its end, I said let's go somewhere so I can fvck you until your pvssy dried up, and she said that's what I'm hoping too, but I'm sorry but not today. I did not push her further because I didn't want to look needy and desperate.

So we said goodbye.

Today, I texted her asking how she was doing, and so far no fvcking replies.

I will not double text, nor I will send anymore messages. Here are my takeaways from this experience:

1. I SHOULD HAVE OFFERED to brought her home for "Netflix and Chill" INSTEAD OF the line "let's go somewhere so I can fvck you until your pvssy dried up". Because this might have activated her Anti-Slut Defense System, albeit subconsciously.

2. I made the fatal mistake of texting her FIRST after the date, instead of letting her initiate all contact like I used to do with many other less-hot plates. I made this mistake in a moment of being over-horny for a pvssy. The lesson learned here is I should have masturbated first lol.

3. Whenever we go to the date, ALWAYS ASSUME attraction from her, and ALWAYS TAKE THE CHANCE TO FVCK her, because who knows, your 1st date might be very likely to be your last date. At this time and age where chicks' values are over-inflating like crazy, our "Window of Opportunity" in fvcking them is very small. This, combined with the flaky nature of women, is the reason why you should do everything you can to fvck her on the 1st date.


So, whether I'm going to be able to fvck this chick or not, I have learned some valuable lessons to enrich my arsenal for the neverending journey of pvssy slaying.

Your valuable inputs are welcome, brothers. I would love to hear and learn from you. Thank you!
Not necessarily. Her interest level wasn't high enough. There have been 1st dates that I've been on where my hand was up her dress and for whatever the reason, I never saw her again. It's okay, don't take it personal and move on. You can always go for the hail mary shot and text her in a few days, Hey how are you doing and see what she replies with. Then, cut to the chase, I'd love to see you again, how's Friday at my place? If she says yes, great, ask her to bring over her favorite bottle of wine as you're going to cook a meal together.
 

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Not necessarily. Her interest level wasn't high enough. There have been 1st dates that I've been on where my hand was up her dress and for whatever the reason, I never saw her again. It's okay, don't take it personal and move on. You can always go for the hail mary shot and text her in a few days, Hey how are you doing and see what she replies with. Then, cut to the chase, I'd love to see you again, how's Friday at my place? If she says yes, great, ask her to bring over her favorite bottle of wine as you're going to cook a meal together.
Thank you brother, I'll wait another week before texting her again.
 

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It's alright we all make mistakes. Girls might want to be treated as sl*t in bed, dirty talk and everything but outside the bedroom, dirty talk is a faux pas I think. As you said, she probably felt like a wh0re, vulgarity is a big no.
So anything dirty and animalistic should only be limited inside the bedroom if this girl is someone you have not yet fvcked. I will remember this line forever. Thank you brother.
 

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Oh, I just came up with another takeaway:

This chick is not yet my "FWB" until I have at least fvcked her once, so making her feel like a wh0re in our 1st date was really a FATAL MISTAKE.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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1. I SHOULD HAVE OFFERED to brought her home for "Netflix and Chill" INSTEAD OF the line "let's go somewhere so I can fvck you until your pvssy dried up". Because this might have activated her Anti-Slut Defense System, albeit subconsciously.
^This!

Dont talk about sex on first date.

You did well in getting her to kiss you. Next move should have been to get her to your place for "netflix", "cooking" or whatever and from there escalate again. If she declined, no harm done, 2nd date would have been fun-time.

I never escalate verbally, only physically.

Even with the girls i did dirty talk online before the first date and i knew they were due to fvck, i only talked about sex on the date if they brought it up.
 

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It depends on where they placed you in their dual mating strategy imo. Out of your control. I noticed that as I get older and live in a very exclusive and expensive rat race city, being aggressive is worse bc they labeled me as provider and im acting aggressive as is my nature. When I was younger and living in more middle/blue collar areas, I was more sexualized and any hesitation to escalate was incongruent with what they labeled me as.
I don't think about it much anymore...have been pretty successful the last few months doing things the way I have been so I usually just keep doing them until that starts to change...

Probably has helped I have begun working out again hard and my physique has definitely improved(although I always have had a good build)
 
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