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Field Report At a Glance (FRAG): Met a girl in class, invited her to go out a week later. We went to karaoke and ended with a lay.
To get a sense of the storyline, take a look at this original thread: Thread
Now that you have read it: I followed up with HB with a phone call (big advocate of calling) Ironically, she did not answer, so I sent her a text.
R: Hey, Amy! I guess you are phone shy? I have a prediction from reading your palm the other day. Call/text me.
HB: Haha, what's the prediction?
R: It says if we're both free Fri or Sat night we'll hangout & have a fun night at karaoke!
HB: Hahaha I cant I'm going home this weekend andmoving in my new apartment. ;]
R: I'm just getting to know you & you're already want to take me home? Bad Amy! Haha, when are you back?
HB: Lol come back on Saturday with my mom and moving into my new place
R: Cool! I'm busy during the week but I could do Tues at 8:30PM. Work for you?
HB: Oh maybe probably does. I'm cramming for finals meh
R: Cool, Tuesday it is. I will see you at (place) at 8:30. By the way, I'm forming a study group for the final. You're welcome to join
HB: Oh I'd love that!!! When are you guys meeting?
R: (To punish her over interest in the study group instead of my invite, I replied four hours later) I haven't set it it up yet
HB: Ah, k. I just left my group for XYZ class (we're both in the same class)
R: Good, how's your project?
HB: Good, group was a pain in the ass, but now we are good. It was a bit of a cat fight at first lol
R: Haha, that's usually how it goes with groups. Enjoy your time at home! See you Tuesday night.
HB: (keeps texting after I said bye) Omg I did bad on my paper
R: You should check out the Writing Center
HB: Haha, is this Emma?
R: This is Robyn! How many people do ya pick up? Lol
HB: Pick up? Lol huh? I'm not into women. My phone got stolen last weekend since then I lost all my contacts
R: Are you sure? Lol, there's nothing wrong with liking women. This is a VIP #, store it with care (credit: Simple Pick up)
HB: I'm so confused. Robyn who and from what class?
R: You are so ruining your chances with me, haha. I read your palm and predicted you'd meet a handsome guy in (class), whose # you got after class
HB: Haha, how old are you?
R: Older than you!
HB: I doubt it. I've been hit on by both sexes but not into women. I love men.
R: I noticed a fun woman with an interesting personality, not her age
HB: Haha
R: I've had men and women try to pick me up too. I love women, though. This may have potential
HB: Hahaha, what are you planning to do after you graduate (university)?
R: Save those questions for Tuesday night!
HB: Haha, I'm not singing but I'll watch
(We did not text for four days until Tuesday comes by):
R: (30 mins after our meeting time (9PM)) Just got out of work! I'm driving to karaoke, let's meet there at 9:30PM (gives address)
HB: Haha, I'm at home in my pjs
R: Lol, you're clever, but you won't get me to come over
HB: Haha, I'm not insinuating that
R: Yeah right. And Santa is real? Lol, don't be a party pooper. Need a ride? It'll be a lot of fun!
HB: Haha, ok ok let me get dressed
R: That's the Amy I know
HB: Lol what does that mean?
HB: K I'm ready
HB: Just text me when you're here and I'll come down
R: I'm here
HB: K I'll come outside
At this point, I somehow locked the car with the key in the ignition. The girl came out looking really nice. I told her the truth about the key locked in and kept my cool.
R: Hey (kiss on the cheek)
HB: So I can't find my ID and I need to look for it
R: We have a problem here too; I accidentally left the key inside the car
HB: Oh no!!!
R: Yeah, so I'm getting a cab to go home (1 mile away) and get my spare key. I'll be back.
HB: Ok!
(I came back 20 minutes later; she had her ID and I had my keys)
We arrived at karaoke. The bouncers know me and did not ask for neither of our ID's Her expression was priceless. The place was mildly crowded, so I signed us up to sing. She refused to sing and I kept insisting playfully. A few friends of mine arrived and saluted me, giving me social proof. The place was filled with blonde and brunette sorority HB8's and HB9's. I caught a total of 5 girls look at me directly, smiling at me as I'm sitting next to my HB7 (who looked like an HB8 after getting dolled up)--social proof is amazing.
HB: How often do you come here? (as in, "man, you know a lot of people")
R: Once in a while (truth)
My song came up; I sang No Diggity by Blackstreet: Video
HB: Wow, that was good!
R: Thanks
HB: Have you taken singing classes?
R: Maybe
We had a conversation for about an hour on various topics. I was kinoing throughout the night, getting closer and closer to her. The place was loud; she was leaning in to talk to me. We were inches apart from each others face, so this implied her comfort level with me. As she was talking, I softly touched her bottom lip. She began smiling nervously.
R: You have...
HB: What? Did I put on too much lip gloss?
R: No comment
HB: (hits me)
R: Your lips feel soft
HB: Smiling nervously again
R: This is definitely the third softest set of lips I've touched
HB: Haha, what?! Who is number 2 and number 1?
R: That's classified information
At this point, I brought her closer to me and kissed her. She was nervous and was kind of difficult at the beginning. She followed through after a few seconds after--good kisser. We kissed for a two minutes and then I stopped and gently pushed her away.
R: Alright, that's all you get
HB: Haha
R: You were kinda bad at the beginning
HB: Haha, what?
R: Yup, come here (we kissed again; this time she really kisses me passionately).
R: Okay, I am officially upgrading you to number two in the scale of softest lips
HB: Haha, you are...terrible
R: (poked her boob)
HB: (makes a face)
R: Hmmm...you are a...
HB: Are you trying to guess my bra size?
R: (I stepped up to the place and grabbed one of the boobs--her jaw dropped)
R: You're a 34B
HB: Haha, what are you doing? I'm actually a 34D
R: No way! Those are B's (cool fact: 85% of women wear the wrong bra size)
R: (started a conversation about bras that became sexual)
My turn to sing (again) came up. I sang Stand by Me by Marvin Gaye Video
The crowd was going crazy, as the place was then packed with people. Two unknown HBs jump on the stage with me and literally start feeling me up. I see my HB7 looking away as the other HBs put their arms around me. The whole karaoke place was singing along with me! More unknown sorority HBs are coming around my and my HBs table for no reason just to talk.
HB: What's with all these girls coming up here?
R: Maybe they think we're attractive
HB: Hahaha...
R: Let's get out of here (lead her out holding hands and carry her to my car)
HB: Wooo! Haha...
R: Look at what I found on the street, haha (HB is cracking up and we kiss again)
After that, we went to an area of my university with grass and benches. We kissed and touched each other for about half an hour and then I took her home with me. Let's just say we were up until 3:30Am doing things, haha. She did whatever I wanted in bed.
Today, she texted me:
HB: Omg I'm so tired today it's all your fault!
R: Lol, my fault? How so?
HB: Because you didn't drive me home, bad boy. Then you kept asking me if I wanted more (haha, she wanted more and more)
R: Bad boys must be pretty sexy then ;] Oh shush, you know you liked it, haha.
HB: Lol
R: Want to know a secret?
HB: Lol, what?
R: You're fun to hangout with and your lips are incredibly soft
HB: Lol
HB: You were bigger than I thought you'd be lol
R: I'm 6ft tall everyday
HB: Lol, I'm not talking about your height silly
R: Lol, I'm curious about what made you think I'd be smaller
HB: You are bigger than average
HB: I don't want to feed your ego
(At this point, I am telling my fellow DJ friend about the lay. However, I accidentally texted a picture of the conversation (with this HB7) to the actual HB7 instead of my friend, hahaha. My friend was cracking up "hahaha, this is going to be a good story to tell your kids.")
R: Ignore that picture, my joke didn't make sense lol
R: My ego is healthy
HB: Was that meant for someone else? Haha
1. Working out makes an enormous difference in one's self esteem and the amount of female attention one gets. I have been running at the stadium and lifting weights for the last three weeks and it has paid off for sure.
2. Look your best wherever you go; you do not know who may be there
3. Social proof is your friend; do not burn bridges with girls who reject you. Instead, display them as "trophies" when you go out, which, in turn, will get you even more girls.
4. Do not use too many "lol's" in your texting
All comments are welcome, guys.
To get a sense of the storyline, take a look at this original thread: Thread
Now that you have read it: I followed up with HB with a phone call (big advocate of calling) Ironically, she did not answer, so I sent her a text.
Text conversation
R: Hey, Amy! I guess you are phone shy? I have a prediction from reading your palm the other day. Call/text me.
HB: Haha, what's the prediction?
R: It says if we're both free Fri or Sat night we'll hangout & have a fun night at karaoke!
HB: Hahaha I cant I'm going home this weekend andmoving in my new apartment. ;]
R: I'm just getting to know you & you're already want to take me home? Bad Amy! Haha, when are you back?
HB: Lol come back on Saturday with my mom and moving into my new place
R: Cool! I'm busy during the week but I could do Tues at 8:30PM. Work for you?
HB: Oh maybe probably does. I'm cramming for finals meh
R: Cool, Tuesday it is. I will see you at (place) at 8:30. By the way, I'm forming a study group for the final. You're welcome to join
HB: Oh I'd love that!!! When are you guys meeting?
R: (To punish her over interest in the study group instead of my invite, I replied four hours later) I haven't set it it up yet
HB: Ah, k. I just left my group for XYZ class (we're both in the same class)
R: Good, how's your project?
HB: Good, group was a pain in the ass, but now we are good. It was a bit of a cat fight at first lol
R: Haha, that's usually how it goes with groups. Enjoy your time at home! See you Tuesday night.
HB: (keeps texting after I said bye) Omg I did bad on my paper
R: You should check out the Writing Center
HB: Haha, is this Emma?
R: This is Robyn! How many people do ya pick up? Lol
HB: Pick up? Lol huh? I'm not into women. My phone got stolen last weekend since then I lost all my contacts
R: Are you sure? Lol, there's nothing wrong with liking women. This is a VIP #, store it with care (credit: Simple Pick up)
HB: I'm so confused. Robyn who and from what class?
R: You are so ruining your chances with me, haha. I read your palm and predicted you'd meet a handsome guy in (class), whose # you got after class
HB: Haha, how old are you?
R: Older than you!
HB: I doubt it. I've been hit on by both sexes but not into women. I love men.
R: I noticed a fun woman with an interesting personality, not her age
HB: Haha
R: I've had men and women try to pick me up too. I love women, though. This may have potential
HB: Hahaha, what are you planning to do after you graduate (university)?
R: Save those questions for Tuesday night!
HB: Haha, I'm not singing but I'll watch
(We did not text for four days until Tuesday comes by):
R: (30 mins after our meeting time (9PM)) Just got out of work! I'm driving to karaoke, let's meet there at 9:30PM (gives address)
HB: Haha, I'm at home in my pjs
R: Lol, you're clever, but you won't get me to come over
HB: Haha, I'm not insinuating that
R: Yeah right. And Santa is real? Lol, don't be a party pooper. Need a ride? It'll be a lot of fun!
HB: Haha, ok ok let me get dressed
R: That's the Amy I know
HB: Lol what does that mean?
HB: K I'm ready
HB: Just text me when you're here and I'll come down
R: I'm here
HB: K I'll come outside
At this point, I somehow locked the car with the key in the ignition. The girl came out looking really nice. I told her the truth about the key locked in and kept my cool.
Face to face conversation
HB: Hiii
R: Hey (kiss on the cheek)
HB: So I can't find my ID and I need to look for it
R: We have a problem here too; I accidentally left the key inside the car
HB: Oh no!!!
R: Yeah, so I'm getting a cab to go home (1 mile away) and get my spare key. I'll be back.
HB: Ok!
(I came back 20 minutes later; she had her ID and I had my keys)
We arrived at karaoke. The bouncers know me and did not ask for neither of our ID's
Her expression was priceless. The place was mildly crowded, so I signed us up to sing. She refused to sing and I kept insisting playfully. A few friends of mine arrived and saluted me, giving me social proof. The place was filled with blonde and brunette sorority HB8's and HB9's. I caught a total of 5 girls look at me directly, smiling at me as I'm sitting next to my HB7 (who looked like an HB8 after getting dolled up)--social proof is amazing. HB: How often do you come here? (as in, "man, you know a lot of people")
R: Once in a while (truth)
My song came up; I sang No Diggity by Blackstreet: Video
HB: Wow, that was good!
R: Thanks
HB: Have you taken singing classes?
R: Maybe
We had a conversation for about an hour on various topics. I was kinoing throughout the night, getting closer and closer to her. The place was loud; she was leaning in to talk to me. We were inches apart from each others face, so this implied her comfort level with me. As she was talking, I softly touched her bottom lip. She began smiling nervously.
R: You have...
HB: What? Did I put on too much lip gloss?
R: No comment
HB: (hits me)
R: Your lips feel soft
HB: Smiling nervously again
R: This is definitely the third softest set of lips I've touched
HB: Haha, what?! Who is number 2 and number 1?
R: That's classified information
At this point, I brought her closer to me and kissed her. She was nervous and was kind of difficult at the beginning. She followed through after a few seconds after--good kisser. We kissed for a two minutes and then I stopped and gently pushed her away.
R: Alright, that's all you get
HB: Haha
R: You were kinda bad at the beginning
HB: Haha, what?
R: Yup, come here (we kissed again; this time she really kisses me passionately).
R: Okay, I am officially upgrading you to number two in the scale of softest lips
HB: Haha, you are...terrible
R: (poked her boob)
HB: (makes a face)
R: Hmmm...you are a...
HB: Are you trying to guess my bra size?
R: (I stepped up to the place and grabbed one of the boobs--her jaw dropped)
R: You're a 34B
HB: Haha, what are you doing? I'm actually a 34D
R: No way! Those are B's (cool fact: 85% of women wear the wrong bra size)
R: (started a conversation about bras that became sexual)
My turn to sing (again) came up. I sang Stand by Me by Marvin Gaye Video
The crowd was going crazy, as the place was then packed with people. Two unknown HBs jump on the stage with me and literally start feeling me up. I see my HB7 looking away as the other HBs put their arms around me. The whole karaoke place was singing along with me! More unknown sorority HBs are coming around my and my HBs table for no reason just to talk.
HB: What's with all these girls coming up here?
R: Maybe they think we're attractive
HB: Hahaha...
R: Let's get out of here (lead her out holding hands and carry her to my car)
HB: Wooo! Haha...
R: Look at what I found on the street, haha (HB is cracking up and we kiss again)
After that, we went to an area of my university with grass and benches. We kissed and touched each other for about half an hour and then I took her home with me. Let's just say we were up until 3:30Am doing things, haha. She did whatever I wanted in bed.
-----------------------------------------
Today, she texted me:
HB: Omg I'm so tired today it's all your fault!
R: Lol, my fault? How so?
HB: Because you didn't drive me home, bad boy. Then you kept asking me if I wanted more (haha, she wanted more and more)
R: Bad boys must be pretty sexy then ;] Oh shush, you know you liked it, haha.
HB: Lol
R: Want to know a secret?
HB: Lol, what?
R: You're fun to hangout with and your lips are incredibly soft
HB: Lol
HB: You were bigger than I thought you'd be lol
R: I'm 6ft tall everyday
HB: Lol, I'm not talking about your height silly
R: Lol, I'm curious about what made you think I'd be smaller
HB: You are bigger than average
HB: I don't want to feed your ego
(At this point, I am telling my fellow DJ friend about the lay. However, I accidentally texted a picture of the conversation (with this HB7) to the actual HB7 instead of my friend, hahaha. My friend was cracking up "hahaha, this is going to be a good story to tell your kids.")
R: Ignore that picture, my joke didn't make sense lol
R: My ego is healthy
HB: Was that meant for someone else? Haha
Things learned:
1. Working out makes an enormous difference in one's self esteem and the amount of female attention one gets. I have been running at the stadium and lifting weights for the last three weeks and it has paid off for sure.
2. Look your best wherever you go; you do not know who may be there
3. Social proof is your friend; do not burn bridges with girls who reject you. Instead, display them as "trophies" when you go out, which, in turn, will get you even more girls.
4. Do not use too many "lol's" in your texting
All comments are welcome, guys.
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