Field Report: My Second One-Night Stand (transcripts attached).

[Masculinity]

Field Report at a Glance(FR@G):
Date: Friday, May 24 & 25, 2012. Setting: Karaoke bar in southern California. In my last field report, I mentioned a woman who friend-zoned me initially. The other day I saw her and approached. And later that night, she was linking arms with me and started making out with me suddenly. She went home alone that night & I banged her the night and morning after.

Key: Hb7: my target; girl 1: girl from previous thread; girl 2: girl from previous thread.


Full Report:
At about 11pm, my wing and I arrive at karaoke. I see a girl who usually sings there. Once I spot her, I come over and approach. I knew it was time to make a change and that I was either going to crash and burn or succeed. This is how it went down:

Rob: Hey, you!
Hb7: Hii
Rob: Come here. I want to try something new on you. But you have to promise you won't move for 15 seconds.
Hb7: Haha, what is it?
Rob: Maybe you'll find out.
Hb7: Haha, okay!
Rob: Alright, come here. *at this point I grab her, start kissing her neck while simultaneously grabbing a breast with one hand and pulling her hair with the other*
Hb7: *smile from cheek to cheek* Woah
Rob: Haha, what?
Hb7: I liked the way you grabbed my hair and did what you wanted to do [with me].
Rob: *gives her a smirk*
Hb7: I would keep a little lighter with the hair pull, though :yes:
Rob: I'll keep that in mind.
Hb7: I'll be back. *Leaves and my wing high fives me*
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2 hours later
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My wing is opening a set as my protege and I are dancing to random songs. Hb7 is dancing in front of me. "Do you want to dance up there with me?" she says. "Let's go," I say as I grab her by the hand and walk towards the stage. We start dancing/grinding and having a little dance battle. I get closer and closer and then get low dancing to hip-hop, haha. At one point I feel a tap on my shoulder: it is girl 1 (Blonde Swedish girl from 3 weeks ago. See "girl 1" under my previous thread: here). She gives me IOI's, starts talking to me and asks me to sing with her friend (hb7, see "girl 2" in said thread). As this is happening, the girl dancing in front of me starts dancing harder trying to keep my attention on her. For a minute, there are three women trying to get my attention. I agree to sing with the Swedish girl and keep dancing with hb7. When the song ends, I decide to try something new and grab her by the arms and bring her near me. "Do you want to know a secret?" I ask hb7. "Sure," she replies. "I really want to kiss you right now." She starts smiling and says "haha, you must be kidding." I smile and then walk away.

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An hour later
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She comes back and asks what wing, protege, and I are doing. We tell her we're going to restaurant XYZ; she asks if she can come and I agree. We begin walking:

Hb7: There was an Indian guy back there saying he recognizes me. He thinks I am a lesbian porn star. I explained I am not that girl and he insisted, haha.
Rob: *I frown*
Hb7: I am into dudes, not chicks...ew. *right as she looks at my eyes and links our arms.* You know, I am actually a model.
Rob: Oh, a hand model?
Hb7:
Rob: Oh...I get it. You're one of those people who sketches stuff.
Hb7: No! I am a lingerie model for XYZ British company.
Rob: Oooh la la...aren't you cool?
Hb7: *smiles and punches my arm* You're a jerk!

We arrive at the restaurant and my wing and I sit down. Some dude comes up to her and starts hugging her and looks like they know each other. My wing sports a gorgeous set of Iranian girls in front of us that glanced at us. Twenty seconds later, hb7 looks like this "save me!" she wispers as the dude hugs her. I shake my head and walk that direction. I pull her away from the dude; he resist and I say "she's coming with me dude." The other dude backs away and hb starts thanking me.

Wing: Did you guys see that?!
Iranian hbs: Haha, yeah. OMG, we would have saved her had he not gone!
Wing: Wasn't that awesome? *props for being a good wing*
Iranian hbs: Haha..*indisdinct words to wing as we are sitting on stools against an outdoor, long table facing the street.*
Hb7: Oh my gosh, thank you so much! *hugs me* oh...boy, he's looking over here. I don't think he gets it. Let me try something. *hb grabs me by the shirt and starts making out with me*
Rob: *surprised by the situation, I kiss her back. We last about 2 minutes*
Hb7: Wow, that...was way better than what I had anticipated.
Iranian hbs: *smiling and giving obvious IOI's in response to make out*
Hb7: Hold on, I don't think he saw it. *lays her lips on me for another 2 minutes*
Iranian hbs: *they seem to be enjoying this and smile a lot*
Wing: So tell me guys *starts conversation with Iranian girls*
Hb7: So, Robyn...I want to ask you..*makes out with me again and starts grabbing me. I grab her back and start feeling tits, abs and @ss.* :yes:
Wing: Look, look, those girls are making out over there!
Rob: What? Ohh...*I still don't know why you did this Austin, haha*
Hb7: *sits on my leg* You know, I would do this, but you're probably going to want a relationship with me and stuff.
Rob: And what makes you think that?
Hb7: Because you are a guy and that's how you guys work.
Rob: You are categorizing me, kid :nono: You don't know me.
Hb7: You're right. I'm sorry, it's just convenient. I should have asked you.
The thing is...I have a boyfriend in (city 400 miles away).
Rob: Haha, so? I'm not asking you to marry me, woman.
Hb7: You don't care?
Rob: I see you right here, right now and that is all that matters ;]
Hb7: *starts making out with me and touches me. I cut her short and push her away and her jaw drops* Is your food ready yet?
Rob: We didn't order anything--just hanging out with Austin because he came all the way from (50 miles away).
Iranian hbs: you're from (county?) *wing asks something*
Rob: (to Iranian hbs) you guys are best friends, huh? *and get into a conversation with them to punish hb7 for behaving in an entitled manner. I continue for another 2 minutes & hb7 just stands there and talks to me*
Rob: *I turn around grab her, kiss her passionately and kino all over* I want to do things to you *I say to her ear.* Soo...where do you live again?
Hb7: *smiles* I live with two roommates and both are home.
Rob: Did I mention I live ten minutes away in a quiet place?
Hb7: haha, I am not going anywhere...I really have to be home.
Rob: That's cool. No need to rush anything...
Hb7: *smiles*
Rob: *silent and looking at her eyes in a sexual manner*
Hb7: *gigles* But you know what...any other time of the month is good. Let me give you my number. *punches number in my phone* Call me so that I get yours.
Iranian hbs: *get pulled by some dudes and my wing is alone*
Rob: Cool.
Hb7: Bye! *kisses me one more time and gives me the phuck me eyes*

At this point, my protege comes back. "Robyn...do you have a condom?" I hand him one and he smiles. "Girl 2?" I ask him as I hand him a condom. "Actually, I'm going to need two. I just got a 3 sum with the Swedish girls, haha" he says. Note that these are the same girls that fought over him 3 weeks ago (see thread above). My wing and I give him some tips. Protege leaves and my wing and I go home to play video games because we're bored. When we get home, I have a text from hb7.

Hb7: I have to be honest. It was very tempting to go home with you. If you're still up for it, I'll see what's going on later this week
Rob: (next day) Hmm...as long as you wear cute British lingerie! Can't promise it will stay on or dry, though.

 

[Masculinity]

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Next night
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I'm hanging out at the same karaoke place and hb7 comes up to me at the end of the night. She sees me talking to the blonde Swedish girl and her friend who want my protege and I to go home with them.

6ft Swedish hb: You had sex with my friend and your friend had sex with my other friend. Now you owe me My friend and I are going back to Sweden in two weeks. You should come with us and see (girl I banged).
Rob: Ahhh...that sounds like fun. Unfortunately I have to go to school!
Swedish hb: You suck!
Rob: *I smile, smack her in the butt and walk away.*

Hb7 comes back out of nowhere and yells out my name, so I turn around.

Hb7: Hey, so what are you doing?
Rob: These Swedish girls want to hangout with protege and I.
Hb7: Oh, I'm actually going home.
Rob: *I isolate her* What's on your mind?
Hb7: You know what's on my mind
Rob: *I pin her against the wall and we make out*
Random black guy: Get a room! Haha...
Fellow singer walking by: Wh0res! Haha...
Hb7: Don't listen to them...they're just jealous, haha.

Long story short, I take her to my place and lay her on my bed. She asks me to play some music and then I engage in foreplay for about 30 minutes kissing her everywhere.

Hb7: You are teasing me!
Rob: Haha, someone is seriously horny *as I feel the soaking wet poon*
Hb7: Someone is really sure of himself!
Rob: What is it about me that turns you on so much?
Hb7: Haha...*she starts stuttering as I finger her for 10 minutes; she is a screamer so I have to muffle her mouth, haha. She grabs my penis* Rob, I want you to phuck me. Do you want to phuck me?
Rob: Umm...
Hb7: You have to think about it?
Rob: I want to do this a little longer * I keep fingering & get on top of her*
Hb7: Phuck me, Robyn.
Rob: All you have to say is one word; it starts with "PL" & ends with "ease."
Hb7: *smiles* Oh, I'm not going to beg.
Rob: Okay, then. *I start getting off from on top of her. She pulls me back*
Hb7: Robyn, could you please phuck me?
Rob: Haha, sure

I bang her like there is no tomorrow for about an hour.

Hb7: Oh my God, I'm going to need water if you want me to keep going, haha. You last a long time!
Rob: *I get her some water and she climbs on top of me & blows me for 10 minutes. We finish and lay on the bed*
Hb7: I have had three orgasms in the last two years and you gave more than that in one night. My God, that was amazing. You really know how to handle a girl
Rob: *I give her a smirk*
Hb7: Can we go to bed? You got me exhausted, haha.
Rob: *I embraced her and then sang to her eyes*
Hb7: I love your voice. I will make it worth your while tomorrow. I like to sleep naked!

It's 7am and I wake up next morning and see a girl with the nicest tits laying on my bed and decide to phuck her again. She blows me for about 15 minutes and we bang for an hour again.

Hb7: How old are you?
Rob: How old are you?
Hb7: I'm 26, you?
Rob: *giggles* I'm twenty twooo.
Hb7: *Smiles* Wow, that's interesting. That's interesting...that's very interesting.

I take her home and right before she goes inside we make out again. She walks away and says "thank you for giving me a lovely night. Just, thank you for everything I'll see you next week!"

Points learned:

-Be patient: if you don't get tail tonight, you will another day.
-On the other hand, be persistent so that you have a balance between the 2.
-Don't be afraid to speak up your mind and challenge women.
-You will get sh!t tested on a constant basis; learn how to handle it.
-Don't be embarrassed of your sexuality and go for the women you want.
-Being direct is awesome!

Feel free to ask any questions or make any comments.

Keep being money,

-Rob

 

[teachmedjs]

great stuff! but can you elaborate how you went from talking to grabbing her breast and kissing her on the neck without being turned back? how much time elapsed between you building rapport, and getting that physical?

 

[ladyzman]

Sounds like you were on fire. Good for you. What did you say to her when she asked you if you cared she had a boyfriend?

 

[Masculinity]

great stuff! [A] but can you elaborate how you went from talking to grabbing her breast and kissing her on the neck without being turned back? how much time elapsed between you building rapport, and getting that physical?

A: I always see her there, so I inferred that I had nothing to loose. I told her I wanted to try something new on her and not to move for 15 seconds. She had agreed once before--not to move for 5 seconds--under the same circumstances, so I figured I had a good shot and then I started touching and kissing her; I did not ask for permission.

B: I have seen this woman around for about 3 months and basically had a "hi and bye" relationship, so that definitely played a part into this situation; she was an acquaintance. The actual time I spent building rapport was 1-2 hours from the moment we actually began talking to the moment when I sexualized her.

Hope it helps.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Robyn, Nice Field Reports man. I need to come out in L.A. and we need to have a competition for sure. See who can bang the most girls within a week. I always wanted to go to LA too. But anyway you should make a summer journal. I made one so I can look back on it in the future haha.

Great stuff! playa. I will have some great field reports to come next week because I'm making a little roadtrip to South Georgia!

Keep up the good work playa.

 

[Asasione]

I don't get this "I don't want to reveal my game" nonsense you keep saying, it's not as if you used a magical trick! Just skip the skits and tell the story, makes me wonder why you're so invested in tactics (outer game) when I'm sure you know game is more than the words you say. Good stuff showing her a good time throughout the whole process.

You didn't have a one night stand, doesn't qualify in my opinion, has to be cold approach and lay within a night not several months of greetings and two nights to get her in the sack, again don't understand why you choose to identify it as such? Enjoy the journey and wish you the best of luck.

 

[Masculinity]

Sounds like you were on fire. Good for you. What did you say to her when she asked you if you cared she had a boyfriend?

Thanks, bro. I told her "I see you right here right now and that's all that matters." I then started kissing and touching her. She kept saying "I have to go home," so I felt up her vulva over her pants and felt it warm; I also felt her nipples and they were erect, so I said to her ear "your mouth is saying you want to leave, but your body is saying you want me to phuck the crap out of you " She smiled and that's when she punched her # in my phone.

Robyn, Nice Field Reports man. I need to come out in L.A. and we need to have a competition for sure. See who can bang the most girls within a week. I always wanted to go to LA too. But anyway you should make a summer journal. I made one so I can look back on it in the future haha.

Great stuff! playa. I will have some great field reports to come next week because I'm making a little roadtrip to South Georgia!

Keep up the good work playa.

Thanks PrettyBoy! Dude, I remember the days when we were in the same approach anxiety competition because we were scared to talk to women. Man, have things changed since then. I am down for hanging out and I look forward to reading your FR! Hit me up.

 

[ladyzman]

Thanks, bro. I told her "I see you right here right now and that's all that matters."

No problem. I know what it's like to have a good day. Also that's a good line to use.

One of your learning points is to not be embarrassed by your sexuality. What did you mean by that exactly?

 

[Kenny Powers]

This is pretty boss dude. Why'd you bail on the hot swedish girl though? Also while it was pretty ballsy to tell HB7 you wanted to kiss her then walk away. Does doing that usually work?

Its kinda diick though to leave out the best and most helpful parts by just saying you "spit game". C'mon man! I live on the otherside of the country, don't think there will be too much overlap in our game.

 

[OC Speedball]

This was a fun night indeed! Although for me the last time we went to this bar was better. Haha. Drinking Jack Daniels beforehand messed up my game; halfway through the night I was useless. If anyone is in LA you should come out with us. Southern California in the summer is packed with insanely hot girls wearing very little clothing.

Congrats again on the lay Robyn. Your field reports are always great...although, I skimmed through this one because I was there and you told me what happened on Saturday! I still can't believe Jay got a threesome when just a few months ago he was a beta whiteknight.

(PS: I have no idea what the lines are Robyn is "keeping secret." So don't ask me. What I will tell you is that the pointer I gave Jay for a threesome was to use Mystery's "Dual Induction Massage" technique. He did it and it worked. He got the threesome )

 

[Masculinity]

I don't get this "I don't want to reveal my game" you keep saying, I'm sure you know game is more than the words you say. Good stuff showing her a good time throughout the whole process.

You didn't have a one night stand, doesn't qualify in my opinion, has to be cold approach and lay within a night not several months of greetings and two nights to get her in the sack, again don't understand why you choose to identify it as such?

Haha, I edited the thread so you guys can see what I said. What you said it's true: it all comes down to your game and not your words. You can use the exact same words I used in another context and not get the same result. Thanks for the comment. I consider it a ONS because the actual seduction and banging happened in a 24-hour span. Not everyone will have the same perspective, though. So if you don't think it was a ONS I can see your argument.

This is pretty boss dude. [A] Why'd you bail on the hot swedish girl though? (B) Also while it was pretty ballsy to tell HB7 you wanted to kiss her then walk away. Does doing that usually work?

[C] Its kinda diick though to leave out the best and most helpful parts by just saying you "spit game". C'mon man! I live on the otherside of the country, don't think there will be too much overlap in our game.

A: I had to choose between the girl I banged and the Swedish girl because I have a limited number of c0cks Haha, to answer your question: my friend had a 3 sum with the two Swedish girls the night before this happened. And the whole thought of banging a girl my friend banged does not appeal to me. Did other dudes bang her before me? Sure. However, it is not the same thing. There are so many women where I live that I just rather get a new plate. On the other hand, I still hangout with the Swedish broads because they may bring other babes with them anytime

B: Psychologically, you want what you cannot have. I was "testing the water" when I told her about me wanting to kiss her. Most women are very beta and I wanted to see how she would react if I planted a seed in her mind letting her know I found her appealing. After that, I just kicked back--instead of chasing like most guys--and see how she reacted. I anticipated her reciprocating in some kind of way and that night it was a make out. I love how she put up the whole "I have to kiss you to make that guy go away" facade, though. Haha, man I love game.

C: Haha, yeah I changed my mind regarding keeping some lines secret. Hope it helps!

 

[Masculinity]

One of your learning points is to not be embarrassed by your sexuality. What did you mean by that exactly?

I meant that you should not apologize for or try to mask your sexuality pretending to want to be friends with a woman. Most guys think that becoming a woman's friend for a long time is the way to transition into a sexual or romantic relationship; while that many work a fraction of the time, it fails the majority of the time. Hence, don't be afraid to approaching a woman directly and telling her you find her attractive.

Drinking Jack Daniels beforehand messed up my game; halfway through the night I was useless.

Congrats again on the lay Robyn. Your field reports are always great...I still can't believe Jay got a threesome when just a few months ago he was a beta whiteknight.

Drinking messed you up? How did this happen?

Thanks, man! I still can't believe how much progress he has made, either. I'm curious to see what he'll pull next.

 

[Gray The Prince]

absolutely amazing

 

[Kenny Powers]

Solid stuff dude, appreciate you posting your "game" haha. I know you said you've seen HB7 at that place before, but was that your first time talking to her? I ask cause you made out with her pretty much immediately. I know its important to be sexual but damn. Im gonna have to try that this weekend. Hopefully wont get slapped

 

[Black.Magic]

Solid gold. If SS were 90% made up of field reports like this, noobs would remain noobs for approximately 30 seconds.

Keep up the good work

 

[Masculinity]

absolutely amazing

Thanks, Gray. How have you been? I haven't heard from you in a while.

Solid gold. If SS were 90% made up of field reports like this, noobs would remain noobs for approximately 30 seconds.

Keep up the good work

Thanks, bro!

Solid stuff dude, appreciate you posting your "game" haha. I know you said you've seen HB7 at that place before, but was that your first time talking to her? I ask cause you made out with her pretty much immediately. I know its important to be sexual but damn. Im gonna have to try that this weekend. Hopefully wont get slapped

You're welcome. No, that wasn't the first time I talked to her. We had a "hi and bye" relationship until one day I brought up sex and she said "I don't phuck my friends." The first time I talked to her I accused her of having fake boobs and she immediately said no. I said "come here" and starting feeling her tits. Her friends' mouths dropped and she smiled. When I saw that smile, I knew that I was in with her I shrugged off her trying to friend-zone me. A few weeks later I tried again and I kissed her neck...fast forward to the present and now I have banged her :yes:

I don't approach like crazy, but when I do it I am aggressive. I don't like playing "chase the bunny to get the tail," either she wants me or she doesn't.
It got me two lays in less than a month so far! About getting slapped: one of my good mentors used to say "if you don't take one on the jaw sometimes, you are not trying hard enough." :trouble: